How to forget that someone you loved once never contacted again

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, it doesn't have to be like this, forget, in fact, it is impossible, but we bury it deep in our hearts, and we will not really forget! Since you have loved it deeply, then take it as the best memory, you can recall some sweet things to defeat those contradictions, confusion, and entanglement! People, you can no longer contact, it will be clear, in fact, when the breakup, unless you are still in a city, often meet, it is impossible not to contact, if it is in a different city, or not often meet, after a few more contacts, it will slowly not be contacted...

    You can wait. Time...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why should you forget if you have loved, you are destined to be unable to forget it if you love deeply, and it is a good way to bury it in your heart. If you have too many contradictions together and feel very tired, then it means that the two of you are not mature enough to accept each other, maybe you will grow up slowly in time, hone yourself, and go your own way with your love for him.

    I don't know if you're a man or a woman?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since there are too many contradictions, entanglements, confusion and tiredness together, why should we still connect. Isn't it good that not being together means liberation? No matter how deep you love, you have been, and you can only see the next beauty when you go out. That's what life is all about.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Delete everything about her, change numbers, move, delete QQ, and ignore it directly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Work hard, realize your own value, improve your quality of life, and suddenly one day you will find that he is not your cup of tea at all, and you will be glad that you are leaving.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After a long time, I forgot it unconsciously.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't think about her, the more you think about it, the harder it will be to forget, but why don't you use this experience as a tiptoe stone for the next time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you are tired, you have to choose to let go, and if you are confused, there is no direction.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Time is the best antidote.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Many people say that the best way to forget someone is to cut off all contact with them. When a person is cut off from all contact, you will never find his shadow in your life again, and it is very easy to forget about him at this time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How long does it take to forget someone you love without keeping in touch?

    The answer varies from person to person, but there is one thing in common: forgetting the person you once loved is never easy.

    The amount of time it takes to forget a person is closely related to the amount of imprint that person leaves on your mind, the depth of it, and the length of time you have been in a relationship.

    The deeper the imprint, that is, the deeper you love the other person, the less likely it is to forget, and the longer it takes, many people will not forget the person they once loved even for the rest of their lives. Maybe it will be forgotten after ten or decades through effort or over time, but those memories are just pressed into the depths of the memory, and once triggered by a certain introduction, those memories will reappear vividly in front of you.

    To try to get rid of a person, it's important to have the following factors:

    Time... Time is the medicine for the wounds, and at the same time it is the catalyst for forgetting others.

    Divert attention. Use your own interests and hobbies to fill in the current emotional gap and achieve the purpose of diverting attention.

    Regain new love. Putting your feelings into another person, because of the change of attention, will gradually put the former lover behind, after all, let him pass the past.

    Give up completely. Rationally analyze the situation, and in the case that it is irretrievable no matter what, it is better to give up completely and die of this heart. This factor can send the person you once loved into the cold palace of memory as soon as possible, and it is an important means to save yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to forget the person you love, it is not up to time, but up to you.

    No matter how much you loved each other before, as long as you made up your mind to forget about each other, it is possible that you can forget about each other overnight.

    I feel that I can't forget each other because I can't let go, and I have an unwillingness to not get it, and I also have a sense of loss. Under the domination of these feelings, you will infinitely magnify the good of the other person, and always trap yourself in the memories of the past.

    If you want to end a relationship completely and forget about each other, you should understand that what you have lost is the past, and you should focus more on the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I feel that in this case, it only takes half a year to forget about a person you love. And you will forget it completely.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ten years or more. Because I think that if you love someone who loves you, then I think it takes a very long time to forget.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I can forget about two months or so. It's hard to expire for a month or so, and the next month or so is enough to forget a person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A year or so, a year can make people forget a lot of things, but it still depends on how deep your love is.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For a long time, the depth of love, although I usually deliberately ignore the memory, but from time to time I still think about it occasionally.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you only touch your heart's feelings, the other party refuses to accept them, and you will generally forget them in the short term. When I meet others, I will continue to love them the same. Good friend Xiao Jin is 29 years old this year and doesn't have a girlfriend yet.

    At the company's annual meeting, he met a colleague who had just joined the company, and then fell in love with someone else. However, when I confessed to the other party later, I realized that I already had a boyfriend, and Xiaojin was very embarrassed.

    We all thought that Jin would be hit, but unexpectedly, a month later, Jin took his new love to drink coffee in a café next to the company. Originally, Xiao Jin's girlfriend was recommended by this colleague. On the other hand, I feel that Xiaojin is a very good person, and it happens that there is a cousin who is about the same standard as Xiaojin and is very old.

    She recommended her cousin to Xiaojin, and she didn't expect it.

