Am I sick? Every time I put the blame on myself, I always feel that I am wrong.

You're not sick, you just don't know how to reject others, maybe you still have low self-esteem, maybe you have a little bit of perfectionism.

But it's not a good thing to always be a good person, because not everything is okay to be a good person.

Maybe you always feel embarrassed when you reject people, always feel that it is your own fault, in fact, it is not your own fault, because we have no reason, there is no need to harm our own interests for the sake of other people's affairs.

If you do this, others may appreciate you, but few people will be like you.

So, just talk to him, this may make him unhappy, but since he has ignored your feelings, then you don't need to care about his thoughts, respect is mutual, and he can be unrighteous if he is unkind.

Tell him you're going to get a certificate, let him go back to his place to play on the computer, and go straight to it.

Yes Too gentle, and if it's ugly, it's weak!

Take a look at my opinion, and I hope you can be cheerful after reading it.

No one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings and deficiencies, that's for sure, so you don't have to take everything on yourself, the key is to be right about things and not people, feel that some things need to be borne to get the results you want, then you can bear it, this is the so-called life to give us the test, in the past, there is a harvest on both sides, even if there is no harvest, we will be more mature, and then we will know how to deal with it, so the necessary pressure for people to live will always be there. As for how to reject others, everyone has their own life and the persistence they need to struggle, and if they feel that they need to remove the obstacles, they muster up the courage to sweep them out, those are all external forces that lead to failure, whether it is people and things, so there is no need to dwell on whether this decision should be made or not, you can say what you should say, you need to say your persistence and the interference he caused, this will have an effect, I believe he will understand you.

Hope mine helps you, thanks.

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There was only a week to sacrifice, and for a week, the power was cut off every day. He's going to be annoyed.

As the saying goes, a slap doesn't make a sound. There are positive and negative factors in the occurrence of anything, and we must look at the problems that arise dialectically.

People living in society will be more or less affected by external factors, and consciously or unconsciously will change their original good nature due to the influence of the objective world. Especially when one's own interests are infringed, people's sense of protection will be highlighted, and they will shirk the responsibility they should bear to the other party in order to achieve the greatest benefit, and we should be soberly aware of this.

It should be said that everyone has the subjective initiative to protect themselves, and this kind of self-protection behavior sometimes hurts others, sometimes violates the truth of objective facts, and will inevitably lead to the further expansion of contradictions after the incident. It is not difficult to see that when something happens where the parties have an interest, every spear will be pointed directly at the other party, and every shield will also resist and fight back. It is in this fierce collision of spear and shield that we obtain the truth, and it is only after a series of encounters that we can obtain the truth in order to resolve the contradictions.

To be able to fully understand the existence of a pair of contradictions requires us to look at problems with dialectics, objectively and fairly reflect the truth of facts, and have the courage to take responsibility and find our own shortcomings. Looking at the problem in two, empathy, putting the interests of others above their own interests, and putting the collective interests above their own interests, then everything encountered will turn hostility into jade brocade, and it can really play a role in helping harmony in society.

People don't want to reflect on their own ==