How much has the cost of marrying a wife risen, the cost of marrying a daughter in law is too high

I feel that the cost of marrying a wife in my hometown is the least, but there are still many single young men.

My hometown is Shandong, a fourth-tier city, and the economy is backward, not to mention the specific lead pants. If you want to get married here, you must have a house, a house with a good location, a small three rooms, about 80 to 1.3 million, not counting decoration. Even an old house costs about 50 to 700,000 yuan.

As for the basic 100,000 starting cars, there is no cap, and it cannot be less than 100,000.

The bride price is 100,000 yuan, the three gold gifts are also about 30,000 yuan, the meeting gift is 10,000 yuan, and the diamond ring is about 20,000 yuan. This standard is the lowest one, and wealthy families will add up on this basis.

The wedding banquet is basically the same, and the money received is the same.

The average rural family income is 10,000 yuan per year, and it takes 20 to 30 years to raise enough money for children to get married. The working family has a small surplus and comes up with so much money, but it is also half a life savings.

This society has high requirements for women, and the only requirement for men is to be rich. Parents who have the ability to get married, purely guess the children whose parents are incapable, it is too difficult to get married on their own, don't blame young people for not getting married and not having children, they are unwilling to let the next generation suffer with them.

I hope that under the balance of society, some people have more than one property in their name, and some families do not have a single property. The relocated households have multiple houses, and some of them are moored here and there, without a fixed place to live.

Please introduce policies for those who do not own a property and help encourage them.

The purpose of <> to rectify the sky-high bride price is to curb the phenomenon of marriage buying and selling and objectifying women, and at the same time reduce the financial burden on young people, so that more people have the opportunity to choose their own partners, rather than being limited by financial resources. This may be good news for poor young men, because they no longer have to bear the pressure of sky-high bride price, but this does not mean that they will definitely be able to marry the daughter-in-law of their choice.

First of all, the bride price is only a ritual and custom in marriage, which represents the respect and support of the family, and should not be the standard for measuring the happiness of a person's marriage. Therefore, if the bride price becomes a requirement, then it may be that Kikai means that there is a problem with the marriage itself.

Secondly, although ** has taken a series of measures to rectify the sky-high bride price, these measures cannot completely eliminate the real problems in the marriage market. Some families may choose other ways to transfer their wealth, or use a more subtle way to buy and sell marriages. In addition, there are some regions and social groups that attach more importance to the bride price, which will also affect the difficulty of the poor man marrying a wife.

Finally, marriage is a major life event, and in addition to economic conditions, it is also necessary to consider the compatibility of both parties' personalities, values, living habits, etc. Therefore, if a poor young man wants to marry his favorite daughter-in-law, he also needs to work hard to improve his comprehensive quality and enhance his own attractiveness, so that he can gain more competitive advantages in the marriage market. Those poor guys who are lazy and greedy and idle all day long can't marry their daughters-in-law even when they go to **.

First of all, it takes time to marry a wife, because you have to never know each other, from knowing friends, from friends to lovers, and finally talking about marriage. This time will be a big cost, the cost of a minimum of 1 day and a maximum of several decades. So the time cost is the biggest cost, and sometimes you will find that this time cost far exceeds any cost, so marrying a wife, the time cost is the biggest cost, and nothing else ranks first.

The second is the cost of money, because the local differences are different, so the cost is also different, the north may require the man to have a house, and the gift money means a little good. Of course, there are more serious ones. In addition to the house, the south also needs a lot of gift money or a lot of other requirements, so the cost may be higher in the south, but the wedding house in Beijing is also a big expense, so there is no problem with money in the second place, and many people break up because of money problems.

The last is the problem of relatives, sometimes you will find that you have found a person who can get married, but there is no problem with marrying a wife, and there is no problem with money, but the problem is with relatives, or there is an older brother who does not rely on the shop, or there is a younger brother who causes trouble everywhere, or some parents who do not rely on the shop, and they begin to feel that the cost is not high, but when you get married, then your consumption journey begins.

So marrying a wife can not only be measured by money, you have to see whether other problems will be your future problems, when these problems are considered and considered, you will know how much it costs to marry a wife in your place, so to marry a wife, you have to think clearly about the cost of pursuit, the cost of money and the cost of relatives, these are all considered, and the cost will naturally come out.

