How can I miss her less so much, how can I make him her miss me more and more?

Then there are only two ways, the first is you go to her and talk to her. Second, you're looking for one. But in my opinion, in your current state, the second point can be discharged directly, because you can't let go of your current girlfriend, so you should go and see the first point, this is also the best solution, believe in yourself, you can do it, I hope you can, come on!!

It's still important to reduce contact.

You can't completely let go because you haven't been desperately thorough. When you don't see any hope, you naturally give up.

It's a pity, but I still have to hold on to some luck, and I have a hint of fantasy.

I hope you don't do that, I don't want this to be painful. This kind of love is really painful.

Pathetic, the only word I can think of.

I don't want to be miserable anymore, I don't want to be obsessed anymore. I don't want to see others suffering, I don't want to see others obsessed.

We should all take our hearts and stop dwelling on what we can't get.

Don't waste time waiting for those who don't belong to us.

How can you avoid the sorrow and hatred in life, and what is the limit of the soul and self-love.

There are some things that you still can't seem to let go.

A wait that doesn't belong to you.

There will never be an end.

There are some things that you really can't change no matter how hard you try.

There are some things that don't belong to you and will never be obtained.

It hasn't started and it won't come to fruition.

Never gained, not even lost power.

Cherish what you have now.

Strive for those that can be obtained through hard work.

Sometimes, don't let too much worry hold you back.

People think too much and forget what they really want.

I don't know if I believe in fate or fate.

If so, how, and where can it lead us? I thought I was destined for someone, but I just thought.

Even if there is fate, let people meet and separate, but is fate enough to make people connect their destinies?

In the end, it was still no match for time.

Time, in the end, still dilutes everything.

Someone you used to be eventually becomes your so-and-so.

That's it.

In the future, I will no longer waste time for him, and I will not waste my feelings again.

There is heartache and loss, but everything will pass. You'll still be smiling.

For the real world, don't expect too much.

In this way, when you get it, you will be extra grateful and surprised.

When you are let down, you won't be too sad.

Deliberately forgetting a person has no effect.

It is only possible to integrate yourself into your surroundings and the people around you into your own life.

At that time, the former figure became blurred, and it became meaningless to reluctantly remember.

I hope you will get out of the haze as soon as possible and find a life that makes you happy and happy.

What others gave me, I hope it will be useful to you.

First of all, a woman who has changed her mind is not worth keeping

Secondly, after a breakup, everyone will be attached to each other, unforgettable, you must resist, time is the best medicine Things have changed, and when you look back, you will feel that the clouds are light and light

Again, there are other ways to dilute your current mind, such as working hard, exercising like crazy, or taking a trip with friends, or spending a month in the library

In the end, if it really doesn't work, start another relationship, which is the most effective method, but you have to be cautious!

Actually, you don't need to do this to yourself, think about treating yourself badly for a woman who has changed her mind! It's not worth it!

And, for your parents, they don't want you like that!

Your parents will be heartbroken!

You can talk to your friends! Especially friends who know that you and her have a lot of things to do, that's even better!

It's good to get used to it!

Or is it very long!

Still, we have to laugh!

Smile in the face of helplessness, smile in the face of the future!

Just give yourself a new chance, stand up, and move forward without looking back!

Because habit!

In fact, everyone is amorous, and when they are separated, of course they will miss her!

In fact, if it takes a long time, it will naturally fade away.

But not forgetting!

After all, how can you avoid not thinking about her if you have loved her.

People are people after all.

So don't be so deliberate not to think about her.

In that case, you will be miserable.

Rather than face the breakup so correctly.

In fact, I think the more deliberately forgetting, the more you are deceiving yourself, why not spend your time on work, study, sports, let the time to dilute everything that happened before, remember, falling out of love is to give yourself another chance to turn over.

The woman has changed her mind, and the nine heads can't be pulled back, think about it, you just fell out of love, and the way to empathize and don't fall in love.

Since they all think it's not a big deal, why can't they sleep? It shows that you still like her, why not try to redeem it? Everyone knows that they know how to cherish after loss.

Time can dilute everything.

I think we should think about it.

If you want to be tired, it's okay to be numb.

It'll be fine after a while.

Find a new one! This is the experience of many people.

Hello! I have received your question, I am Zhang Jing, a counselor of the psychological platform at the moment.

First of all, rather than how to make him think about you more and more, perhaps more important is to really understand why you have such a need. What was the reason for the breakup in the first place?

If it is a breakup chosen by the other party, do you hope that the other party will miss you more and more, more because they are unwilling to lose a love? Or can't stand being abandoned? Or are you unable to handle this process of loss and separation of intimacy? Can't afford a sudden moment of solitude? Wait a minute.

If it was a breakup that you chose, what happened, what thoughts, and what emotions caused you to propose a breakup but now seem to regret it? What is the essence of these emotions in these things? Is it to propose a breakup to achieve the purpose of a kind of control?

Or is it too powerless and helpless to express it to the other party by proposing to break up? Or are there some impulsive traits in your personality that you can't control?

So how do you tell which or which of the above mentioned or not? This requires a person to quietly and concentrate on experiencing all the feelings in their hearts, and if they can speak, what will they say? They may express all kinds of content, even a little contradictory, it doesn't matter, the more they say, the better, they don't need to give them any conclusions, give them a space that is open enough, let their deep feelings slowly surface, sink those false feelings that are superficially like this but may not actually be, and let their hearts change from vague to clear, from chaos to order, from single to rich.

Finally, if you really understand your heart (in fact, this step is difficult, sometimes you need to use psychological counseling to complete), you find that you are indeed still in love with each other, so I hope he misses you more and more, I still suggest that in this relationship that you think is worthwhile, be a true self, you can take the initiative to do something to take the initiative to express your heart, and you are more likely to gain a happier and more real relationship.

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Summary. You can see your helplessness at this moment, and you don't know exactly what's going on, but it seems that you should see a lot because of this.

The idea is that she can't help it, and she can't think of you what she wants.

You can see your helplessness at this moment, and you don't know exactly what's going on, but it seems that you should see a lot because of this.

This sentence is actually very true, and it is also pursued by universal psychology.

When I expressed some thoughts about my husband's behavior, and then he told me that the idea was mine, he couldn't help it.

What do you say I should do.

Okay, I'll help you figure it out.

I think you are a little disappointed to hear your husband respond like this, and your husband is resistant to expressing it. Assuming your relationship is solid, try responding like this: (Title) Maybe my expression makes you feel uncomfortable (empathy), but my original intention is that I hope we can get along better and I may get to know each other better.

Can you tell me about those thoughts that make you feel uncomfortable? (You can ask the other person to try to communicate with you) so that you may be able to know the reason for the other person's emotions.