Relationship problems, very serious!

I have a friend who turned out to be in a similar situation to you. Do not worry. First of all, you have to build up self-confidence, maybe it is not something that can be formed in a day or two, you have to take your time and learn to communicate with your classmates.

It's important to try to make yourself as good as possible, once you are excellent, your self-confidence will naturally form. That's how my friend is.

Be hearty when talking to boys, don't be shy, as soon as you are shy and embarrassed, it will come. Look at others, smile happily and talk, don't be afraid, you try it, take your time, it will be better.

You are the class representative, sometimes it is normal to inform your classmates about something, you have to cheer yourself up, don't be afraid, think about how to say it, and be bold.

First of all... And then... And then... And finally...

Work slowly. Don't be in a hurry.

If you can have this thought, it proves that you want to be positive.

I'm sure you'll start by informing you in the class.

Take it one step at a time, and you'll find that you've grown a lot.

Did you have any special experiences when you were a child??? It is necessary to dig into the essence of the problem. Take the initiative and don't ask people who can't help you.

I want to ask you what are you trying to change? Do you want to change your old self or no one's opinion of you? You have to think about it, oh, if you hate your old self.

Yes, look at what other people say is very good, if you change other people's opinions of you, you don't need to change anything, it's best to be yourself, in fact, to be honest, there are not many girls like you, in line with the principle of rare things are precious (if all girls were extroverted, what would it look like), insist that you will definitely be very popular and win. Come on.

I'm also an introvert, the way is to try to look elsewhere when talking to a boy, ignore the way he looks at you, talk casually, usually read some humorous books, improve your humor, make your words more easy-going, when speaking on the podium, try to think, this is a big thing, one step higher than others, speak louder, blush and be afraid of what, in front of the desk and when talking, you can take a book to hide your inner tension. Well, that's all for my experience.

Simple. Wouldn't it be better to go with the flow?

Hope it helps.

You first have to relax your mind, keep smiling naturally, talk to friends more, and say hello when you meet on the road

If you don't communicate with others, how can you fit into this society? If you think you're afraid of being nervous and making a fool of yourself, don't be afraid, who hasn't made a fool of yourself, who laughs at you for being a fool, communicate more with others, just overcome that psychological barrier, believe that you can do it, come on.

What is embarrassing to say? If you want to say it, will others laugh at you or will you do anything to you?

Don't dare to talk to boys, I tell you from the experience of boys, if there is a girl talking to him, it's too late to be happy!

It can be seen that you are a very quiet girl, and as a class representative, your grades should be good. A girl like you should be popular with everyone.

<> "Poor interpersonal relationships.

The real reason. 1. Don't get familiar with others too quickly, maintain superficial friendliness, and slowly discover their essence of serving Sun Sui.

2. In interpersonal communication, people will test your bottom line in a new way.

3. If someone verbally attacks you and offends you, you have to fight back on the spot. Otherwise, he will repeat his old tricks next time, and there is no psychological pressure.

4. When you meet someone and say three points, don't throw away all your heart.

5. Listen to what he says, what he says is often not what he really wants to express.

6. Look with your heart, don't just believe what you see. Never look at what a person says, but what he does in order to have an evaluation of this person.

7. Quarrels can best see the essence of a person, his temperament, magnanimity, thinking size, vision and values, etc., can be fully revealed in the process of quarrels.

8. People who are willing to explain their interests clearly to you at the beginning are worthy of trust.

9. The qualities that a person desperately shows in front of others are basically disguised. A true gentleman is a moisturizer and a silent gentleman.

10. No friend will wish you well with all their hearts, especially when their life is not satisfactory.

11. Correctly understand those "praises", don't take these words to heart, the motives behind the obedient words are more worthy of your attention, some people praise you in order to confuse you.

12. People who like to compare with others are often not old and happy. Because there are always people who are more beautiful and handsome than you, there are always people who are richer and more powerful than you, and there is no end to comparison.