Sociologists should not give themselves to outsiders, including relatives, at any time 5

There's nothing wrong with doing this from your own safety, but from your own words, you should understand that this mindset has taken a toll on your life, your mood, and even your life. You may not have many friends in your life, but you will definitely have a close friend, so I suggest you take a closer look, and I believe you will find that life is still quite good, and most people are simple, kind, and there is also the outside (Internet cafes, bars, dance halls) must maintain the existing security awareness.

Today's society sometimes makes us have to think so, but after a long time, a person can't always pretend to be it, our relatives are people we have been in contact with for a long time, and they can be seen invisibly, with their own eyes to discern, believe in themselves, have self-confidence, and face the things encountered in life with sunshine in their hearts, everyone is not easy to live in the world, so we must let ourselves live comfortably and live chicly. Don't be afraid of difficulties, face it, solve it, your experience will increase, you have experienced everything, so what are you afraid of?!

Sometimes that's not the case, and we can't hurt people, and we can prevent it, but don't associate everybody with the same motivation.

It's not for nothing that this is happening out there! But it's not all like that! You have to be kind to yourself, you have to believe in yourself, so that you can accept and trust others

Be kind to yourself and be cautious, but you can't knock down a bunch of people with one shot!

Be careful in society, but don't worry too much about accidents!

Because they may see that you are an emotional person and take advantage of you.

Actually, it's not exactly what you say, I believe that there are still a majority of good people in the world.

It has something to do with your personality.,It's good to listen to more gentle** in normal times.。

We all have an understanding of the people around us, and we should look at these things rationally.

Time makes you understand everything.

When you encounter difficulties, you know that only your own family will never leave you, and I am the best example.

Rely on relatives at home and friends outside.

Please yourself.

It's never too late.

We are the masters of our own lives.

Our emotions can only be governed by ourselves.

Learn to love yourself.

Only by loving yourself can we love others well.

Know how to self-esteem, self-love, and self-confidence.

For the topic of pleasing yourself.

In fact, everyone has their own opinions.

Quite simply, know yourself and be sure to find what you love to do.

Then work hard to make some achievements in this direction, for example, if you like to read books, then write some book reviews, life insights and other content, and then submit them to publish, so that you can not only get the manuscript fee but also have a sense of achievement, so that you can realize your own value, and you can also have a way to vent when you are in a bad mood.

I may choose to think deeply, read books, put **, write a journal, etc., in fact, no matter what form of pleasing the purpose is to make my heart happy and calm.

I hope you all have a good life.

I know this, this is because you don't have many common hobbies, and if people want to talk together, they must have common hobbies and common interests.

words, in order to chat, it seems that you don't have many hobbies, develop well, seek more hobbies, friends and confidants will naturally have them, and then watch more variety shows and dating shows, pay attention to not movies and TV series, because many of them are fake, and learn eloquence with the host more, which is the king.

I am quite touched by this, I recommend that you communicate with people more (must, be a listener if you don't have anything to say), make more friends (also necessary), and then try to keep up with the latest entertainment or information or something, and be sure to find a friend who can get along with people, so that you can also learn the skills of interacting with people from him, etc.

If they say something you know or are interested in, it's time to discuss it together.

You're a lonely person, start with your friend's interests, or if you're interested, don't tell some jokes to ease the atmosphere.

It doesn't have to be talking, sometimes listening and nodding your head is also a way to chat, and the other person will be comfortable.

Erudite and more sociology.

Get in touch with your friends at work.

See who says what to say, and follow the conversation of others

Psychological problems, communication phobia.

Psychological problems, communication phobia.

Let's see what others have to say.

I'm the same, I can feel the love of others, but I don't feel anything, I know that I don't take it for granted, and I know that I have to be grateful, but I don't feel it in my heart, my parents, my lover, my friends, everyone is, it's sad, my heart is always empty, and I feel that the most noisy place is the loneliest self. So confused.

