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Pain and happiness always coexist, no pleasure can not contrast the preciousness of happiness, you mind your girlfriend's past appearance, but you don't know that the appearance is just a stinky skin after all, maybe in your opinion she is not beautiful, but what girl can keep her beauty forever?
What's more, even if you break up with her, can you be sure that you can marry someone who is prettier and better than her in the future? Brother, think twice, don't turn a momentary unhappiness into a lifelong regret. But if you really don't mind this aspect too much, then it's better to make a decision so that you don't leave a shadow on both sides.
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That's a question for yourself.
You feel the pain of her being abandoned by you Still.
The damage you do to her with her, your unhappiness, and the separation that may happen later on. Terrible.
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Adhere to your own philosophy and put rationality first.
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Hehe sympathizes with you who told you not to look for a beautiful one directly.
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Young man who asked, isn't your own appearance perfect?
Oh, in fact, everyone likes beautiful women, just like animals like beautiful and strong when they mate, their own genes are controlled, which is good for the reproduction of species, some people think that their wives are beautiful and have face, and they can't accept that their once ugly girlfriends are instinctive, many of us are like this, in fact, if you think that if you want to make some possible contributions to the genetic reproduction of human beings, you can get a billionaire, you can marry the world's top beauties, if you are an ordinary person, Just marry an ordinary wife who can live with you, don't spend money indiscriminately, love you, a qualified mother, a qualified daughter-in-law, a qualified daughter, etc., don't you think you're ridiculous in terms of your current state of mind?
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If you feel that the goodness in her heart is greater than the lack of her appearance, continue, if you really can't bear it, it's better to let go as soon as possible.
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You don't want to find an ugly wife, you have to look good yourself, I want to ask you, do you like her, do you love her, if you mind, you break up with her.
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Good appearance does not mean good heart.
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Men, always judge people by their appearance, this is destined, give up on her, if you find one like this, there will be a shadow in your heart!
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Ugly women have room for value-added, the more you look at it, the more beautiful it becomes, don't you understand?
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Not being able to marry a daughter-in-law is a problem faced by many men, and the most common reason is that their own conditions are not good enough or they have too high a vision for mate selection. What should we do in the face of this dilemma?
First, learn to accept your shortcomings and try to improve. Whether it's appearance, career, or personality, you can make yourself better through self-improvement, such as participating in training, exercising, changing your attire, etc. Only by making yourself more worthy of having can you have a better chance in a future relationship.
Secondly, you can expand your social circle and meet more people. You can participate in social activities, join interest groups or volunteer teams, and make more like-minded friends. In addition, you can also expand your social circle through the Internet and various dating platforms.
Thirdly, it is necessary to let go of the excessively high criteria for mate selection. Some people are too demanding to find a suitable partner. Therefore, it is necessary to look at the problem from the other party's point of view, empathize, relax your mentality, and find someone who fits you.
Finally, be patient and confident. Marriage is not achieved by impulse and impatience, but takes time and fate. Believe in your own charm and sincerity, firm beliefs, and keep searching, and you will eventually find your own path to happiness.
To sum up, not being able to marry a daughter-in-law is not a desperate situation, as long as we work hard to improve our situation, expand our social circle, let go of excessive standards for mate selection, and maintain patience and confidence, we can make ourselves better and finally find our other half.
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This close friend, there is a story in "The World Speaks New Words": There is a man named Xu Yun who married a wife. This mm was the daughter of a celebrity at that time, very talented, but extremely ugly.
After Comrade Xu Yun visited the hall with her, when he saw her appearance, he rubbed with the guests outside, and he didn't mean to enter the cave room for a long time. A good friend persuaded him: Lao Xu, your father-in-law is a dragon and a phoenix, and there must be a reason for marrying this daughter to you, you have to understand it carefully.
If you don't enter the cave room, how can you experience it!
Xu Yun listened to the persuasion and raised his legs and entered the cave room. As soon as he looked up and saw the bride's face, he immediately turned his head and retreated. (Looking at it from the front, I want to retreat, but it can be seen that it is really ugly.)
How smart should I be, knowing that my husband's withdrawal would never come in again, he rushed forward in a vertical step, grabbed Xu Yun's collar and didn't let go.
Xu Yun is a scholar, and he was embarrassed to tear up with mm, so he asked her very aggrievedly: Women have four virtues (women's virtues, women's appearance, women's words, women and children - Lu Shi Kou Note), how many virtues do you have? Meaning: It's not that I'm doing it, it's just that you're not worthy of me!
The mm replied confidently: All I lack is a woman's face. There are 100 lines in Nashi, and how many do you have??
Xu Yun's chin is high: All of them are available!!
MM Dao: Whew! Bai Xingde is the head. You are lustful and immoral, how can you say that you have everything? Xu Yun was very ashamed to hear this, so he stayed in the cave room, and from then on he respected his wife very much.
Xu Yun is so miserable! Married an ugly wife, and I can't say that she wants to die when I think about it...
Confucius said: I have not seen a virtuous person like a lustful person.
He must have looked in the mirror and seen himself. Since he said that he had never seen a virtuous person who was as lustful as he was, it meant that he couldn't do it himself. What a saint can't do, why should you be embarrassed to do it yourself, just admit that you're lustful.
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Dump her millions to go to the whole Rong is not over, at most, the next generation also spends money on plastic surgery, what do you want, since it is your wife, it must not be that you disliked her ugly and deliberately married her together.
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If you really think that your wife is ugly, then just remember this one: take it out less but I'm curious, and now I have this question, why did you get married in the first place?
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If you don't have a child, it doesn't matter if you're ugly or not, the most important thing is whether you like her or not.
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Divorce to find pretty. Take a look at your real talents.
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Find a lover, let your wife know, and go for plastic surgery.
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If you choose, you don't need to care. Inner beauty is true beauty.
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Just blind yourself.
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It's the inside that matters, and the appearance is secondary.
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I think there's something really wrong with your wife, she really doesn't see people well
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Since your wife is ugly, why did you marry her in the first place?
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If you cut it, you won't feel it.
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This shows that you don't love your wife anymore, at least not as much as you did at the beginning.
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Ugly wife's family treasure Pretty is not necessarily yours.
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No one Zhuge Liang thinks his wife is ugly!!
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Make yourself uglier!
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How are you yourself, don't you have a point in your heart?
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Does your wife think you're short?
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I just want to say --- your uncle!
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Hahaha
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You dislike her for being ugly, so why should you marry her?
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How do you not know ugliness when you get married... What an attempt.
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