Big brothers and sisters come to help me how to be a good boy

Don't do bad things, don't smoke, don't drink, don't fight, study hard, be honest, don't speak ill of others, and learn to praise others sincerely.

Naughty point (male).

Be cheerful. Be enthusiastic.

Smile a little more.

In this way, almost everyone loves it. Ha ha.

The gentleman is respectful and respectful, and courteous to others. All brothers in the four seas!

Children should be respectful and not offensive, respectful and courteous to others. Are you still worried that people won't be your friends?

Honesty, filial piety, diligence, modesty, courtesy, tolerance, and love.

The criteria for a good student are met first.

It's hard to be a good kid, hey Actually, we're all good kids, and we all have strengths and weaknesses. I can only say that we learn from the strengths of others and make up for our own shortcomings.

As long as you study well.

Good character. Treat people well, it's almost enough!

In the eyes of many parents, good learning means that everything is good.

Hehe......You don't care what others think of you! Just remember one thing! Only your own happiness is the most important thing, and others love it! ......

Go your own way, be assertive in everything, but ask for the advice of adults.

Well, it mainly depends on your daily behavior, you must be approachable, have a good attitude, be generous, and be able to see things.

I love miscellaneous.

Don't smoke, don't drink, don't fight, study hard, be upright, don't speak ill of others, and learn to sincerely praise others upstairs.

And a better temper.

My plan for the new semester is: first of all, to be a good child who is civilized, polite and disciplined. To be civilized means to insist on speaking civilized words and doing civilized things in daily life.

No swearing, no fighting and swearing. Be hygienic, don't spit, don't throw confetti, and dare to resist the uncivilized behavior of others. To be polite is to be polite to others.

Teachers should be respected at school, and classmates should be united and help each other. At home, you should honor your parents and elders, listen to the words of repentants, and don't just quarrel with your parents to ask for pocket money. To abide by discipline means to strictly abide by the rules and regulations of the school and the daily code of conduct of primary school students, go to school on time, not to be late or leave early, to strictly abide by classroom discipline, not to speak during class, and not to make small movements.

I think each of us has a kind heart and wants to help others, but seeing that others are often misunderstood for doing some good deeds, I am also very skeptical, which makes me feel that it is difficult to be a good person. The three difficult moments are:

1。When I take the initiative to help others and take it for granted, I find it difficult to be a good person.

In general, you should thank others for their kindness when you take the initiative to help them. But sometimes, when I take the initiative to help others, I take it for granted, and even feel that it is wrong not to help him.

2.When you help others, there are so many demands on you that it's hard to be a good person.

Generally speaking, when a person receives help from others and his own difficulties are solved, he will thank the other person and no longer accept the other party's help. However, when some people accept help from others, they are too demanding, and turn other people's help into their own improper benefits. At this time, people will feel that it is difficult to be a good person.

3.When I should have been kind enough to help others, but I was blamed for no reason, I felt that it was difficult for me to be a good person.

Sometimes, when we are kind enough to help others, we get unwarranted accusations instead of gratitude. He was very dissatisfied with the fact that the other party turned a blind eye to our help and kept pestering us to blame us. This situation will make you feel very chilled and will make you think that it is difficult to be a good person.

The above situations are not uncommon in interpersonal communication, so when we want to help others, the first thing that comes to mind is how to protect ourselves so that we can be a really good person.

1 Spend half an hour a day talking to your child.

2 Also use civilized language at home with children, such as "good morning, please, thank you, good night", etc.

3. Let children develop good habits of hygiene.

4 Listen to your child's voice! ——With patience, love, and happiness, the heart has eyes!

5 Don't always reveal your child's scars in order to remind them.

6 Seriously point out your child's mistakes!

7 Don't always be serious with your children, but laugh with them more: because laughter can make children love life more; Guide your child to look at things positively, easily and happily.

8 Be patient when telling stories to your children, as they have educational significance.

9 Don't impose on your children the ideals that you didn't realize in the past, and want them to achieve them.

10 Care for the child, but appropriate punishment at the right time is also needed, do not protect the child's shortcomings.

11 Education does not have to be just reasoning, and sometimes it is appropriate to take some strong measures.

12 Think about at least one question about your child's development every day in light of your child's performance.

13. It is very beneficial to carry out art education for children, cultivate children's elegant aesthetic taste, pay attention to guide and enrich children's perceptual understanding, and deepen children's emotional experience in nature.

14 For children in early childhood, do not allow them to live with their parents for long periods of time, as it is not conducive to education. Maybe there is no scientific reason, but it definitely applies.

15 Pay attention to nurturing kindness in your children. The ancients said: Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small.

16 Teach your children to smile, to smile at everything in life, to smile at life.

17 Do not make random wishes to your children, and do everything you can to fulfill your promises.

18 Always put yourself in their shoes! Parents should always empathize with what their children do and think, if I were a child, what would happen to me?

