What if my dad always treats me like a child?

Children, in front of your parents, you will always be a child, you will never grow up, even your parents will be regarded as children by grandparents in front of your grandparents, the old man believes that this is the consciousness of modern middle-aged people, and it can also be regarded as a generation gap.

With the development of society and the progress of science and technology, and the improvement of education level, today's middle school students cannot be compared with the middle school students of 20 years ago, but your parents still know you according to the concept of middle school students of their age, so the difference in understanding causes parents to prejudice against you, which is the root of your parents treating you as a child.

Children, if you want to completely change your "status" in the hearts of your parents and you'has grown up", you have to do one or two things that are not vigorous, but can also make your parents look at you with admiration and respect, what to do, the old man thinks that with your intelligence and wisdom he can choose, from now on, parents will not underestimate you, what do you think?

It's so normal, and it's all about time.

In fact, 4 years is fast, it will be fleeting (you will be 18 in 4 years) because my high school is a boarding system, there is very little time to go home in three years.

Now that I think about the fact that I rarely talked to my father in the three years of junior high school, it was a bit too late.

Communicate more, communicate more.

I can't help much, but everyone has this kind of trouble when they are 14 years old...

As for ls, it's a bit too much to say that the second disease...

If you can't resist, why not prove yourself with strength?

Do things that show you are independent, such as cooking and cleaning alone, which are small but enough to show that you can be independent.

No matter how old a person is, he will always be a child in the eyes of his parents, and the only way to prove that he is mature is to do something independent, prove that he can survive independently, and let his parents rest assured.

I remember writing a secret diary when I was in the second grade of junior high school = = The notebook was still locked, but my mother didn't care about it and opened the diary to read it = = My mother kept nagging and nagging.

Now, more than a decade ago; Alone in Shanghai, when I received my mother's ** on the weekend, I suddenly felt so kind = = Now if I go home again, I think my mother is very annoying = =

This feeling comes and goes, and this problem = = may not be solved in itself, and my number is still blocked = =

It's natural, your dad cares too much about you. That's why it's like this.

I suggest you try to follow his instructions as much as possible. And do something to convince him that you're sensible.

Hehe!!! Friend! You are the same as I used to think!!

I was in basically the same situation as you before!! But now that I'm 20 years old, I think back to what a kid I was back then!! At that time, I thought that I had grown up, but when I really grew up, I felt that I was really a child before!!

You'd better listen to your dad now!! Seriously !! What Personal Experience Tells You!!

It's simple, prove yourself with your actions. Communicate more with your dad.

Normal... You're only at the beginning of 2, no, it's better to be at the beginning of 3... But until you die, he will think that you are a child, and you will do the same to your child.

Don't quarrel with him, it's useless.

In his eyes, you will always be a child.

Whether you are a child or not depends on whether you are mature or not.

Basically, when you start a family, your parents will recognize that you have grown up, you are an adult, and you have your own family.

Then you just treat your dad as a child.

When he becomes a curious child, it's fine.

When I was a kid, my dad was like that.

You can ignore him, flash when you see him, and after a long time, he won't provoke you if he finds it boring.

Don't argue, your secret, it's good not to be discovered, if it's discovered, there's no way, and there's no need to rush to ask your father to understand you, it's too difficult, if communication always works, the earth will be at peace a long time ago.

Have a good talk with him, tell him that you should have a little space for yourself now, and promise not to go too far.

And he consumes, he can't consume yours.

Take off your pants on the spot and show him -,-

This problem is not only yours, most Chinese parents are all kinds of reassuring about their children, even if you are an adult, even if you do not know the destiny of heaven, in their eyes, you are their baby, the meat of their hearts. You can't tolerate harm, like a child who is easy to make mistakes, afraid that you will take their detours, suffer losses, and all kinds of worries.

First, be considerate of your parents' painstaking efforts. Raising children knows the kindness of your parents, and most of you are adults who are not parents. To put it mildly, no matter how you are, you are your mother's treasure after all the hardships, pregnancy for ten months, and patience with pain.

Your birthday is Good Friday for your parents. When you were young, the falls you fell, and the injuries you suffered are still fresh in their eyes, and they have raised you for many years and have been deeply impressed, and they are afraid that you will be hurt by making such mistakes again, so they always treat you as a child.

Second, even if you are an adult, your experience is the tip of the iceberg compared to that of your parents. There is a proverb: the rice you have eaten is not as good as the salt your parents ate.

Many times, your parents' chatter annoys you, and you often make mistakes because of your irritability, your conceit, and your sense of independence.

