Should elementary school students be told about their early love?

A friend told me that the love he hoped for in junior high school should be simple: go to school with him every day and get out of school; Share all the joys and sorrows together; hang out together; Holding hands together Actually, think about it, it's true that junior high school love belongs to puppy love But it seems that many people have such a relationship Even if they are hindered in every way We enjoy it We are happy to look for someone who loves us and loves us Even more often than not, we don't understand what love is We miss each other in the dark We will miss him or her in our hearts all the time We will pour all our love into him or her All people want to get a love that lasts forever It's just hope I'd like to just have it, not forever It's just a dream that can be easily broken Adults have taught us tirelessly that feelings affect learning Isn't it? I doubt it?

That's two things that don't have any connection at all, so why do you have to put such a spell on "3-year-old love" What does love bring you? Does Happiness and Love Affect Learning? I don't know, it takes a long time to find out But it has an effect on sleep This is a conversation between another friend and me Indeed, we gradually find that whenever we are worried, we are always worried that when the other person is unhappy, we will not be happy anyway Because love has bound us who were originally free We want to grow up There is such a conversation:

The girl said to the boy, "I seem to be sick, don't I?" Nice good?

Why? Because I'm never sick When you're sick, I'll take care of you, okay? Okay, but it won't work until 5 years from now?

Why? At that time, we were old, and I finally understood that we were bound by age, and only then could we walk with our lovers openly and honestly, so we longed to grow up, and love brought us too much, too many tears, too many sentiments, too many laughs, too many memories, and we gradually grew up in love, and found the direction of life for the people we loved, and we continued to work hard in order to be with the people we loved in 5 years, and this is us, 3-year-old love

See what kind of parent your parents are If they are very understanding, try telling them about it and talking to them about it. If it's the kind that only wants you to study well, not badly. It's better not to tell him

Of course, I have to talk about it, tell the parents, and they will guide themselves

If you like someone very much, you shouldn't tell your parents.

It should be a primary school student, and it's not a big one, and this kind of problem is a bit serious, and it's too precocious

Due to the age barrier, there are many things that cannot be communicated well with parents. In the process of growing up, you have to try and think about a lot of things by yourself!

Are you a good boy Solve your own problems by yourself Pull is talking about just puppy love.

Isn't it a nerve to tell parents to find a p-fight? Faint to death tells you and it's over

Eh: Elementary school students can't be called "falling in love", understand?

The child is in early love, and the way to deal with it as a parent is as follows:

1. Rationally look at children's early love, parents should look at this matter calmly, and not treat this matter as the child is touching their own bottom line, and can not blindly blame and scold, which will anger the child even more, and things will become stupid and loud beyond control. As a parent, you should know that children's early love is a normal phenomenon of physiological development, and you should look at this matter rationally and not worry.

2. Respect children's emotions and positive guidance, for children of this age, their hearts are still relatively pure, and their worship or appreciation of a person is love, and they do not have a comprehensive understanding of love.

Therefore, parents should guide their children to establish a correct view of love, telling them that it is okay to maintain pure friendship with the opposite sex, but they should distinguish the categories of love to avoid hurting themselves.

3. Explain the consequences to the child appropriately, when the child enters puberty, it is already a sign that he is about to enter youth. Children have the right to decide their own lives. It is better for parents to explain the consequences of the matter to their children, so that they know what the impact of their decisions will be correspondingly bright, but the choice is still in the hands of the children.

Spend more time with children: There are many children who fall in love because they don't feel warmth in the family. Many parents treat their children violently, making them always feel that their parents don't like and don't love them, and for a long time, they will crave the attention and recognition of others, so there will be early love.

Therefore, parents should spend more time with their children, communicate and communicate with them more, and change their bad education methods. When children let go of their defenses against their parents, they should be guided correctly.

1.Share your thoughts with your child and guide them in the right direction.

Mothers can tell their children stories about their adolescent love, let children know that early love is a normal phenomenon, and at the same time establish empathy with their mothers, leading children and each other to make common progress in learning and grow together.

2.Keep an appropriate distance and divert attention.

Parents can let the most authoritative person in the family enlighten their children and let them jump out of excessive emotional dependence. Maybe the child and the other party's normal correspondence and urge each other to improve, but teach the child to avoid being alone with the other person, encourage the child to participate in more group activities, divert attention, dilute or condense the relationship.

3.Let your child see the long term.

Let children know that they should focus on learning now, so that they can become excellent themselves and give each other a better life. At the same time, tell the child that he will have more choices when he grows up.

Elementary school students fall in love at school, and as a parent, they should stop him from falling in love, and tell him some cases of bad early love.

It must be stopped, elementary school students, the children are too young, and if they are high school students, they may still accept it.

Be sure not to strongly oppose it, this will make the student rebellious, and you can subtly make him understand that it is wrong and meaningless.

Tell your child not to fall in love at an early age, which will affect his own learning and is not good for his physical and mental development.

As a parent, I will definitely communicate with my child, and I will also ask my child's teacher to understand the child's performance in school, and I will also let the teacher actively discipline the child, and will also cooperate with the teacher's behavior.

Knowing that, in fact, you will also understand some of the child's situation, and tell the child some things that cannot be done, and tell the child that the main purpose is to learn.

I told my child that now is not the age to fall in love, and if I fall in love now, it may delay my future future, and I hope that my child will give up.

If I knew, I would intervene so that the child could understand what was going on in his heart.