19 Give your child a certain amount of space and freedom, and at the same time give a certain amount of pressure and responsibility!

20 Explain to your child that he is already lovely and that he does not need to express himself.

21 Never say that a child is worse than another child.

22 Never punish a child with verbal abuse.

23 In what your child does, keep looking for something to be praised.

24 Don't scare your child. So as not to cause the child to be too timid and afraid.

25 Do not criticize and ridicule your child in public, so as not to cause psychological deformities, loss of self-confidence, etc.

26 Don't be overly your children. lest children be afraid and shy to express their own opinions, and develop a character of good and evil.

27 Don't praise your child too much. lest children develop the bad habit of "selling fame and reputation".

28 Don't suggest that your child is doing something undesirable. For example, you must fight back, don't give your own things to eat, don't buy tickets for the bus, etc.

Everything is progressive. However, the progress of education is the highest level, that is, teaching students according to their aptitude, teaching in fun, and I hope that Chinese education can be like this, love is the first principle of education. Be sure to let your child know that you love him, pay attention to the correct expression, if you are willing to communicate with your child calmly at the right time, I don't think there is a child who is unwilling.

Love is the soil that produces understanding. Teaching students according to their aptitude is secondary. Everyone has their own nature, everyone is willing to accept different things, parents can only find out what their children are most interested in, and guide them according to the situation, so that their children can be happy to accept.

The nutrients that make the crops satisfactory are the best nutrients, the goods that satisfy the customers are the best goods, and the most willing to accept the method is the best education method, so that the children can develop their own things to do, do not replace everything, let the children learn first, happy and independent learning, do not give the child too much pressure, let the child combine work and rest, do not let the child study time to occupy the time to play, because it is the child's nature to love to play, and a long time of learning will make him tired of learning and resist learning. Learning is secondary, and morality is the most important. It is necessary to educate children to respect their elders, care for their peers, be loving and responsible, not to spoil children too much, and let them develop the habit of relying on adults.

How to educate children? Parents need to set an example and think more from the child's point of view. Communicate with an equal mindset so that children are more willing to connect with their parents and the educational aspects are better.

How to educate children?

Educating children is a science for parents, but in fact, the most important thing is that parents need to be patient and think more from the perspective of their children. Now let's take a look at the following ways of education!

1. Don't use scolding.

Some parents are very strict with their children, so whenever their children make mistakes, they will not calmly understand and reason, but first scold and beat them. Always think that children can't be successful if they don't fight, and treating children in this way not only can't make children really realize their mistakes, but also leaves a shadow in their hearts, and their personalities are easy to become more extreme.

2. Parents should set a good example.

Children's imitation ability is very strong, so the words and deeds of parents have a deep impact on children. Parents should set a good example for their children. Lead by example.

If there is a problem with the parent's character itself, and the child will only learn the same, then how can a good child be educated. So it's really important to teach by example.

3. Adults' opinions should be unified.

Parents should communicate well and have unified opinions in educating their children. Don't talk about things and I talk about things, and don't count each other down in front of children. The child will feel overwhelmed and will not know who to listen to.

And the prestige of adults in front of children will also be gone. After a long time, it is more difficult to discipline the child.

4. Let children's interests develop freely.

Nowadays, parents have high hopes for their children, enroll their children in various specialty classes, and ask their children to do so, but ignore their children's real interests. Therefore, what parents should do is to let the child make his own decisions, if the child shows a certain hobby, do not interfere, but should encourage him, maybe it can also become a skill for the child.

As parents, if you want to educate a good child, parents should lead by example and teach by example. Parents themselves must first do what they ask their children to do. If the child is asked not to do it, the parents themselves do not do it first.

Encourage your child, give him confidence, give him directions, and so on.

Educating children well is a complex and heavy topic, and it cannot be explained clearly in a few words. Educating children, the family environment, parents who lead by example are the most important. There are also schools and social education, etc.

The first thing is to be positive in everything you do, complete the homework assigned by the teacher on time, and don't develop a bad habit of procrastination.

The second is to be helpful, and when you see someone in need of help, you have to lend a helping hand as much as you can. For example, if a classmate forgets to take notes, you can lend them your notes.

Be an obedient child, especially listen to your parents, grandparents, and don't contradict your elders.

Learn to do more things that you can do yourself. For example, cooking and washing clothes, slowly develop a good habit of diligence.

If you do the above points, you can be regarded as a good boy in the eyes of everyone.

It's very simple to be a good child, as long as you are filial to your parents, don't often make your parents angry, and help your parents do what they can, then it's already good. But it's also important for parents to know what their children are thinking!!

Sensible, obedient, and don't let your parents worry about it. Able to share household chores within their ability for their parents.

Listen to adults. Study hard. Job.

There is no absolute good child in the world, as long as you feel that you have paid for others, you are a good child!