Like the answer, I feel that I am indifferent or even cold-blooded, and sometimes I feel that as a human being, how can I have no feelings, but the fact is that when others do not contact me, I don't want to take the initiative to contact others, and moreover, I have been away from home for a long time, and I will not feel like missing my family, whenever I see other people's children crying because of homesickness, I am envious, I hope that I can also miss my family, but no. Therefore, in the constant denial and self-denial, I have never understood whether I have a heart or not.

Or haven't moved the heart, no matter what kind of feelings are not intentional, so I can't feel it, I use reason, a little sensibility to know what love is, with sincerity to know what love is, what loss is, it should be too ruthless, how can you feel love without emotion? And after you feel it, you will be very calm and give back in a way of mutual assistance, not really for their sake, now everyone is like this, otherwise it is easy to go crazy, you can start to trust more from the bottom of your heart, don't be afraid of emotional pain.

I didn't feel loved when I was a child, and I didn't learn to love others when I grew up.

2.There is no sense of presence, and that's because you feel that no one loves you and needs you.

3.In fact, everyone has the need to be loved, and your indifference is not that you don't care, but that you crave the attention of your loved ones. For example, if someone praises you, you will be very energetic in everything you do.

4.Find someone you love and love you so that you can learn to love others.

5.If you don't keep your lover, either you don't love him, or you don't dare to love him.

In short, there is still salvation, and it needs to be **. It seems that Freud (or someone else can't remember) said: A person's personality depends on his childhood, in fact, everyone has a shadow in their psyche and needs to talk to a psychiatrist if they have nothing to do, and they should not give up**.

I thought there was no such thing in this world, but there was a good thing to congratulate.

I feel the same self, maybe because I don't feel needed and loved, so I choose to give up on myself.

Maybe we should learn to feel the love of others and learn to be considerate of others? Good luck.

I am also one of you, I didn't feel loved before, except for my mother, I felt that the whole world didn't love me, I didn't have friends in the real sense, I didn't have the love of my teachers, I didn't have the care of my relatives, my grandparents died when I was two years old. I was raised by my parents when I was a child, and then my father went to other places to earn money. But my parents' relationship has always been bad, and I really can't stand the quarrel three times and twice.

I used to treat my grandparents as grandparents, but I later realized how different there was between grandchildren and grandchildren. My mother scolded me when she saw me doing a little bit of bad things, except that scolding was scolding. There is no educational component at all.

I haven't been praised since I was a child, and it's the same when I grow up. I'm often called a fool, but I know better than anyone else. One day, when I was complimented, I thought it was hypocritical.

Because they boast so much under special conditions and on special occasions. People are really fake!

The first point is that you have to understand what love is, love has selfless love, there is selfishness, love has no intention of returning, love has to pay and demand, but real love is a kind of giving, but also a kind of selfless dedication is also a kind of taking into account the feelings of others to give others needs, there are two kinds of love, one is to be loved, one is active love, the other is to reflect love (reflection love is what you say about how others treat you, how you treat others) love is feelings, anyway, a sentence to summarize love is feelings, if the feelings are gone, then only the transaction, Transaction is something without feelings, you don't care about me, I don't care about you, if there is a person who does not have any intention to make a contribution to you, selfless dedication to you, that is love, if you encounter selfish love, you will be willing to even buy pants, the most terrible thing in the world is selfishness, selfishness is that the other party does not care about your feelings and puts what he says on your head, and he is stunned to say that you have no heart and lungs will not be moved, I wish you good luck....

Passing by with the same paragraph. You're not alone.

You may be insecure and trusting, which has something to do with your childhood life, but you also have your own willingness, you have to learn to be grateful, whether it is relatives or other people, they treat you well or criticize you because they love you, sometimes ignoring you is not intentional, you can come to this world, love to laugh and make trouble, grow up healthily, and go to college because many people love you, just imagine, if no one loves you, then what are you like now? It's not that you don't love them, if you don't love them, you won't have relatives, elders, friends, lovers, and you won't be good to them, and you won't send this problem, they are good to you precisely because you feel your love, your heart is very sensitive and kind, you just temporarily close your heart, you have to work hard to open your heart, to integrate into them, don't think about these pessimistic things, don't always think about how you are, always think about others, Frequently express your feelings for them to them, and call your parents more, such as I love you, I care about you like this, I believe you will be able to be happier. ps：

It's not advisable to fall in love right now

You only live in your own world. It's not that you don't have a heart, but that your previous life circumstances have buried your heart ... Your previous life and current situation are somewhat similar to mine, but also a little different.

