How can there be such in laws? Have you ever met such in laws?

There shouldn't be so much estrangement between parents and children, and the in-laws didn't ask if you would go home for the New Year, maybe think about it from a different angle, will it be because you don't want to embarrass you? Now there are a lot of children who are only children, where to spend the New Year is indeed very contradictory, and you do not exist, and if you want to go back to the New Year, you take the initiative to fight ** is not more kind. As for birthdays, it's even more trivial, your husband can even tell them directly that they want to go home for their birthdays, depending on what they say, or you can go to grandma's house together to make grandma happy!

Therefore, I don't think there is any outstanding contradiction between the family and the neighborhood, it's just whether the handling is appropriate, there are things that everyone often communicates more, and they all say that the family affairs are unreasonable, and you, as a wife, should find some reasons for your in-laws to excuse your husband, so that he will not be so depressed during the New Year, right?

I believe that your whole family will be happy!

Hehe, hello, I don't have much to say, only one sentence, there is no parent in the world who does not love their children.

1 Not biological.

2 Parents are iron-blooded.

3 Forgetfulness in old age.

Hehe! Communicate more and communicate more, you should be grateful to your in-laws, because they gave you a good husband.

1. Learn to communicate with each other.

2. Respect each other.

3. Give in to each other.

4. Understand each other.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, as long as your husband loves you, it's okay, after all, you live with your husband a lot! Moreover, you can go and communicate with your in-laws!

My cousin's in-laws are probably the best in-laws I've ever seen for my daughter-in-law.

I'm not at home all the year round, and I'm envious)

Here are some of the little things I've seen.

part1My sister belongs to the snack type, and when she usually talks about what to eat, her mother-in-law will cook it for the second meal.

part2 When my sister gave birth to a baby, my mother-in-law gave gold ornaments, and the baby was the same as the adult, taking care of my sister's feelings, rather than focusing on her grandchildren. In many of our parents, the daughter-in-law only cares about the baby after her life.

part3 Because my sister and brother-in-law just got married, my sister is still teaching in the countryside, and every time I go back to the city, it is very troublesome, and I have to wait for the shuttle bus (ps: my brother-in-law is in the city and did not buy a car). So her father-in-law asked her sister to train a car, and as soon as she got the certificate, she gave her an SUV to her sister.

part4 In a summer vacation, when my sister was going to borrow a notebook from me because she was not good at it, her father-in-law knew about it, and her father-in-law didn't make a sound, and went out to bring a pink notebook back, and said, "You should like it."

Explanation: My sister's father-in-law is just an ordinary retired elementary school teacher, and she really treats her sister as a daughter.

His in-laws are very comfortable to get along with, and there is no adult frame and an adult sense of proportion.

If my in-laws and daughter-in-law get along well, they are very harmonious, and to be honest, my in-laws have not done the most chilling things, but have done things that have touched me a lot. For example:

1. Buy daily necessities in advance.

During the pregnancy of the mother, many elders are afraid that their vision will not match, so they will let the mother prepare daily necessities by herself. If your in-laws have bought you diapers, sleeping bags, quilts and home clothes for your baby's confinement in advance, then you must thank your attentive in-laws. With these daily necessities, Bao Ma will be very worry-free during confinement.

Let's take the sleeping bag as an example, babies are very afraid of heat when they sleep at night, like to kick the quilt, and are prone to colds and fevers. Xingzheng Zao prepares a cotton comfortable sleeping bag in advance, which can absorb a lot of sweat when the baby sleeps, make him sleep more soundly, and also prevent the baby from getting cold.

2. Do not participate in the life of parents.

Many old people will treat their daughter-in-law as an outsider, and when the daughter-in-law quarrels with her son, she will always think that her son is right and the daughter-in-law is unreasonable. In fact, the reason for many family disagreements is because there is an unreasonable in-law, if they are oriented to their son for a long time, it will not only lead to the deterioration of their relationship between husband and wife, but also make the daughter-in-law feel that she has no sense of existence in this family. Therefore, whether many families are happy or not, the reason for a number of points depends on whether their in-laws are reasonable.

When a husband and wife quarrel, the in-laws do not interfere or intervene, which is to contribute to the harmony of the family.

The warmest in-laws I've ever seen are a smiling and loving old couple. They live in harmony and hug often, with love in their eyes; They take care of each other, care for each other, respect each other, and are full of warm love.

They are a warm and friendly old couple, who wear beautiful clothes every day, greet each other with a smile, they often go for a walk in the park together, watch movies together, and participate in various envy activities together, like two lovers.

They get along with people in society with enthusiasm, they often go to charity activities, help the poor, help those in need, they are willing to share, they are willing to help, they are willing to give warmth to others.

They are also very kind to the children, they often go into the children's rooms, talk to them, listen to them, encourage them, and also give them small gifts to make them feel warm and feel safe.

They have a loving warmth, when we are with them, we feel their love, their warmth, they always care about us, and say to us in kind words, their kindness and love make us feel an incomparable warmth.

The warmest in-laws I have ever met, they have deep love, they have warm care, they put family first, they go on trips together, they share fast brothers together, they also spread love and compassion in daily life, making people feel warm and happy.

They are the most heartwarming in-laws, they have vitality and kindness, and their love has deeply affected me, making me feel a warm and deep love, making me feel safe and grounded.