It s time for me to get engaged, but I m hesitating...

Work with peace of mind, two people's money can pay a down payment a year, many people give up happiness because of the house, what do girls think, they keep saying that they want to be happy, and they have chosen the house, whether you marry a house or a lover, I don't understand. Of course, you can find someone who loves and is rich to congratulate you, but it is very delicate for two people to live together, usually, the party who is richer and has a higher income has the right to make decisions about things at home. Better conditions than the other party are sometimes an advantage, take a long-term view.

If you really love him, you can think about how to work together to change the status quo when you are together in the future, and everyone wants to go to the sky in one step. Find a rich one, laundry and cook at home every day, more tired than going to work, serving your parents-in-law, you don't dare to say when you are angry, you will regret to divorce when the time comes, but you are old and yellow, your youth is gone, don't be sad when you want it. Life is short for decades, don't let yourself have regrets.

What you want to think about is whether you want to marry happiness or marry a house.

You can discuss it with his parents to see if there is room for maneuver. Borrow some money from relatives, borrow some money from friends, and earn some more money for yourself and your husband, you can buy an apartment or build another house. Love also needs to work hard.

As long as your boyfriend is a good person, a kind person, it is worth paying for him.

Do not hesitate to love him ... If you pay too much attention to the environment. Not good.

Nothing when the engagement arrives. But the key is that you have to think about whether he is worth your life with him. If you feel to love Him ... Be brave.

If you don't feel like it's worth it, leave early. Good for him, good for you.

This, no one can help you, it's your own life. No one else can help you make a decision.

The house can have. The car can be had. But love is hard to come by...

Then wait a little longer, let yourself think about it, do you want a house or a person, don't decide in an ambiguous situation, it's irresponsible for him and for yourself.

I can only tell you, don't pay too much attention to what is in front of you, look farther, you are only 22 years old, there is still a long way to go, no one knows what the future holds. Hardware and material things can be obtained through your own efforts, but what matters is what you and your boyfriend think, are you content with the status quo? Or do you want to live a life of material abundance?

There has to be a goal!