I sigh a lot. I often feel empty and lonely, especially when I am alone. I care a lot about friends and lovers.

But I want to ask: Are you sure you don't care about the love of your friends and lovers? Are you really sure?

First of all, we must learn how to love ourselves, be tolerant of others, and not be demanding. Don't impose your ideas on others, communicate more and experience with your heart.

Analysis, people have said a lot, I'm going to give you some advice, you should volunteer, help others in your life, you have to experience a feeling that you are needed, there are a lot of people who need you, and slowly, you will find love, you will learn to love, I hope to give you some advice.

I'm that kind of person too! I know that my parents are good to me, but I don't feel care and love! I can't feel the sincerity and love between people at school!

When I do something, I feel like I suddenly feel uninterested, I know it's because I just want to be loved and love others, I really want to love, but the reality is not as good as it should be!

Come out positively, it will be fine, life is bright, and everything is lovely.

Maybe it's because there were too many tears when I was a child, and no one can understand the pain in my heart. Gradually, we stopped praying for spiritual connection with the outside world, and we no longer felt any pain, and naturally we did not feel real happiness. People are like this, when our feet are hit by a big stone, we are sad, sad, painful, and want to be loved, but no one can help you, and in the end you suffer the pain and don't love anymore!

It's better not to use relatives, I used to use relatives, but sometimes it's hard to say that a business should be profit-oriented, and a business is not a charity, so it must be profitable to ......

1. Establish a management process 2. Strictly follow the process management 3. Performance management, treat everyone equally 4. Manage the terms of reference and control ultra vires management.

1. Sociology is a liberal arts.

2. Sociology is the study of social facts (objective facts: social behavior, social structure, social problems, etc.; Subjective facts: human nature, sociological psychology, etc.), which originated in the late 19th century.

It is a modern discipline that evolved from social philosophy. Sociology is a discipline with multiple approaches to study. There are mainly quantitative methods of scientism and humanistic methods of understanding, which are opposed to each other and interrelated, develop and improve a set of knowledge about the structure and activities of human society, and use this knowledge to seek or improve social welfare as the main goal.

Sociology is a broad field of study, ranging from micro-level social actions or interpersonal interactions to macro-level social systems or structures, so sociology is often placed alongside economics, political science, anthropology, psychology, history, and other disciplines in the social sciences.

Sociology and social work are two completely different disciplines, don't see the word "society" and think that they are relatives for domestic universities.

I don't think it's appropriate for Rongduo to put these two majors in the same college.

Social work is very practical, there are more operational things, and the domestic development is very imperfect, if you watch the "volunteers" that often appear in Hong Kong dramas, they are social workers, but MS is still more street aunts in China to complete these tasks. However, it is said that the social work examination will be implemented in China in the near future, and then the degree of professionalism and authority of social work will be higher.

If you want to develop more freely without the interference of the system, then you have to stay abroad, if you are a person who loves challenges, it is actually better to return to China for development, and then you will belong to the founding fathers of this field in China. In fact, most of the organizers of NGOs in China are social work education received abroad, and then return to China to do what they love, although it is a lot of difficulties, but it is also a very fulfilling way of life.

Sociology is a discipline that includes the study of all aspects of society and focuses on theoretical research. Studying for a PhD abroad is generally a full award. There are many research fields to choose from, and there are many research perspectives that can be adopted, so I usually stay at a university as a teacher, and some work in a company, NGO, etc.

It's good to listen to your own heart, but there is one thing I still want to be verbose, don't force yourself to study a major you don't like in order to go abroad, going abroad is just a means