Is it better to be loved or to love someone?

Updated on tourism 2024-05-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personally, I think that loving is just as happy as being loved!

    If you truly love someone, you will be happy with his (her) joy, his (her) sorrow, and his (her) happiness as happiness. You will feel so satisfied when you see him or her happy. When you see him (her) sad, you will be so sad, and when you see him (her) sick, you will be so worried that you want to be by his (her) side, take care of him (her), watch him (her), and not let yourself leave him (her) half a step.

    Then you will feel like you are the happiest person in the world.

    A person really loves you, his (she) care for you, pampered for you, let you move and move, his (her) kind of sincerity without asking for anything in return, but also make you happy to forget yourself.

    Loving is just as beautiful as being loved, just with your sincerity, sincerity and patience!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Whether you are loved or loved, you will be happy.

    To be loved is to be blissful.

    Love is the happiness of giving, and if the effort can be reciprocated, even the gods will envy them.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Of course, it's best to find someone who loves you and the person you love, but if you have to choose to love yourself and what you love, I think I will choose what I love, a big part of love is pain, that's how it feels!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I also don't know, I've had these problems too. I don't think either is perfect

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Truly loving someone can be a lifelong thing, and this feeling can turn into a beautiful emotional memory over time! It's not easy to really love someone!

    Loving someone is sometimes painful and sometimes happy

    But there is no pain in being loved

    It's the same with me. Because one person you just love one person, but the other person doesn't love you, you love someone else like this, and others don't love you, so you love someone else and feel tired.

    I think you are because your efforts have not been recognized and have not been rewarded, so it will hurt and be tired.

    If you love someone, you will want to see him, and then you don't know what to say to him when you meet him. Loving someone will be tempted to talk to him, think of a bunch of things to talk to him. And then when it's time to talk to him, you don't know how to say that if you love someone, you will want to care about them, if you love someone, you will want to understand them, if you love someone, you will want to give for them without expecting anything in return, it is an unconditional sacrifice.

    If you love someone, you will want to be with him and grow old slowly, until you are old.

    A person can feel withdrawn, causing depression. Or more people will feel warm and happy.

    To love someone is to put that person in your heart, and this is easy! But love will get deeper and deeper, that person will be deeply rooted in his own heart, to forget, but to dig that person out of his heart! The heart can ache and hurt, so it's harder to love than to forget!

    Forget, maybe it will take a month, maybe a few years, maybe a lifetime! It depends on when your heart can let go of the past and let go of the love of the past! But forgetting takes time, and time has two sides, if it is used well, it is the antidote, and if it is not used well, it is poison, which will only make yourself more miserable!

    Because I have loved, it is always difficult to forget, those memories of love, the smiling face and words of that person, are deeply rooted in my heart, and I can only gradually forget it! Don't deliberately forget, deliberate will only deepen your own memories.

    Love and be loved are so happy.

    The feeling of love will be sweet and happy, sad and sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is useless, but love does, so why do you say that?

    Love is mutual, one-sided love can't be reciprocated, don't be in a person who doesn't care about you, mess up, don't be in a heart that is not warm, trapped in love. Love is useless, love is useless, love is useful.

    Some people are really affectionate and still remember each other's social interactions after a breakup. As a strange identity, I silently click to view the other party's life, hundreds of pages of chat history, I am not willing to delete it, and I secretly miss you in the dead of night. He still can't forget you, and he can't forget the bits and pieces of those experiences.

    I want to say that it is not the person who loves you who leaves you, why should you be inseparable, a person who does not love you, you should forget, forget your past. Pack up your mood, set off again, and meet the destined person.

    You may say that he doesn't love me or not, I don't care, I just need me to love him, that's just your wishful thinking, that's not love, love is love. If you like someone, you take the initiative to walk a few steps towards him, and if he sees you coming and doesn't mean to greet you, stop. Many things can be achieved through hard work, but not love.

    You may say: "I can't seem to forget such a person", if you can't forget it, you won't forget it, just remember him, those pasts, please keep them in your heart, but there is no need to remember those sadness. Time is the medicine, it can hurt the pain**, and all you have to do is to take care of yourself, pack up your mood, and live well.

