Where is the original post for attending an ex boyfriend s wedding yesterday 15

Haha, it was reported by the hand owed, and it was deleted by the incompetent.

As the saying goes, "a husband and wife for a hundred days", then for a couple, no matter what the circumstances are divorced, it is best not to become enemies, but to treat each other as friends and get along amicably. The ex's invitation to marry shows that she has not vaporized you, so why can't a dignified seven-foot man be magnanimous to bless her?

You are also his ex, she doesn't mind anymore, what do you mind, it's normal to break up in love, and there are ex-exes, post-successors. Men, show your generosity, otherwise the former will think that you are petty. I went to her wedding, it means that I let go of her, I think she invited me to make a break between our relationship, then I will go to her wedding as she wishes, and send me a blessing.

But the situation is very embarrassing, I think I may send my blessings, with my gift, turn around and leave, I have helped her achieve her goal, so my predecessor can also be regarded as benevolent and righteous.

After <> hands, you should not be entangled with your ex, and some people think that not contacting is the greatest respect for the incumbent. No matter what kind of predecessor, they are more likely to make the current taboo, maybe they think it's nothing, but the other party doesn't think so, not going can make the current one happier, and not going can make one's mood better.

Whether the ex is happy or not, whether he is happy or not, whether he is looking for someone who is beautiful or not has nothing to do with him! This is the premise that I can participate in this one, you and your ex themselves can't be together, such as your parents are not supportive, the problem of being in a different place is difficult to solve, the real economic conditions are limited, the personality difference is too great, and the three views do not match. But you said that you would be friends, and you would not be nostalgic for each other, just just be friends, or you would have to meet because of your usual work contacts, and it would even be possible to meet in the circle of mutual friends and related parties in the future, that is to say, although you have broken up emotionally, you can go to deal with everything after it rationally, proving that you are also a very generous person.

Personally, I think it depends on the situation whether to go or not, and I can't absolutely say go or not, because everyone's ex is different, and some people break up because of the helplessness of missing out and reality, and in the end they just hope that each other is good; And some break up because of each other's disloyalty and betrayal, which is a hurt to each other. So it's mainly up to the person to decide whether to go or not.

You can go to the wedding, if you are really relieved, take the red envelope and your happiest appearance and the most sincere blessings to the wedding. If the reason for the breakup is not because the other party made a mistake of principle, but because the personality is incompatible, you have no fate, in fact, it is nothing for you to go to the wedding.

If you want to see it, you can take a look at his bride and his performance on the wedding day, but don't give him a gift money, because if you give it to him, he will definitely not give it to you when you get married, so that you don't regret it.

No, if you want to go, in what capacity are you participating? Going to participate will only make you sad and add to your heart. I think that since we have broken up, it is better to break it cleanly, and don't break the thread and add trouble to yourself.

Should you go to your ex's wedding?

I think it depends on how your relationship is and what the current state of your relationship is. If both parties do not leave a very bad impression on each other after meeting, and they are not in a state of tormenting each other, then you can go.

If you have completely let go of the other person, it doesn't matter if you love or hate, in this case, I think you can go and bless her, after all, you have known each other and have a fateful acquaintance to keep a friend relationship. If you both hold a grudge and have a lot of resentment towards each other, then try not to go. So whether you go or don't go in the end depends on where you are now.

If the other party holds a grudge against you and still has thoughts about you, then you don't want to go, then he will be unhappy.

So whether you want to go or not in the end should depend on what kind of relationship you both have now. If both parties have completely let go of each other from the bottom of their hearts, then you can go, otherwise it is better not to go, and it will be more embarrassing to meet.

See if he invites you. If you are invited, you will go, and if you are not invited, you will not go.

If you are invited, it means that you have let go of you, let go of the past, and want to see you see the mill to testify to his happiness, and I wish you to find your happiness, I have regarded you as a friend, a friend in the past, at this time, you can also be generous and dress up to participate, which is also a kind of respect for his invitation to you. If you don't think you really want to go, then it's good to find an excuse not to go, others invite you is also late lead politeness, you also have to have a certain amount of respect, go to bless well, and don't go to explain the excuse or reason.

If you are not invited, it means that you have forgotten you as a person, or that it is no longer important, or maybe you are afraid of seeing you remember the past. But the point is that people haven't invited you anymore, so why are you bored with yourself, if you want to meet him, then go, see his happiness, in general, go or not, have to combine the reality of the situation, and depending on your mood, in fact, it's not difficult to decide if you're good.