When you grow up, is it better to stay with your family or go out?

When we grow up, how to develop and where to develop should be the choices we are constantly facing in our 20s. Just after graduating from university, everyone went their separate ways to develop from all over the world, some looking for jobs near home, and some hundreds of kilometers away from home, traversing China's north, south, east and west. I don't think it's a good choice.

For example, I am currently staying at home, getting up early to commute to work every day, having a hot breakfast, not having to clean, not worrying about whether it is time to pay the electricity bill, whether there is hot water, whether the refrigerator is empty or if it rains, and the clothes are confiscated. For those who go out to work, do you particularly envy the carefree life at home? The problem also comes, at home, decent, many girls are like me, they are nostalgic at home, in addition to overtime at night, there is a curfew on weekends, and there is a deadly serial call when you come back later, and you look at the children of this family, you look at the children of that family, you look at the people.

Every day in this environment, there is no living space of your own. I want to stay quietly for a while, it's very rare, I like to be quiet, I don't like to be noisy, I want to stay quietly after work, and then I am disliked. If there were good development opportunities, I would probably choose to go out and have a look, while I was young.

I have a senior brother who went to Shanghai as soon as he graduated, with pride and ambition, I saw him once half a year later, and he lost a lot of weight, but his mental state was not worse than before, but he was much more down-to-earth. Later, I heard that the work was very hard, but I could still see his enthusiasm for life and work. I think that in many years, those who work hard outside with dreams will achieve something.

So there are pros and cons to choosing to stay with your family or go out on a trip. Your choice will always be based on where I will grow faster and run farther.

When you grow up, you will have to face many choices about your life path, such as choosing to be stable or motivated, staying in your hometown or going out to the big city. My parents have always told me that a little girl, in our county, take the civil service exam, and then be close to us, we can still take care of each other, they will not want me to go farther, they just want me to be able to stay with them, and it is best not to go anywhere, but my parents and I have completely different ideas

I think everyone should go out and have a good time, whether it is a boy or a girl, because the pursuit of ideals has nothing to do with men and women, and everyone has the right and must give their life a chance to choose, a chance to pursue progress, and a chance to go to the top. If I stayed in my small town, why did I study so hard? I might as well just read the civil service or take the college entrance examination after graduating from high school, and there are not so many requirements for the civil service exam anyway.

However, since I have worked hard to take the college entrance examination and succeeded in changing my major, I am trying to give myself a career plan, and I hope that my career will be brilliant, not the kind of civil servant type of job that drinks tea and reads newspapers, which is used for the elderly, and it is simply relying on the country to gnaw at the country. <>

On the other hand, I want to give myself a chance to work hard so that I can have a better life. If I work hard in the outside city, then my life can be improved to a higher level, I have more money to be able to live a more decent life, and I can also give my Abba and Mom a good life, I think this kind of life planning is more valuable!

Girls try not to be too far away from their parents.

Society is too complex.

Men are all taking medicine for me outside, let alone women.

According to their own conditions, and ideals.

To go out and break through the road of life, he needs to walk on his own.

It varies from person to person, and there are no certain rules

If my parents are in good health, I will choose to go out, after all, I need to live, and I will have my own family in the future. If my parents are not in good health, I will give up everything to be by their side, which I deeply realized when my mother died, I am usually busy making money, and only during the New Year will I have time to accompany them at home, and now my mother is gone, I regret it! I feel so sorry for her.

My plan is to fight outside for another year or two, and then go home. Spend time with Dad. Don't want him to be too lonely.

Of course, it's time to go out, and young people should go out.

Of course, when you go out, when you are alone, you will find that you become much braver.

Dear, of course, you have to go out alone, I think 99 out of 100 want to go out alone.

You must be independent, and you can't rely on your parents all the time.

Argue a yarn, I don't understand filial piety

It's better to go out alone, because you're an adult, and it's time for you to learn to be independent.

You won't grow up without experiencing nature, but it's hard to say whether your experience is enough for you to protect yourself.

Being able to ask such a question means that you really haven't grown up. You should think about what you want to do in the future, you don't choose which one is good or bad, it's best to follow your heart Seeing the world more helps to broaden your horizons.

Every time your parents fall down, you have to be able to remember the lessons so that you can make progress. Slowly become stronger, and they can rest assured when they leave their parents.

Stay with your parents, but when you grow up, you always have to leave your parents because of many things.

Write it yourself! It's simple! Don't be lazy!

Whether it is better to work from home or outside the home depends on your family conditions.

If your parents are healthy and don't need your help, and you have siblings at home who can take care of them, you can consider going out of town.

Personally, I feel that if my parents have a good income** now and they want me to take over in the future, then I will choose to go with my family.

It's not good to be with your family. Envy. Easy money more.

If your parents' city has a job you want, stay.

If not, then go ahead while you're young.