    Love is useless, love is useful, lost love is not worth nostalgia, after all, you have to go far, you don't have to be aggrieved to seek peace. Since you don't love anymore, you should let go, do what you like, be free, and there is no one right or wrong in the relationship, it's just not appropriate. Reserved:

    I wish you well, even if it has nothing to do with me later, I wish you happiness", such thoughts.

    The above is the problem, if there is any error, please understand!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, I met my partner in my junior year, and then we were together, learning to eat together, not only boyfriend and girlfriend, but also confidant, although it may disappear, but you don't regret it after you have experienced it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since asked, the instructions have worked.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is a happy thing to be loved, but if you love others, others may not love you.

    Love is when you use your own efforts and your emotions to face the people you care about.

    Being loved may be someone you love in the same way, or someone you don't care about is caring with their actions.

    Drum up and comfort ... with you.

    Love is not wanting to give up.

    To be loved is not acceptable.

    Love hurts and is loved sweetly.

    But often people like to love rather than be loved.

    Loving and being loved is a necessity in life.

    But the reality is often that you love and don't love you.

    You who love you and don't love you.

    Choose to love you, you will not be reconciled.

    Because there is someone you love who holds your heart.

    Choose what you love.

    If he doesn't love you.

    You're going to be sad again.

    In fact, the person who accompanies us for the rest of our lives is not necessarily the one you love the most, but it must be the one that is most suitable for you.

    Loving and being loved is not so absolute

    Just look your heart squarely.

    What kind of person do you need to accompany you through life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, it's not easy

    If you love someone, you want the other person to feel your heart, so you will work hard to show your goodness and try your best to make your best efforts...

    To be loved, but also painful, to accept the good of the other person, but unable to "reciprocate" anything, because you do not love him...

    If you really want to choose, you still love someone, although it's hard, but at least there will be no burden in your heart, you don't have to feel that you are always sorry for him, you can also take his good to you as a matter of course...

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's easier to be loved

    But do you mean happier and less hurtful, or do you just mean easy?

    As long as there is something attractive about a person, then she is easy to be loved However, being loved is happier in comparison and can be cared for and protected by others. But when you are loved too tightly, you will have a feeling of being out of breath, which will make you start to want to escape from being cared for, and you will feel bored, etc. So sometimes it is not necessarily easy to be loved!

    I'm afraid it will be more difficult to love someone You have to pay a lot for him, and sometimes you won't be understood People who love others are always the one who is easily hurt, and always try everything to make him happy, but their own efforts are often not discovered So it's really not easy to love someone, and you have to eliminate obstacles to be with him, and you have to resist gossip and so on

    It is not easy to love someone and be loved, all true love must be cherished, don't wait until the love passes away to start heartbreaking!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think ordinary people are happier to be loved, but it's not easy, because when you know that you are loved by others, you will be very touched and want to repay the love of others. Loving someone is hard, but if you are reciprocated by the loved one, it will be blissful. In short, loving and being loved are one, that is, hard work and happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is to give, to be loved is to return, love and be loved are equally good, since you pay true love, then you will definitely be loved, maybe it's just a matter of time, even if you can't get it in the end, or the result is not what you want, but you have paid, your heart will be solid, if you have been deeply loved by a person, even if you lose it one day, or leave, you will have a sense of happiness back in your memory,!

    So, to love is just as happy as to be loved...

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Not necessarily.

    That's a matter of personal thought.

    When you are loved.

    It is you who have a good image in the minds of the people who love you.

    So it's easy to be loved.

    But think about it from another angle.

    When you fall in love with someone.

    That's which person you love feels good in your heart.

    That's why you fall in love with him indirectly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is to give, to be loved is to return, love and be loved are equally good, since you pay true love, then you will definitely be loved, maybe it's just a matter of time, even if you can't get it in the end, or the result is not what you want, but you have paid, your heart will be solid, if you have been deeply loved by a person, even if you lose it one day, or leave, you will have a sense of happiness back in your memory,!

    So, to love is just as happy as to be loved...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Loving and being loved are sometimes sinful and very entangled, which requires the person concerned to be more reasonable. My suggestion is:

    If the person you love also loves you, then of course it is to choose him, because it is best to be in love!!

    But if the person you love doesn't love you, I think you should give up ta, at this time you might as well choose the person who loves you, as long as you don't hate the person who loves you, because feelings can be cultivated, you choose him, you take the initiative, you can completely cultivate a relationship with him, and over time, he himself loves you, so that he will be happy in the future!!

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