How can love be like this? What is love like?

A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship can be called true love.

There are four stages that must be passed, and that is:

Codependent

Counterdependent

Independent

Interdependent

The time it takes to transition between phases is not necessarily and varies from person to person.

Phase 1: Coexistence.

This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

The fourth stage: symbiosis.

At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (your) other person (she) has become your (your) closest person.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, like this.

The second and third phases will be shortened.

It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily.

The two got together because of fate, and they knew each other because they had a heart, and they really had to cherish this blessing, don't say that the breakup is not a fate, I hope to see the above four stages, which can really give you some inspiration and understanding and cherish fate.

We will gradually become the people we love.

You and him have nothing in common, the appearance is not similar, and the personality is also very different, once you fall in love, over time, you will be surprised that your eyes are a bit like his, and his smile is also a bit like yours.

You also walk at a similar pace, and speak in a more similar tone. He has a mole on his neck, and one day, you find that you also have an extra mole on your neck, and it turns out that we will become our loved ones.

You originally liked down-to-earth people, and he has always been more frivolous, but when you fall in love, he will unknowingly become an honest person, this change, even he himself has not noticed.

He used to like lively girls, but he fell in love with you who were restrained, and these days, you are getting more and more lively, and you almost don't recognize yourself. We will gradually become the ideal person of the other party, and this change is definitely not deliberate. The longer two people love each other, the more similar their temperament becomes, you used to think that he is not the type you dreamed of, however, one day, you are surprised to find that he has become the type you like, you don't have to look everywhere, he is the person you are looking for.

When you love someone deeply, you really lose yourself little by little, why do you still feel happy?

Probably because when you lost, you also earned, and you earned back his temperament and his smile.

Happiness is simple.

Therefore, it is easy to obtain very simple talents.

Let's talk. Explain your thoughts clearly, and after making it clear, the two of you will each take a step back. Isn't it nice , in fact, ideas are very important.

If you can't talk about it, who knows what you're thinking, if you really can't talk about it. A breakup is the best.

In fact, if a girl gives more to a boy, the more she will be hurt.

Girls should be reserved, and by the way, see if this boy is sincere to you.

But if you don't give up, then you can only pay.

But to pay, you have to dare to bear regrets. Maybe you'll be hurt even more.

Or just make it clear with him.

But this kind of thing can only be used as a reference for other people's words, and the person who makes the final decision is himself.

Sometimes this kind of thing can go with the heart and it may end better.

But no matter what, believe in yourself and don't regret the decision you make.

Letting go is the best answer, you yourself know that you should let go, it's just that you are unwilling, there is nothing to be unwilling to, let it go. Be kind to yourself!

What does the best love look like?

Have you met such a good love?

Met the best people at the best time, did you get it?

Love is a matter of two people, and it cannot be wishful thinking.

Love is also friendship. Both parties will get better and better because of what they give to each other without asking for anything in return. I am afraid that one party wants to give back, but the other party is at ease. In the end, they were both wronged by each other.

True love is when two people have experienced many ups and downs together, but they still stand firmly behind each other. In fact, love is not only about wind and snow, but also about firewood, rice, oil and salt in life.