Third, you can talk to your parents and say what you think. People who love you will not completely ignore your feelings, even if they sometimes don't agree with you, they will listen to the part, go back and think about the mode of getting along with you, and make the best choices that appear in their minds in their eyes for the next various kinds of relationships with you.

Fourth, regard your parents' nagging as a kind of happiness and pride, there are many people who do not have a complete family, and there are many poor children, parents go away to work in order to live, and miss like a kite with a broken string, and they don't know where to put it.

Yes, we are indeed adults according to the legal age, but this does not mean that your mind is also mature, so your parents always treat you as a child, and in the eyes of your parents, you will always be just a child, don't ask your parents to let go and let you fly by yourself.

In my opinion, when you have this distress, it completely exposes your immaturity, if you are really mature, you will naturally think for others, understand why parents always look at you, treat you as a child, what your parents have experienced, the people you have gotten, the meals you have eaten, and the roads you have walked are much more than yours, and he knows what is good and what is not, so he always wants to tell you what he knows, so that you will be less hurt and take fewer detours.

In my opinion, there are two suggestions for reference in the face of the problem of parents who have always regarded themselves as children after they have become adults:

First, it is necessary to take a correct view of the attitude of parents and carry out appropriate empathy and understanding. In the minds of parents, the age of a child is just a number, and parents' attitude towards their children will not change because of age. The essence of this psychological existence is determined by the blood relationship between parents and children, and the role of parents has subconsciously positioned the child.

This kind of psychology is universal and is something that happens in every family in social life. At the same time, it should be noted that when you are a father and a mother, it may be the same. Therefore, appropriate empathy is a necessary process, and it should be understood from the perspective of parents, and the parents' practices cannot be blindly denied.

Second, change yourself and prove yourself. When parents can't treat their children as adults, it is largely due to the fact that the children are immature in all aspects, and they do not let parents see what adults should be, that is to say, in the parents' realistic concept, you only meet the age requirements, but there is no actual performance to prove that you are an adult. When you encounter this situation, you need to prove it for yourself, so that your parents can feel that you are capable of maturity in both speech and behavior and in the world, so that you can prove it for yourself and give your parents a sense of steadiness.

There are no parents who don't want their children to really grow up, and they don't need parental care and care, but this kind of confidence is difficult to find in their children.

I feel that no matter how old you are, you are still a child by your parents' side, and you should learn to accept this title. However, you can also show your parents what you are capable of so that your parents don't just treat you like a child.

The basis for judging a person's growth is not to look at his size or age, but to see whether his mind is mature. No matter how tall you are, as long as you don't have the ability to communicate with the outside world in your dreams, then you are a person who can't take care of himself, and in the eyes of others, he is a child-like existence.

And if you want your parents to treat you like a child all the time, then you have to do something. For example, if the toilet is blocked at home and your parents are not at home, then what you need to do is to give the property a ** and let them repair it instead of waiting for the parents to come back.

Take good care of their siblings, the most gratifying thing for parents is that the child can take care of other people, when he takes care of other children like a little adult, parents will find that the child has grown up.

When you're out and about, don't go home and cry to your parents when you encounter something. You have to learn to solve your own problems. And all you need to do is go home and say hello to your parents after a busy day.

The suggestion on the 2nd floor is ridiculous, first of all, a family should put communication first, don't think that they are big, some things have their own clear judgment, I am 26 years old, I have worked for 5 years, but I often make some mistakes. So communication is necessary.

But at this age, it's really time to break into the world, but don't say that you can take care of yourself on the grounds that you can do laundry and cooking, etc., in the eyes of parents, taking care of yourself is more often the resilience and handling of various emergencies, and it is normal for parents to be afraid that you will be hurt.

Therefore, parents should be guided in a more appropriate way.

In fact, sometimes you don't have to rush out, the family situation is different, don't compare anything with your classmates, because the parents' personalities are different, so they have their own views on the trade-off of letting go time, it is recommended that you can find a job in the local area first, do it for half a year and a year, you will find that your attitude to life and ideas have changed, and you will be more organized in dealing with some daily affairs, at this time your parents will naturally feel that their children have grown up and understand the trade-offs, (a joke, don't be angry, From your text, it has already been reflected that you are not comprehensive in analyzing things, how can this reassure the parents who are tired), at that time, you propose to go out and try, I think the success rate will be relatively large.

Because we will always be good babies in the hearts of our parents, even if we are married or old, we are still the most ideal good children in their minds.

is already an adult, and your parents still treat you as a child to watch Huaiyun, how can you do it? It is clear that your parents have a certain lack of parenting methods, you can take the initiative to communicate with him and let him change some attitudes towards you.

Now that you're an adult.

You might as well feast on your own.

And then say that parents treat you as a child.

Because you are all the children of your parents forever.