How to arrange their youth, and how should girls arrange their youth planning?

It's normal to not be able to let go of the past, first of all, don't think it's strange on your psychological side.

Some people quickly let go, and that is a saint and not a mortal like us.

In fact, you already know that it's wrong not to let go, so why can't you try to let go?

At the age of 21, you are still young, and you can think of the gap between reality and dreams, and you have actually seen the problem clearly.

How? You tell me? Will we continue to widen this gap or will we close it?

No one says you're crippled unless you think you're imperfect. You have the best age, the best youth of your life. At this age, you still have a lot of opportunities.

Sometimes it's sad to think too much, so it's better to think about what to do now. If you don't know what to do, start by learning a technique that you don't hate yet. To live is to do something, otherwise it will only be more sad.

Society will abandon some people, and society is indeed unfair. But if you want to do well, you will still find your own foothold.

To be alive is to hope.

Learn more things, learn everything you can't learn from your hobbies.

For example, Cantonese and English, Jack Ma said it well: when he first learned English, he was just a hobby, but now he uses it.

Learn more.

Then get some work to do.

Does it matter if the family has money?

You can find a school to study

Someone said, "There is no good wood on the side of the mountain, but all the good wood is in the mountain." Those who have the ability are also looking for them in prison. ”

Let go of the burden, the past is like yesterday's death, and today's everything is like today's life. Find a regular job, work first, and then go to night school, and the time schedule is full, and it feels fulfilling. If you learn something new every day, you will feel that it has not been in vain, and if you feel the meaning of existence, you will not be pessimistic.

Lenin once said that a person who has not entered is not a perfect person!

Comrade, since God has given you a unique experience, you should use it, no matter what.

Be a down-to-earth person, and God will not forget you!

Do more good deeds to make up for mistakes, in order to eliminate the discrimination of others, do good deeds to be on TV interviews, or awards, glorious titles, step by step, notoriety must be eliminated with a good name.

It's never too late to make mistakes and really change them, as long as you treat others sincerely, you will have the same reward! In fact, you can do anything, as long as you are willing to endure hardships, do a small business, and at the same time you can study some majors.

Hello landlord! In fact, the most important thing of "youth" is to invest in it, enjoy the process, and do not need to deliberately plan in detail. As long as the general direction is clear and does not deviate from the track, it is fine.

Sometimes a life that is too rigid can be boring, so it's better to enjoy the variables and surprises of life! Here are some of my suggestions to refer to:

1. Improve cultural literacy. In a narrow sense, it means to study hard, read more famous books, and collect some famous quotes, and in a broad sense, it is to enrich one's heart and expand one's horizons. A cultured and thoughtful girl will make people feel vivid and beautiful.

2. Know how to live delicately. A girl's life is best neat and delicate. Learn to take care of yourself, learn to play at the same time, and relax to a certain extent. Don't rely too much on others, learn some necessary life skills and be kind to yourself.

3. Treat feelings rationally. Whether it is friendship or love, adolescence will always experience some emotional fluctuations, when facing such problems, we must not be blind, learn to treat rationally, calmly analyze, and deal with problems maturely. You'll get a lot of bang for it.

Above. Reference. Good luck.

Study hard first, have your own stable job or career, and then talk about marriage, so that men will not marry you and then point at your nose and say that you are useless, you will not do anything, and they will rely on him.

Study hard and enrich yourself.