If we love each other but can t be together, isn t it very useless

In this day and age, it's impossible. We can definitely be together. Bless you all!

What does it mean to be useless, understand, it's useless if you can't be together? There are so many people who can't be together in this society now, oh, you don't mean that you can't be physiologically inadequate, so you can't ......?

It's very helpless that people who love each other are not together, but if you can give them a better future, it may not be a good thing. We all have helpless things, but if we strive for it and it doesn't work, then we can be considered at ease!!

Love each other but can't be together, it is likely that fate arranges you to meet in time, establish each other's feelings and facts of true love, when your years pass, when you wrinkles crawl all over your forehead, you can always recall the past with the banner of true love, and you can also nourish the current life with happiness and tenderness, no longer panic in the noisy world, and no longer care about everything is not good, but the heart is rich, but relieved of all the existence.

Once there is a true love, it is the most romantic encounter in life, and once met a very special person, it is the ultimate gift in life, you don't have to have it, and it is not necessarily a good thing to have it or get too close.

It means that birth, old age, sickness and death are irreversible in life, love each other but have to separate, this resentment will remain in the heart for a long time, pursue but can't get it, give up and be reluctant.

From "Ask the Buddha" in "The Poetry of Cangyang Gyatso".

There happens to be a saying that goes like this: The farthest distance in the world is not - I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you, but --- two people who know that they love each other can't be together!

Hehe, just use it! In fact, this is the contradiction between love and reality. There's a saying that goes like this:

Love is the ideal, marriage is the reality. It is not uncommon for people who love each other to end up unable to be together for such reasons, and even to go to a dead end. Sometimes it still feels a little bit (?)

The sorrow of helplessness.

Friends, in fact, all a friend here can give you is a little bit of advice and your own theory. As for how to solve your affairs well, it depends on your own efforts and communication and understanding with parents to do better, although this is not necessarily 100% sure, but if you are truly in love, it will be a pity to give up your love and lover because of such a problem.

This is just my personal opinion, you can refer to it, hehe!

The first thing to do is to make sure that you have further confirmation of your feelings – if there is enough love to keep you together! If you have one, then you can continue to watch, if not, then try ---not to think about how beautiful it is to be together (the difference between ideal and reality)!

Secondly, if you want to solve such a thing, you must first look at what the main contradiction is and what is the reason for the final decision on such a result (not being able to be together).

Thirdly, don't have conflicts with your parents, otherwise it will be more and more difficult to solve the problem better. Communicate well with your parents so that they understand your feelings and their place in their hearts.

There is also the fact that as long as you know that parents all over the world want their children to live a happy life in the future, as long as you have enough conditions to prove to your parents that you can or have enough ability and information to live a better life together, then your parents will believe in your feelings and will gradually be moved by your feelings and future happiness, and finally will agree. Although this is not absolute, as long as you do your best, I think it should be much better than those more contradictory methods such as arguing with your parents!

In the end, it's up to your luck and your level of communication with your parents! Hey! This is just a theory without practice, so you can practice it, and for the happiness you want!

Oh, good friends, bless you guys!

You have to first understand whether you really love her, and then calm down and think about whether she is worth your wait. Make your own decision in the end.

Also, will he be separated from that boyfriend? Is there really so much she can't let go?

If you can wait, wait for a woman's heart to change the fastest, and people chase after it!

Since you love each other, why can't you be together, I want to ask if you have all fought for it yourself?

If you love each other, I believe we will definitely be together, and you will only know if you have worked hard. Have you ever worked on it?

It may be due to distance, identity, or family blocks.

Anyway, there are many reasons.

If you really like each other.

Don't be confused by these mundane things.

People who truly love each other have to trust each other.

Impress those who stand in your way with your sincerity.

You may have loved each other, you may have liked each other, but for what reason haven't you been together?

Maybe he can't chase you for the sake of righteousness between friends.

Maybe it's to take into account the opinions of your family.

You're not together.

Maybe in order to go abroad for further study, he didn't ask you to wait for him.

Maybe you met too early and don't know how to cherish each other.

Maybe you met too late and you already have another person by your side.

Maybe you're too late to turn back, and the other person is no longer waiting.

Maybe you're trying to get out of each other's hearts.

But even though you're not together, you're still friends. But you know in your hearts that you care more about this person than your friends. Even if you can't just hold hands with him and go shopping, you can still be friends who talk about everything.

He has someone he likes, and you will help him chase him verbally, but you don't really know if you really want him to chase him.

When he is in trouble, you will do your best to help him, regardless of who owes him. When your boyfriend and girlfriend are jealous, you will reassure them that you and he are just friends, but there will be a trace of uncertainty in your heart. Everyone has had this special friend in their hearts in their lives, and they have very contradictory behaviors.

At first, you were unwilling to just be friends, but after a long time, you suddenly found that this is the best.

You'd rather care about him like that than you'd be together and break up someday.

You'd rather be his friend and not be jealous of each other, so that you can really talk about everything.

Especially so, you still know that he will always care about you. can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, what's wrong with being his special friend? This special friend in your heart.

Who is it? Armament.

A lot of feelings, because of wishful thinking, in the end even friends can not be, often feel sorry for the wax spike shed, but unfortunately some originally very good friendship, but in the end because the other party likes you, if you don't react, this friendship seems to be difficult to maintain, it is no wonder that some people will not take this step because of this.

Because it's like a bet, after confessing, you either become a boyfriend and girlfriend, or you can't even be a friend. Some things are not expected by you, maybe the other person doesn't care, you can still be friends, but it's not as good as before. It's a pity, it's a pity!

But there is another possibility that you may never be willing to be just friends.