What is love, what is love

Plato asked his teacher Socrates: What is love?? So, Plato's teacher Socrates, led him to the field of wheat.

Ask Plato to choose one of the biggest and best ears of wheat, but he can only pick one and he can't look back! Plato thought it was too simple. When he walked up to the teacher empty-handed, the teacher was surprised and asked him why he came back empty-handed.

So Plato told the reason for returning empty-handed: when he came to the wheat field, he saw a good ear of wheat, and he wanted to pick it, but when he looked back, he thought: the teacher only allowed me to pick it once, maybe there will be a better one later!

Walking like this, I unconsciously reached the end of the wheat ear field, only to find that I hadn't picked a single ear of wheat in my hand! So Socrates smiled and said to Plato: This is love!!

I also think that real-life love is very similar to this story, what do you think is the definition of love?? Can you understand? Beg.

Love is a beautiful feeling! Hehe.

Once you decide to enter into marriage with another person, it means that you have to live with each other for the rest of your life, and two people have been together for so long, why not choose one that satisfies you? So we have to avoid being with someone we don't like, and also avoid being with someone who doesn't like us.

Love is the foundation of marriage, try to marry someone who loves each other. Although we have no way to guarantee that in the future life, this relationship will not become, and it will be able to withstand the wear and tear of time, but if we have a good emotional foundation with each other, it will make us more tolerant of each other when facing complex trivial matters after marriage, and we will feel that with each other, even if life is not easy, it will not be so difficult, so that each other will go together for a longer time.

Don't be with someone who hasn't come out of the previous relationship yet, it's irresponsible for both of them. Maybe the other party just has gratitude and gratitude to you, but this feeling is not love, don't let this feeling be mistaken for love. After all, life-saving straw is only useful at the moment of need, and it is not needed after being rescued.

Touching is only temporary, feelings are lifelong.

Touching without an emotional foundation is not love.

Love is also unfair, don't think that you are good enough, you are good enough personally, so you will definitely win the other person's heart. Love is mutually attractable, it will not make the other person attractive to you just because you are good to the other person, if you don't love, you don't love, no matter how good you are in front of someone who doesn't love you, it doesn't mean anything to him.

Marriage is serious, it must be well thought out, and don't let yourself regret it because of the impulse. A person's life itself is a difficult practice, and feelings are not a necessity, we must gain and lose, after all, we can never have both.

So be yourself, don't lose yourself, don't lower your self-standards, love yourself first, and then someone will love us.

I also hope that people who love each other can be together in the end and have a good outcome.

Get to know each other.

Love is the sublimation of friendship, and only when you have a good friend will you become a boyfriend and girlfriend. And what is needed to rise from good friends to love is to know each other. Two people only know each other, and each other is each other's confidants. Only then will there be true love.

Learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings.

Everyone will inevitably have their own shortcomings, just as everyone will find a place or two in them. True love is when both parties know how to cherish, and can give enough patience, enough understanding, and enough tolerance to each other's shortcomings, as well as willfulness.

Don't choose to settle.

True love does not choose to compromise. If that person had ever been in the world, everyone else would have been a general. If you fall in love with someone, you will recognize her for the rest of your life, and no one else can replace her.

Caring for each other in every way.

True love requires meticulous care. But this kind of care is definitely not deliberate. But when the other person needs help, you will definitely appear in front of him:

It is your gentle care when the other person is sick: it is your comfort when the other person is unhappy.

Love me, love my dog. True love is when you get to know what the other person likes. And make yourself love these things too.

For his parents, he must also treat them as if they were his own parents. Spend more time with the elderly. Especially on the birthday of the elderly, you must personally go to hold a warm birthday party for the elderly.

A certain economic base.

No matter how beautiful love is, it needs the support of money. You may not be the richest man in the world, but you must have the ability to afford a large family. This is a very real problem. If you don't even have the basic ability to make money, how can you have true love?

It's about living together.