I can t find a boy I like, is there something wrong with my own psychology?

I'm like that too!A lot of boys around coconut oil chase me!But I don't like any of them!My friends say I'm too demanding! But I don't think this kind of thing can be done sloppily. Otherwise, hurt others and wronged yourself! ~.

And I think we should adhere to the principle of preferring shortage to abundance! ~

If you can't stand the loneliness now, just find someone. Wait until the right person shows up. And what should we do...

I don't think it's too demanding to think of girls like us. Or what, it's just that we are responsible for our feelings! We are serious about feelings!

Be sure to wait until the right person shows up! And be sure that he will appear soon! ~.

Wishing you to find your Prince Charming soon.

It's not related to psychological problems, right?

No, maybe fate hasn't arrived.

Opportunity + time + luck + to meet the right person at the right time.

I think it's right to believe in fate, but if this fate doesn't appear for a long time, it may be your problem. Love needs to wait, but the person you are waiting for who thinks they are right may not exist or is too far away, after all, there is a difference between girls and boys, boys can wait until the age of 30 for the one in their hearts, girls cannot. Many girls are often pressured to find people after the age of 26 who are not even as good as those who pursued them but were rejected.

I think it's the most realistic to choose the best fit for you among those who pursue you.

Will come into it later. Maybe it's because you didn't pay attention to it?..Just feel it with your heart. You're sure to come across something you like.

Of course not. It only means that you haven't met.

So far, I haven't felt for anyone.

Think about it, what kind of boy do you like, do you have a standard in mind?

It is enough for a woman to be content.

Because many boys are good at disguise, they don't show their inner emotions at all, so you can't see it at all.

Because boys will be more or less machismo, although they like you, they will hide it very well, and they don't want to lower their figure, so they can't see it.

Because boys are very good at disguise, and sometimes they are moody, so they can't see it at all.

In fact, it's because he's so good at hiding, and it's like this for everyone, in fact, you don't have a sense of security, and she always acts like she doesn't care very much.

The main thing is that some people are very good at disguising themselves and are masters of love. Some of their behaviors are incomprehensible to others, so sometimes it is impossible to see whether a boy likes him or not.

Because if you like the other person, you will automatically give the other person a filter, and even if the other party doesn't care about you, you will make a good excuse for him. And some boys also like to cast a wide net, and they have an ambiguous feeling for everyone. It makes you think that the other person likes you, but there is a sense of alienation, so you can't see it.

Because boys have always been good at hiding their emotions, they are not as emotional as girls, and it is not easy to control their emotions, so boys generally can't see it when they like someone.

1. Expression test.

Test whether a guy likes you by his facial expressions and motor reactions when he speaks.

According to scientific research

Boys like girls with squinting eyes, eyes full of affection, soft speech, nervous expression, slightly open mouth, restlessness, and so on.

When a girl is talking to a boy she likes, she carefully observes the boy's expression

If you feel that the boy's face is moist and red, he is nervous, and his eyes are very gentle, it means that the boy likes you;

If you feel that the boy's expression has not changed much, or if he speaks hard or even a little impatient, it means that the boy does not like you.

2. Topic test.

Have a good conversation with a guy and test whether he likes you with words during the conversation.

Find the right time and occasion, preferably in the presence of the two of you.

You can find an appropriate topic to test on.

Example: I fell in love with a boy who was as tall as you, very kind and handsome, but I don't know if people like me or not.

Do you think he can like me?

If the guy doesn't like you or doesn't like you, then he may say he doesn't know or use other words to perfunctory you.

If the guy likes you too, he either blushes and embarrasses you, or simply says he likes you.

3. Gift test.

Buy a gift for a guy and decide if he likes you based on whether he accepts the gift or not.

Buy a guy's favorite gift and find a chance to give it to him:

If he is happy and happy to accept your gift, it means that the boy has a crush on you and likes you;

If he refuses or reluctantly accepts your gift, it means that the guy doesn't like you.

Fourth, the help test.

I found the boy directly or called the boy **, saying that I was now experiencing some difficulties at home and needed to borrow money from him.

When it comes to borrowing money, the average person is very sensitive.

Unless you are borrowing money from your loved ones or best friends, you should be especially cautious.

Especially when a woman borrows money, if it is not her best friend or the person she trusts the most, she will not easily open up to others.

Borrowing money from a boy shows that the boy has a certain status in the girl's heart, which the average boy will realize and feel.

If the boy can lend you money very quickly or he doesn't have so much money on hand, and he promises to find a way to help you solve it, it means that the boy likes you;

If the boy finds another reason not to lend you money, or if he is reluctant to lend you money, it means that the boy does not like you.

5. Invitation to test.

Send out invitations to guys you like, invite them to join you for dinner, movies, shopping, etc.

Boys and girls are of marriageable age and are particularly sensitive to invitations from the opposite sex

If the guy is happy to accept your invitation, it means that the guy likes you too;

If the guy doesn't accept your invitation, it means that the guy doesn't like you.

