When friendship meets love, how to choose

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Let time figure it out. It doesn't matter if you don't promise him anything, just make him understand that it's just a growing experience. When you look at it in a few years' time, you'll all be smiling at each other.

    Take advantage of this friendship, don't give up easily, your feelings will be deeper after experiencing this. I don't have any specific and clever advice, I just want you to grasp yourself and let him understand that true love doesn't have to be together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Friendship and love are both the two of you.

    It can't be the best of both worlds.

    I believe in love rather than friendship.

    The power of love is endless.

    Only two people really love each other, no matter what setbacks and difficulties they have to face.

    And it's going to be two people together.

    If it's just because of a little difficulty, you give up.

    Then there will be one less couple in the world.

    This is just my personal opinion.

    Whether you cherish this love or not depends on yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can tell him: love is coffee, and it won't taste good if it is left for a long time; Friendship is a fine wine, and the longer it is left out, the more mellow it becomes.

    He likes you and just wants to be with you. But if you don't want to be with him in love, tell him that if you are tied to him in this way, you will be miserable. If he really likes you, he will definitely stand in your perspective and think about you.

    If he can't even do that, then he certainly doesn't really want to be with you, whether it's a friend or a lover.

    In addition, you have to think about whether you really want to be friends with him. In case he is the person on the other side of the red line, he will not come back if he misses it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you really want the best of both worlds? Do you think that's possible? You'd better be realistic! Either be his girlfriend or give up the friendship. Think for yourself!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friendship can be a lifetime, but love is not necessarily If you are together and find that you can't get along, maybe you can't even be friends after you break up, is it worth it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can start by saying that you don't like him, and besides, there are already people you like. If you really like me, you should fulfill me. We're still going to be buddies!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What is the reason why you can't establish a love relationship with him? Where is your own state of mind?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't have love for him, choose friendship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Set your mind right and let time tell him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, this is just a kind of concept formation, which means that you have already identified him as your friend, so of course there is no development. You'd better promise to develop this relationship with him slowly, and if it's suitable, then develop into lovers until you get married. If it doesn't feel like it's right for you, go back and be friends again, and I'm sure your friend can accept it.

    At least you're happy together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Objectively choose according to age.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, do you like people? You should like it, if you don't like it, I don't think you should be bothered about this and come here to ask people for your opinions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's a problem, you should think about it, otherwise, you won't be able to make friends. I haven't really thought about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Correct your mentality, refuse if you don't like it, or let time and behavior prove that you are just good friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Go with the flow and really know what you want. Happy Fun!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you like him, that's fine, if you don't like it, just tell him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

    If my answer can help you, please give a 5 star, thank you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless ...... well

    No one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person is not lonely ..

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