The cost of marrying a wife is very large, and the bride price money, house, and car are all indispensable.

I am an authentic northerner, and according to the customs of our side, it is roughly estimated that the minimum to marry a wife is about 200,000. This does not include a house and a car.

It's just that in terms of money, we need about 200,000 yuan in our area, and now the bride price is really sky-high.

I think the cost of marrying a wife should be hundreds of thousands, because the disgraceful gift is relatively expensive, and it is also very expensive to hold a wedding.

It depends on how you are going to marry an old woman? If it is a simple gift money, how much does the woman want? Then there's a question of arranging the wine! The question of wine depends on what kind of consumption you have over there!

There is no fixed number, you and your husband can spend as much as you can, and do what you can. Overall, the cost of marrying a good wife is very low. A really good wife will think about you, she can afford to spend it, and if she can't afford it, she will be considerate.

It depends on what kind of wife you marry, but I still hope that you can marry a good daughter-in-law who loves you and knows how to be diligent and thrifty! Then you'll be sure to make a profit! Haha

Required: Housing.

Yes: cars.

The banquet should be at least 50,000 yuan.

At present, the national average is more than 200,000, depending on what region you are, the price is different.

That depends on the woman's side. In general, you can do it.

From the plan to marry my wife to now, the house and car have been 1.3 million, including other messy eating, drinking, dressing and playing, and the wedding fee adds up to 3 years from now, and there should be about 150,000 yuan from me, and we are only ready to hold a banquet in April. That is, they lived almost separately before. The money I'm talking about is before I paid it, and I don't know how much of hers.

You have to look at it, it's different from region to region.

It's possible to post it upside down depending on your own ability.

How hard is it to get a wife now? How much does it cost? I don't know if you have heard that marrying a daughter-in-law is a poor jingle in the man's family, and the rich in the woman's family is oily. What exactly causes such a phenomenon. I think it's a human concept.

Have you ever thought that the people before were the people of ancient times, and more people were married, for the prosperity of the family, so often, women who were not equal and could not be independent became victims of the family. So at that time, the cost of marrying a wife was not considered very high, because the marriage between two families could bring greater benefits. However, this is no longer the case.

On the one hand, because of family planning, women are hard to find, and more men are singles, and women are now very independent and have their own opinions. For two different families who have a relationship, the economics of marriage will also become a part of the consideration. Moreover, many mothers now hope that their daughters will marry a good family, which can bring more benefits.

For example, my cousin, who was a year older than me, almost didn't succeed in marrying a daughter-in-law at that time. The relationship between the two people is very good, that is, after the engagement, the woman's mother often asks for gift money, and in the end, my cousin is so anxious that he almost doesn't get married. Even my mother said that when you look for your in-laws in the future, you must ask for more gift money and prepare it for my son in the future.

I think that's why the cost of getting a wife is so high now. In a current marriage, it is more important to pay more attention to the gift money than the relationship between two people, which is really sad.

It's true that if you want to marry a wife now, you can't do it without a little money, and the cost of marrying a wife is getting higher and higher.

First of all, I think it's determined by a social phenomenon now, because people in the past were basically patriarchal, so there are more men and fewer women now, so now girls are also particularly sought-after. Anyway, there are so many boys, it doesn't matter if they pick at will, and there are so many boys, some have found a partner, some have made a base, and some have beaten a single. So I think it's also a very important reason why there are more men and fewer women.

The second is that now the society is constantly developing, people's living standards are constantly improving, and the requirements for the quality of life are also very high, so now many people are required to have a house and a car when they get married, after all, this is a guarantee, to ensure that they can live a little better after marriage, and they don't have to be tired and tired after marriage to buy a house, and now at most they are paying off a mortgage, so this is also particularly important. Nowadays, many people can't marry a wife at all without a house in the city, the house is the most basic, and the car is fine, after all, the house is the place to live.