First of all, this girl, from your description, you can see that you like a boy, but you don't know if people like you or not, and you want to know if you should take the initiative? If you like it from the heart, of course you have to take the initiative, otherwise if you miss it, you will be picked up by others, and it will be too late to regret it. Besides, now that men and women are equal, no matter who likes whom, they can take the initiative to chase them, and they don't necessarily have to be boys to take the initiative to chase girls, girls can also take the initiative to chase boys, which is nothing to be ashamed of.

Secondly, you can try to contact him more often, first see if he has that meaning for you, the most direct way is to ask him for help and let him introduce you to a boyfriend! In doing so, you will at least have the opportunity to express to him your mate selection conditions, of course, similar to his. See what his reaction will be when he listens to your conditions and requirements, if he also likes you, I believe he will definitely hint at something, he will definitely tell you how others are not good, if so, then congratulations, you are going to succeed.

Third, if you are shy and embarrassed to say it clearly, then try to be tactful, you can ask him to pay some money in advance in a certain opportunity for common consumption, and ask him to return afterwards, and you can send a small gift by the way to express your gratitude when you repay the money. Or find a spurious reason to ask him to give you guidance at work, and I believe he will not refuse. At this time, if he also has a good impression of you, he will definitely show it, so that you will naturally come together.

Fourth, if you really like it, and you can't wait for it, and you can't hold it back, what if you just express it to him? It's a big deal to be rejected, and you won't lose a piece of meat! As a woman in the new era, you must have the courage to boldly pursue the man you like, rather than relying on others to introduce those men who no one wants and don't know how to show yourself.

What do you think, how can excellent men wait for others to introduce, they have already been robbed of others, those men who are waiting for others to introduce objects, most of them are leftover men who no one wants and don't know how to love, so when you meet the right one, hurry up, don't lose it, and regret it!

You shouldn't take the initiative, but you can maintain a very good friend relationship with him, and with a friend relationship, you can have more contact, so that you can cultivate a relationship with him, and if you feel that he can also do you, then you can tentatively express some likes, but don't scare him away, it's best to keep some ambiguity. If you express it too directly and urgently, it is very likely that you will have nothing, and it is best to use a roundabout way.

Should. First, the person you like should take the initiative. Second, if you want to know if you like yourself, you must first test yourself. You will only know if you have been tempted. Third, accumulate experience. One should be brave enough to pursue the person he likes.

I think you should take the initiative, whether he likes you or not, after all, it is not easy to meet someone you like, so you should be brave enough to confess to the other party.

I think you should take the initiative so that you can get your love and not feel regretful.

This question reminds me of my life in high school, I think I was really at the age of the beginning of love in high school, it was the first time I had a boy I liked, because before I didn't know what liking meant, I just felt that he was different from everyone else, and I just wanted to be with him and wanted to be good to him. But I really don't know what kind of heart he has, so I have kept this feeling in my heart, but you will find that no matter how deep you hide, you will still have concerns in your heart, and it was very naïve at the time, and I didn't know how to solve it.

I think in the face of a boy I like, but I'm not sure what he wants, sometimes girls still need to take the initiative, when you feel that the time is enough,I still want to show him my heart. If you don't dare to express your thoughts to him just because you don't know what his heart is, I think you will definitely regret it later, because you missed someone you once liked so much, and you can't let go.

So for me at that time, I didn't dare to express my heart to others, and I wasn't sure if I loved me or not, at that ageI don't know how to deal with many things, but I am willing to be good to him silently, to get close to him, to get along with him more, and to know how to be measured. So I think when you meet a boy you like, you have to be there for him.

In this case, if you find that she doesn't have any feelings for you at all, and has already made it clear to you that it is impossible between the two of you, I hope that you can leave clearly at this time, but when you have been with her for a long time, or you want to show your heart to him, you must also be brave enough to say it, because sometimes it is best to cut through the mess quickly. It doesn't have to be buried deep in our hearts, we need to express our feelings, no matter what the result is, we never feel ashamed of ourselves, this is the best.

If you are not sure of his intentions, in this case, try to pursue the other party, and then try to confess to the other party to see what the other party thinks, so that you can know what the other party means.

Of course, you can determine the other party's mind by knocking on the side, for example, you can use the other party's friends to determine whether the boy has himself in his heart.

Find a suitable opportunity to put it to the test, such as asking him for help, or telling him about his difficulties and seeing how he reacts.

You can tentatively confess your thoughts, understand what the other party thinks, and then make a decision.

I think it's better to observe and observe, if he also likes you, he will show it, and you have to take the initiative yourself and let others not know what you mean.

You can test him slowly, and if the other party responds, it means that the other party also has a good impression of you.

I think it's important to tell him what you want, tell him you like him, and then ask him what's going on in his heart, and don't speculate here.

I think you can tentatively ask the boy for his opinion, or buy his friends to help you ask the boy if he has a crush. Since I like it very much, let's muster up the courage to give it a try.