    If you only love a little bit of affection, you will soon forget. Since there has been no contact between you and him, neither of you has been stuck in each other's hearts for too long. Most of them are passers-by who have no fate and just pass by.

    This is the kind of feeling that each of us will experience in the journey of life. It just so happens that he has feelings for you, so pass it. If the other party doesn't love you, then stop abruptly.

    This is the importance of each other, and it is the most decent way to solve emotional problems, which is helpful to others and themselves.

    Liu Yifei and Song Chengxian filmed "The Third Love".

    fell in love because of the drama and became a couple. Liu Yifei is known as the "fairy sister", and Song Chengxian is due to the filming of "Blue Life and Death Love".

    And the popular "cold male god", the two men are talented and beautiful, and they are very compatible. After the release of the relationship, many fans sent blessings one after another, and the relationship between the two has always been very good. However, Song Chengxian and Liu Yifei still couldn't achieve a positive result, and they only talked about falling in love for two and a half years before the divorce broke out.

    There are many opinions about the reasons for the breakup, such as the difference of ten years, foreign love, foreign love, ......All in all, the relationship between two people has been difficult to hold.

    Now, the two people are quietly living their daily lives, not disturbing each other, and not interfering with the other party, perhaps this relationship has long been indifferent in each other's hearts. Two people who have truly loved each other, no matter what the reason, can't continue to be emotional, it's not that they can forget it, it takes a while to learn to let go. It is a kind of good luck to love and get it, and it is inevitable that you can't love if you want to love.

    For whether you want to love or not, it is more important for everyone to enlighten themselves and not to fall into the love of the past.

    Because, in love, the hurt is usually more loved by the loving party. And the relativity is not so lovely. She doesn't care about you, so he doesn't think too much about it, and of course he doesn't do any sexual harm.

    When it comes to love, if the other party doesn't love it, then turn around and find your true feelings. I firmly believe that if you have such thoughts, you will forget about him after a while, and then you will have a very happy life. If you see him again, it doesn't matter at all, the rest is full of blessings for each other.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on you personally, if you are a nostalgic person, it will take more than a year, if you are an extrovert and do not miss the original very much, it will only take about a month.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It may take 2 to 3 years for a person with deep affection, and it only takes 2 or 3 months for the average person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't really love someone, it's probably hard to keep it in your heart. When you love someone, you will always remember that if you don't love you, you may not care. Feelings are probably the cruelest thing in the world, you are the most beautiful when you love you, and if you don't love, you are nothing.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do 3 steps, don't deliberately forget, go with the flow, don't touch any items that are sold with the other party, and don't avoid the other party, let your life become full and funny, and it is easy to forget this person after a long time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as you often give hints to your heart and tell yourself that you can't think about it anymore, you can also divert your attention and do something you like, so that you can slowly stop thinking about this beloved person, and it will be more effective than not sending envy to contact you for a long time, and it will slowly fade away.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The first land needs enough time, and time can smooth everything out. Secondly, we must divert the attention of self-annihilation, develop our own hobbies, and shift the center of our lives. You can try to talk about a new love affair, which can also be solved.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That is, to do not hold the trace and deliberately forget, slowly put it down, keep yourself busy, and find things that interest you, so that you can really forget that person.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Think more about how bad he is for you, think more about how ugly he looks when he gets up every morning, and some bad habits of teasing him, and he has done some things to hurt you, as long as you think about his bad side, you will eventually get tired of him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Deleting all chats, and deleting all the ways to contact Yinjing, not paying attention to his life, and at the same time, not having careful contact with the friends he is fighting with, so that this person disappears from his life, if you can do these things, it is very useful.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What love is most afraid of is the indifference after deep friendship, and the calm after the excitement. If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't have been so sad, because I met you and knew the beauty of love, so I would be so lonely.

    If there comes a day when we don't contact each other anymore, it's not that I don't love you anymore, it's that I know we don't have a result and it's time to end it. I don't want to hurt your family, and I don't want to be a vandal.

    Sometimes, not being in touch doesn't mean you don't want to miss you, and not being in touch doesn't mean you don't love you. It is precisely because of love that I can only choose to let go. There are too many people to pay and cross together, so they can only endure the pain and cut their love, and they are all right.

    Thank God for allowing us to meet, although we are not together, but you have to take care of yourself. After all, we once loved, and love is so unforgettable, so I would like to bless you.

    I hope you are doing well, and some people still hope for him even if they are together.

    After all, we can't escape the arrangement of fate, it's not that we don't love enough, but we can't break free from reality, we met the right person at the wrong time, and we can only hide this love in our hearts.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let me show you a passage from Zhang Xiaolaixian

    Source After falling out of love, we total.

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