And most of the girls nowadays are pampered, they are all the treasures of the family, and their parents must also hope that they can live a better life, which is the expectation of fathers and mothers. After all, it is their treasure, and of course they want their treasure to live a little better, so they will pay more attention to the material aspects. And now it takes a lot of costs to get married and have a wedding, which is different from before, you don't get married casually, you definitely want a good wedding, which is also the cost.

In the early years, it was not popular to raise children to prevent old age and give birth to a son to inherit the ancestry, so many poor female fetuses were directly knocked out, and later the hospital did not allow the fetal sex to be tested. The imbalance between men and women is one of the reasons.

There is also the later one-child policy, many families have only one child, and the daughter grows up to get married, of course, the father and mother hope that the daughter can marry a good family and suffer less. But before getting married, there are many examples of the man being very good to the woman and changing after marriage, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a rich topic in our country, so of course the father and mother hope that the daughter will have money in her hands after marriage and will not be angry with the in-laws. Therefore, the bride price should be a little higher and much higher.

There are also 2 sons in the family, and the family will definitely be separated in the future, and the woman's family will definitely take these into account, so she will definitely ask for more bride price for her daughter.

Also, the house price is so expensive now, if you don't buy a house in a hurry, you can't still rent a house after getting married. If you don't buy it now, you won't be able to afford it later.

In fact, everyone only sees that the cost of marrying a wife is high now, but they have not thought that the cost of marrying a daughter is not low.

The man gives the woman the bride price, and in most of the woman's families, the parents will also give the daughter the dowry money, but they just give the money to the daughter and let the daughter save it. If the man's parents make a down payment to buy a house, it is generally a young couple who repay the mortgage together, but the woman's parents will pay for the renovation of the house. So don't think that the woman's family asks more because of the love of money, which parent doesn't want their daughter to live well, after all, it is their daughter who has raised her for so many years.

Now it seems to be an indisputable fact that the cost of marrying a wife is increasing, and generally women will ask for a house, a car, and an additional bride price ranging from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands, and there are also requirements for the specifications of the wedding. Many men or the man's parents complain about this, and I think the reasons for the increase in the cost of marrying a wife are none other than the following:

1. The inevitable product of economic development.

Personally, I think that the current rapid development of the economy, every household has a certain material foundation, for many women and their parents, it is natural to find the right son-in-law, my daughter is a princess at home, married into the other party's family, is bound to not be wronged, must maintain the original standard of living, or get a better one. Therefore, with the continuous development of the economy, the formation of marriage must also rise and not fall behind.

2. Men and women spend too little time together, and use material things to buy a sense of security.

At present, both men and women, put more time and energy into the brainless work, many married two people, are introduced by others, blind dates, may get along for about half a year or so, about to talk about marriage, before entering the marriage, the woman will always mutter, how much do I know each other? How much does he love me? When these problems recur in her mind, she always has to get along with some countermeasures, just in case, so if she wants a big house, it will not be so abrupt to ask for more dowry, after all, only what she can grab can give many people a sense of security.

3. The ratio of men and women is unbalanced, and high-quality girls are becoming more and more scarce.

As we all know, the ratio of men to women in China is seriously unbalanced, and it has been reported that in the next 20 years, there will be 30 million men in China who will be singles, so it is not surprising that there are more men than women, so that many high-quality single young men cannot find suitable partners. In front of high-quality single girls, there is nothing wrong with spending more. After all, if you want to return the beauty for free, this is not something that a man should think about!

4. The psychology of comparison.

Look at the above list of the cost of marrying a wife in various cities in the interior of China, you will find that the cost of marrying a wife is still high, and sometimes it is also caused by people's comparison psychology, last year there was a wedding team in Harbin, which was very eye-catching, and used *** to take aerial photography, and the Ferrari of the kissing team was all the same, and it was a small sensation in the local area at that time, and such a wedding in the south was not strange. Therefore, the wedding is pompous, and the wedding of millions is just to show the dignity of one's identity and status. And for many people, you have money, your family spends 1 million to marry a daughter-in-law, my family will spend 2 million, and you must not lose in the matter of marrying a daughter-in-law!

The increase in the cost of marrying a wife is determined by subjective and objective factors, but it is hoped that everyone will marry because of love, not because of material conditions, regardless of gender. There is still an essential difference between marrying love and marrying money.