How should love be maintained, and how should love be maintained?

Two people should be considerate of each other and help each other.

Love is sweet and beautiful, and marriage is as plain as water. Love needs to be run-in, it needs to be maintained, and it needs to be managed with heart.

One is to give respect to the other person. In the process of getting along, we will keep a certain distance from friends, colleagues, and even strangers. But in front of his partner, he lost this distance, and he hated to possess all of the other party, but in fact, he also needed some space between each other.

If you keep an eye on each other for 24 hours because of gains and losses, or even check each other's mobile phones, it will make this originally intimate emotion heavy and depressing.

The second is to create small surprises. The run-in period is the period when two people get along with each other, and they will encounter unpleasant things such as disagreements on the way, which requires some emotional lubricants to create surprises and sweetness for love. Surprise is actually thinking of one step more than the other party.

Try to participate in your different hobbies and think about what he likes and what you haven't done. In this way, you can not only understand the unknown him, but also create some freshness in life. It is those small surprises that will become the most memorable moments of life, because there is the most precious heart hidden in them.

They are a unique experience for each individual, and they will become a warm and rich moment of reminiscence. ​

The third is to look at each other's shortcomings dialectically. In the process of falling in love, the shortcomings seen by each other are also advantages under the aura of love, and after marriage, many people will wonder if their love has changed. There are two sides to everything, think about it, what attracted you to the other person in the first place?

For example, you think he is romantic and elegant, but you find that his too casual and unplanned life irritates you who are in good order. You think he's considerate and gentle, but his indecisiveness makes you anxious.

Fourth, seek common ground while reserving small differences. In the process of getting along with my lover, I have actually experienced the test of time. You know what kind of person the other person is, you have a good character and personality in your heart, and you can not care about the small problems and frictions of lovers in life.

Marriage is the union of two different family cultures. The two went from acquaintance when they were in love to living together, and their personal world became a two-person world. Each other's values, lifestyles, consumption concepts, etc. are all blended into this relationship, and if one party forces the other party to change, it is almost difficult for a strong person.

In fact, the so-called suitability is the mutual accommodation and change of two people, which must require a tolerant heart and the ability to discover each other's strengths. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is also an art of love, and it also requires skills and methods: pay attention to each other's feelings, communicate with each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, and run in with each other, rather than forcing each other to change.

Because love is a work of art polished by two people, if we never take care of this flower of love, it is actually a loss of this intimate relationship. The irrigation of a flower day and night is actually like the mood we remember for our lovers. Because of this mood, in fact, we can give life more and a sense of ritual, so that the other party can feel your memory and care, so that the tiredness of this love friction in life can be relaxed and sublimated.