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Not in a hurry, not fast, not slow, as you go. When we get along with our classmates, we should grasp a degree. You can't be too hasty, and you can't be too impatient, because, after all, getting along with classmates is not a matter of one or two days, and besides, it is impossible for us to get to know a person thoroughly in a few days.
From a philosophical point of view, the first thing we come into contact with is just the superficial phenomenon of things, and we must continue to accumulate perceptual materials, and constantly process these perceptual materials, and then obtain substantial things. Remember, don't jump to a conclusion about someone, don't be quick to say how someone is. In order for you to be able to interact well with your classmates, I think we should take our time, gradually understand someone's personality and many aspects of the situation, treat them specifically, control the heat, and get along peacefully with classmates.
Second, express yourself and win the approval of some people. In the long relationship, we have to gradually show our strengths. A person cannot be perfect, each of us may have one or another shortcoming, so how can we correct it in time?
I think we should find out in time. How can we find out in time? I think we need to be able to perform in a timely manner.
Sell yourself when it's time to make a move. In the eyes or words of others, take the initiative to know yourself, reflect on yourself, and discover your own shortcomings. Easier said than done.
So this requires us to restrain ourselves at all times. We tend to have a selfish mentality, always think that we are perfect, and at the same time dare not face our own shortcomings directly, what we lack is the kind of spirit that is generous and can tolerate Wanchuan. When you really manifest it, when you really discover it, you feel like you've succeeded.
When you discover your own shortcomings, you will also find your own strengths, and you will also be recognized by others.
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Hello dear, 1Be understanding and respectful of each other. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, personality traits, different growth backgrounds and living habits, so in the process of communicating with classmates, we should understand and respect each other, and the relationship between everyone will be easy to harmonious.
2.Be honest with each other. The most important thing in interpersonal interaction is sincerity and goodwill, which is also the fundamental principle of making friends.
It is difficult for people who often lie, who are duplicitous, who are hypocritical and arrogant, to make friends. 3.Be tolerant and forgiving.
It is inevitable that there will be some arguments between classmates. We are still in the stage of growth, and there are often many inappropriate things in dealing with problems, and our classmates will have different opinions on many issues, so we need to empathize with each other, be able to consider problems from each other's point of view, and understand each other. 4.
Be cautious about what you say and do. Students should be cautious in their words and deeds, and don't talk about the same banquet and rent behind their backs, which is the most taboo thing among students.
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<>1. Be polite and generous. Take the initiative to greet classmates warmly, a positive attitude helps to make friends, behave generously with classmates, and at the same time should take into account each other's interests, hobbies and customs, no foul language in conversation, pay attention to civilized language, participate in more group activities in spare time and holidays, and strengthen mutual communication with classmates.
2. Care for each other, help each other, the new environment will encounter many problems, at this time the most need for the mutual care and help of classmates, in this case, can get the sincere care and help of classmates, it is likely to be the starting point of the establishment of good classmates and good friends.
3. Be modest, honest and trustworthy, modesty is a virtue, no matter how capable a person is, don't be arrogant, we come from different places, life backgrounds are not the same, experiences are different, everyone has something worth learning, so we should learn from each other, improve together, be honest with each other, abide by commitments, talk about credit, and don't say big words, so as to win real friendship.
4. Be tolerant and generous, learn to be considerate, we come from different places, in terms of interests, hobbies, sexual pattern Changtong, temperament, living habits, cultural accomplishment, etc., and get along with classmates day and night, sometimes the angle of looking at the problem is not the same, the ideological level is not the same, there will be some behavioral friction and psychological conflicts, which requires us to be humble to each other, strict with ourselves, lenient to others, to deal with problems, seeking common ground while reserving differences, so that there is a fundamental guarantee for friendly coexistence.
5. Overcome your bad habits. Bad behavior habits will affect our image among classmates, such as poor self-care ability, not washing clothes, shoes and socks frequently, not paying attention to personal housekeeping and dormitory, classroom and other environmental hygiene, foul language, etc., are easy to make classmates have a bad impression, students with these bad habits should overcome and correct as soon as possible.
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