Happy Life At any time, no one can live without dreams

I entered West Point in July 1976, where students had to speak every day"Report sir, there are no excuses! "And it's just one of four sentences. The remaining three sentences are:"Report sir, yes!

Report sir, no! "with"Report sir, I don't know! "。

In 1976, when I was 19 years old"Report sir, there are no excuses! "For me, it just means that it is possible to end an uncomfortable one-sided conversation. I'm honestly afraid to ask why there are such strict rules.

It took me a long time before I realized it"Report sir, there are no excuses! "A basic argument is not to leave room for hiding for yourself. It has played a key role in my growth as a thinker and doer.

Report sir, there are no excuses! "The idea is a basic training, which is like the 101 tasks in the training of the army. Repeat each time"There are no excuses"I will emphasize"The past is not to blame"and the benefits of continuing to look for solutions, because making excuses is pointless and fruitless, and it is better to do something else when you have time.

A person's growth should be grateful for the kindness of his parents, the grace of the country, the kindness of his teachers, and the kindness of the public; Gratitude is not only a virtue, but also the basic condition for a person to be a person!

No Excuses" is the most important code of conduct pursued by the United States Military Academy at West Point for 200 years; It reinforces that every student tries their best to complete any task, rather than making excuses for not completing the task, even if it seems reasonable; He embodies a perfect execution ability, an obedient and honest attitude, and a responsible and professional spirit. Its core is dedication, responsibility, obedience and honesty.

I used to work for others, and at that time I didn't understand this ** law and thought that the boss was too harsh. Now I work for myself, but I feel that the employees are too lazy and lack initiative. Actually, nothing has changed, only the way of looking at the problem has changed.

There are many classic sentences in each chapter of "No Excuses".

1.Whether we see work as a pleasure or a chore depends entirely on our attitude, not on the work itself.

2.Any obstacle that prevents you from achieving your goals is just an excuse.

3.Recognizing that you have to make your own choices is the first step to self-responsibility.

4.Your will will grow stronger with each mature and decisive decision. Success or not, every self-responsible action increases your strength to move forward.

5.Most of us are somewhat lazy to act because of complaining and making excuses.

6.Healthy self-reflection doesn't lead to making up excuses.

7.Create a life based on your own dreams and goals and not those of others. You may have noticed that the more you don't seek affirmation, the more calm you become.

8.Motivation comes from within.

9.Having a purpose in life is more important than having the ability to create and shape life. One of the most important human relationships you have is your relationship with yourself. You need the right mental attitude to support you on the way forward.

10.When we live our lives guided by goals that we set for ourselves (rather than those given by others), we cherish each day even more.

11.When you don't make any excuses, your sense of self-responsibility grows.

12.While those goals are chosen by others, when I am hired by a company, it means that the company's goals are my goals.

13.When the mental motivation is strong enough, the ability is formed.

14.Wholeheartedly dedicating yourself to achieving a goal will allow you to reach heights that are higher than the limits you have previously set.

15.Set a clear and unambiguous goal, and in the process of executing, do everything you can rather than what you have to do.

Stephen Chow's lines. That's right.

Winter is coming, and families start making salted fish. Support! [s:73]

The premise of dreams is to be alive, so the salted fish of reality will not have dreams, only in fairy tales;

Living people have dreams, but without solid actions, dreams can only stay in dreams.

Actually, there's nothing wrong with being a salted fish, but only if you feel good from the bottom of your heart and are completely content with the status quo. If deep in your heart, there is still a little bit of desire for dreams, it means that you are not only willing to be a salted fish without dreams, you will not want to live like this for the rest of your life.

Yes, having dreams is the biggest difference between humans and other animals.

You're only 23 years old, you shouldn't have that kind of thought.

Everyone wants to be lazy and relax at times, but they can't relax all the time. Most people want to make their lives better and work harder.

Your age is just the age of struggle, and you feel more and more decadent when you have achieved nothing. This is also understandable, and people who have been hit will become psychologically fragile. There is a feeling of wanting to break the jar, but this thought is better to stop as soon as possible.

You've never even been in a relationship, and you should fight for yourself. Analyze the reasons why you can't achieve anything and change yourself. Only if you are willing to become strong yourself, good things will follow.

。。。I feel irresponsible, so you can tell your parents not to work for money, and you can go and work for them for a month.

You don't feel the pressure of life because someone else has helped you carry it.

If you can't insist on it, you have to stick to it, it's up to you. If you want to find a relaxed one, then go to work as a waiter, you will find that standing to collect money is quite tiring, but it is true that you don't need to learn skills to make a living.

I have a classmate who died of leukemia in the fourth grade of elementary school, and he wants to live, but you are half dead.

I had a classmate's dad who died in his sophomore year of college, and he wanted to take care of his dad but didn't have the opportunity.

If you really want to have a breakthrough in thinking, then I suggest you watch Yu Hua's ** "Alive" and the movie "I Am Not the God of Medicine".

