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Dale Carnegie: "Challenging the Weaknesses of Human Nature" and "Discovering the Strengths of Human Nature".
Napoleon Hill's: "Think to Riches" and "The Complete Book of Success".
Oug Mandino's "The World's Greatest Salesman" and "The Complete Book of Parchment".
These are the world's pinnacle classics of the last century. Guiding countless people to success, the main connotation of the book is to inspire you to explore your personal potential, so that you can become upright, upward, full of personality, affinity and persuasive.
And what is a real human relationship?
They will teach you how to do it right, sometimes you will feel different from what they say, it doesn't matter, you will gradually understand a set of your own methods!
Then you are a charismatic, friendly, motivated, kind, tolerant, caring, idealistic, ambitious, listening and talking person.
Will your relationships be bad?
But remember, no matter how good you are, don't be demanding .. to please everyone
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I suggest you take a look at Dale Carnegie's book, which is very practical, incisive, and human, unlike some books that are copied from east to west, but only full of space, and in addition"Square and round"It's not bad, it talks a lot about the principles of how to behave in the world, I believe it will help you.
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Books are not necessarily useful, I will give you a sentence: "Honesty can do the world, and righteousness can go everywhere." ”
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There are a lot of books. But Carnegie's book is very good. For example, "The Weakness of Human Nature" and "Elocution Training" are very valuable, and it is recommended to check out his books.
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The effect of reading books is not great, and it is still easy to use the social experience that I have had for a long time.
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Dale Carnegie's The Way to Success
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I guess it's the Analects, I haven't bought it yet.
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1. You can talk to anyone: break the ice skillfully, break into the core of the group, and know whoever you want.
If Carnegie is about the correct concept of interpersonal communication, then this book teaches how to put those ideas into practice, and Carnegie taught many concepts of interpersonal communication, but rarely taught people how to do it and how to do it. This book is to make up for this shortcoming, and it teaches most of the people how to effectively practice and strengthen interpersonal relationships.
2. Carnegie Communication and Relationships.
Dale Carnegie said: When you want someone to like you, you have to be interested in what they do, praise them sincerely, and put your best foot forward. This book puts forward the concept of the right interpersonal communication, most of which is based on the concept, and the difference between this book and anyone can talk to is that the concept of this book is more important than the method, but it will definitely allow you to gain a lot of knowledge and the correct concept of interpersonal communication.
3. The art of flirting.
This book exposes the important keys to men and women who never recognize and recognize each other's attraction to each other, and explains various phenomena with a lot of psychological knowledge, if you want to understand how you can have a greater advantage in attracting the opposite sex and how to behave, this book can learn a lot from you. Unlike the previous two books, this book mainly focuses on the relationship with the opposite sex, and mainly analyzes it from a psychological perspective.
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Generally speaking, it is an only child or the influence of the family environment and parents will lead to communication barriers It is not a big problem but it will affect your life In fact, you are also a subconscious manifestation of lack of self-confidence It is recommended to participate in more extracurricular activities, especially the projects you are good at, build your confidence and try to learn to brag lightly and humorously Sometimes don't pay too much attention to the details When communicating, the focus is also on the atmosphere You can try to observe the popular people around you Think about the meaning of their every move If necessary, you can read books I highly recommend Dale Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature" and "The Breakthrough of Language", which may be a bit boring, but since you are determined to do a good job in interpersonal relationships, you must insist on it, after all, "the country is easy to change, nature is difficult to change" is not a matter of one or two days. >>>More