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I have no experience in this problem, but I also want to talk about my opinion, I think it depends on the depth of the relationship between the two, no matter which of the two sides dies first, I think the other will not be happy, think about the problem, the husband died, the wife and the child slept in front of the tombstone for three years, I think there should not be many such feelings, it can be seen that the husband and wife loved each other very much when the husband was alive.
I think how to face the death of a lover depends on the degree of affection between the two, the relationship is very good, one party dies, the other party will be very sad, I see that there are not a few women who cry and faint in front of their husband's grave, most women can not face the sudden death of their husbands, which is a big blow to the family or to themselves.
For the whole family, the husband is the pillar of the family, is the backer of the woman, in the face of the sudden death of the husband, the woman must not be able to accept, especially the relationship is usually very good, the husband dies, the woman wants to follow, but there are elderly people and children in the family who still need to be taken care of.
I think that for a good relationship, the husband dies, and the woman has to take care of the elderly on both sides in addition to the children and accidents, although it will be very hard, but after all, it is worth the hard work for the sake of the dead lover.
I miss my husband in my own hardship, and I gradually forget my husband in my hardship, and I want to live for the living, and I can't always miss the deceased, so I will have depression. The main thing is to divert your attention in the first two years of your husband's death, don't do nothing every day, just think about your husband, find something to do for yourself, time will heal all wounds.
I remember when my grandfather died, my grandmother was also very sad, no matter what the relationship was, the two of them had lived a lifetime, and if one left suddenly, it would definitely be difficult for them to have a hard time left, especially for the elderly, whose children are married, and the old man will feel lonely.
During the time when grandpa left, the aunts and uncles were afraid that grandma would be too sad, so they came back to live with grandma, and sometimes took grandma to their own home, in short, grandma had very little time to be alone, and my aunt also led grandma to travel, and grandma seemed to be in a much better mood after coming back, and now grandpa has been gone for almost three years, although I sometimes look at grandma and often mention grandpa, but it is not so sad.
For those who have a bad relationship, needless to say, the general lover may not be used to it when he just dies, but after a long time, he gradually forgets that some lovers are not good to themselves, the kind that is either beaten or scolded, I am afraid that I wish my lover died soon. I think for those who have a bad relationship, they will come out quickly, and many young people, their lovers have died, and if the relationship is not good, they may remarry or remarry.
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When the husband dies, the wife and the children sleep in front of the husband's grave for three years, although this is a very touching practice, which shows that the wife likes her husband very much and respects her husband very much, of course this is a good thing, I think there are very few people who can do her like this now, many of them die and die, and after a while, it will be over, and then start a new life. But I think what this wife did was a little too unusual, that is, sleeping in front of her husband's grave for 3 years, or with the child, I don't think I can understand it, so I don't think it's very good for the child (maybe I haven't experienced it myself, I don't think it's meaningful, the person is gone, just remember it well, don't forget it in your heart, but there is no need to go to the grave to sleep for three years, people can't be resurrected after death, people are gone, look a little open, and start living a new life, I think that's definitely what your husband would want to do as well, and he sees that he doesn't want you to do it all the time. For children, I think people will think when they see it, sleeping in front of the grave.
There may be bad things, but I applaud this wife, who is now very few, and can say that she has a deep affection for her husband.
Since I'm not married yet, I don't have a "lover" yet. I think for the death of a lover, what you can do is not to forget him, leave a place in his heart for him, as a wife, I think if you really can't forget, then live by yourself, don't you still have children, they can also give you company, and the child is a combination of husband and wife, seeing the child must also have a little shadow of his husband. If you meet true love, I think you can also get married, because it will be more difficult for a woman to live alone, especially when she is old, she can't only have children to take care of, but children also have their own affairs, so it is necessary to find a partner.
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When the man who always said that he wanted to accompany you to old age, who always said that he would never let go of holding your hand, who had always said that he had been pulling you all over the world to see, and who had been going to accompany you to the end of his life, he died suddenly. I believe that there is no better adjective than grief, and after the death of this husband, the wife interpreted the deepest love for her husband with her actions, and slept with her child in front of the tombstone for three whole years. When I saw this news, I felt a little inexplicable at first, because the relationship between this couple is so deep, after the death of the husband, the wife did not remarry and did not leave, and has been guarding the grave of her husband, how deep is the love of the wife who can do this kind of thing for her husband.
Then this husband believes that he must be a good husband, otherwise how can he make his wife so nostalgic, the husband before his death must be very good to his wife, and such a deep relationship between husband and wife is actually a kind of love that everyone wants.
But this kind of practice, I don't think it's worth advocating, because the truth is that the husband is no longer in this world after he dies, and the wife has been missing a person who is no longer in this world and will never come back, so to speak, this is a purposeless and fruitless thing, is it that it took three whole years just to express her thoughts about her husband? It's obviously not worth it, and I believe that husbands love their wives so much, and hope that they can live a normal life after they are gone, and not miss him all the time. So I think my wife should cheer up, because life still has to go on, and the living people have to move on with the expectations of the deceased.
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According to Article 10 of the Inheritance Law, "the inheritance shall be carried out in the following order:
First order: spouse, children, parents.
Second order: siblings, grandparents, maternal grandparents.
After the succession begins, it is inherited by the first-order heirs, and the second-order heirs do not inherit. If there is no first-order heir to inherit the first limb key, it will be inherited by the second-order heir. ”
Accordingly, if the husband does not make a will when he dies, he must inherit according to the provisions of the Inheritance Law, and the mother-in-law, son and you will inherit jointly according to the law, and the inheritance can be divided equally or unequally.
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