Bi Shumin's essay is one I have read, he said that a person with depression feels that life is meaningless all day long and wants to die. So Bi Shumin, a psychiatrist, asked him to join a tour group in Africa or a poor area, where there was not enough to eat three meals a day, and everyone rushed to eat the meal. Being lazy and squeezing your head may not be able to grab it.

Later, he understood that this primitive snatching, the survival of the fittest in life, made him really want to live.

So you should find a force to live, life is actually very meaningful.

As for what you said about achieving nothing, in fact, it is not very important whether a person can achieve a career, the toiling masses at the bottom of the society, most of the families are happy, Sister Milk Tea and Liu Qiangdong are a scholar, a rich one, or yellow. The most important thing is the happiness of life. Adjust your mindset.

Wang Zuxian, a big star, is not married, and he has been lonely all his life.

If you don't study well, I also have a friend who didn't study well when I was in school, and he later went to the army, if you really want to endure hardships and change your life, why don't you become a soldier? If you don't have time, you can go to the summer camp and winter camp to be a soldier, and if you participate in a few more, people are forced out. Many boys like to be a soldier and can be active.

Military training can exercise a person's will and give a person the courage to find himself.

Jack Ma used to be very poor, opening a company and failing for many years. Not everyone is a genius like Jack Ma, but everyone has decided to be powerless without being born, when the years go by, no longer young, and you want to change, everything has no chance to change, that is the real sadness. Youth is capital, it is your talent.

Everyone has what they are good at, if you want to, study hard, you can live a better life in the future, and have a goal to run a little more. Come on! Maybe you don't find the first job, you don't have talent after learning the second skill, and the third one is not suitable for you, then look for the fifth or sixth job.

Inspirational not? I find it inspiring myself. Many people look for a job many times.

With the encounter, there is a good job to find a partner, such as flowers, like water.

First of all, you are still very young, don't hang your head all day, set goals for yourself, and let yourself work hard for your ideals and goals all day long. Don't always think about that, have confidence, be self-confident, be able to improve yourself, don't ruin your bright future because of one of your own ideas, remember, when you are young, you should work hard to find opportunities and create opportunities for yourself, so that you can quickly adapt to the general environment of this society, so as to find your own home and sense of achievement, so you can achieve your desired goals. Hope it helps, friend!

At the age of 23, you lose your fighting spirit, you haven't started to work hard, you want to give up, nothing is achieved because you don't work hard, don't insist, 23 has just started, you know that you are lazy and procrastinating to change, what is the use of saying it all the time and not changing, how do you know that you can't do it if you don't force yourself, 23 have never been in love, this thing will naturally have fate, you don't do anything all day and are decadent, and you don't take the initiative, is it difficult that you think who will take the initiative to talk to you?

Feel like you're useless at 23? When I was 23 years old, I was working hard all day for my life goals. Don't you have a plan for your life?

A 23-year-old is a good time to start a business. It's a pity that you're your age, if I could go back to 23, I'm sure I'll be better than I am today! You feel like you're getting nothing done, but have you ever asked yourself if you're doing your best?

No ambitions. Go for it! Youngster!

No matter how much struggle you have, it's all for money, so that you and your family and friends can enjoy life better.

Your life must not lack a certain amount of material, otherwise life will force you to struggle.

If you really don't have a goal, then get up early every day and go for a morning run, and stick to it for a month, and your body and mind will change a lot!

It's not right for you to have this idea at such a young age. You should want to make more contributions to society and family. You shouldn't give up on yourself. You should be positive, live well, and do more meaningful things when the time comes.

If you know your fault, why don't you change it? At the age of twenty-three, the best times in life have just begun, give yourself confidence, believe in yourself, change a little bit every day, and one day you will become a new you.

How can you have this kind of thinking at a young age, whether you have experienced a big thing, no matter what you have experienced, you must cheer up, you are still young, the road is still very long, work hard, play your own piece of the sky.

You're still young, cheer up, do a job, and it'll be fine to stick with it.

If you know what is wrong with you, why don't you change yourself? Why is it deflated now? Choosing decadence at the best age, wasting your youth, what a good age, what a good youth.

Life is too easy.

People are poor, and they think change.

When you don't have money to eat, you don't have money to buy a house, you don't have money to get married, you can only be motivated.

Don't talk nonsense at such a young age, positive self-confidence is the foundation of success, success is not necessarily a big thing, being a happy, healthy and normal ordinary person is also success.

Landlord, you shouldn't have suffered much since you were a child, right? A superior environment breeds laziness and slackness, and a difficult environment breeds diligence and strength. The privilege and hardship here do not only refer to the economic conditions, but also to the spiritual environment.

But these can actually be changed, you are still young, needless to say, changing yourself is in the palm of your hand, the important thing is to show perseverance and perseverance. At the age of 23, it is the beginning of a good youth, and it is time to learn experience and nutrition. Find your own hobbies, set your own goals, devote yourself to society with an attitude of self-exercise, be humble and studious, and believe that you will make changes in a few years.

That's when you don't have confidence in what you do.

Find a motivation, find a reason. Exercising, sweating a lot, and the body is too cold and wet, people feel sleepy and lazy.