Should I tell my boyfriend that I am no longer there?

Updated on society 2024-05-22
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's good to tell him directly, although it's important, but you can't lie to him, (if you've been together), tell him early, give him a choice, and give yourself a chance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't love your man with your body.

    Otherwise, his original intention of loving you will change.

    He will fall in love with desire. And not love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's logical to know that you're not in a situation, and when you don't know it, I'm afraid you're the first time you don't dare to mess around.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your question is: should you tell him?

    But my question is: You seem to have told him about it?

    Whether this is love or not, only those who have loved know it

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Two people are independent individuals in the process of dating. There are some things that guys can make their own decisions.

    But there are some things that should be discussed with you.

    Especially those things that are related to you affect you, so I don't think it's right for me to do anything without consulting you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Speaking of which, I guess I'll be sprayed to death, but what I'm saying is the real situation, my boyfriend also asked me to encyclopedia ** hip method, I think it's inconvenient for me to walk and dress, to put it bluntly, there is no problem at all, and my boyfriend is a perfectionist......I think so, but I can feel it when I usually speak, and I can't move to make me feel a little bad. Then talk about appearance, definitely not a big beauty, but also a beautiful woman, since the age of eleven or twelve years old has never had spots and acne on the face, ** very white (this genetic maternal line), because the cousins' ** are very good, mine** has always been very good, as the saying goes: a white covers a hundred ugly, so many people say that the dew looks good.

    Dewdrop's friends, male friends and boyfriends all give Dew Drop a rating of about 7 points, and it is estimated that more than 8 points is a big beauty......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, the person you like, and secondly, he has to like you and be good to you, so you are willing to be with him. I don't think it's necessary to think of a way to do something like this. Very few people like it because it is a place, and they generally like it and cherish it more. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this day and age, few people care about whether the other party is in this situation, as long as they love each other, they don't care so much. If he really doesn't like you, you can't change it even the first time. If you don't want him to know that you're the first time, it's easy, as long as you don't want him to have this kind of relationship.

    You're thinking too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't tell him, it's okay, get to know each other slowly, get along for a while, and then be with him when you get married, and then he loves you is true, if he knows that you are the first time, he loves you, and this kind of marriage will not last,

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The first way is not to have sex with him, naturally he does not know. Leaving one's beautiful first time to her future husband is a sign of respect for him in the future, showing that he is not a casual person, but a person with high moral sentiments. The second is also respect for myself, which shows that I have higher requirements for myself and I have better ideals.

    The second option is simpler, don't tell him. One day he will know, and I think this is not only a surprise, but a memorable moment for you!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He should be let know. On the contrary, they will cherish you more. Have mercy on you.

    I will be proud to have a pure girl like you, and I will cherish you even more. Let you get a lifetime of happiness. There are too many modern people who sell their bodies for power and money, and o is not taken seriously at all.

    But the most innocent. A good girl who is clean and self-conscious is the most precious. It's best to stay until you get married.

    That way, both parties will cherish each other more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why don't you talk to him? You should tell your boyfriend about it, don't hide it from him, a woman's first time for a man is very important, and now a girl. It's a lot of casual outside, and it looks like you're a different one, after your boyfriend knows it.

    I must be very proud and happy, find a chance to talk to him, what is there to be embarrassed about when I have done everything I shouldn't have done? After all, the two of you have come one step closer from falling in love, tell him so that he will not be suspicious of you later, and there are some things that should not be hidden, so don't hide them, it's better to say them.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not a place to tell. But do it, don't tell.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are not afraid of separation, you can talk about it, at least you will feel comfortable in your heart. Either talk about it early or don't talk about it, don't get to the point where the fruit is about to come and you tear down the vine again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm also struggling with this problem, but I haven't had a miscarriage, and several men who have been on a blind date have broken up with me because I am not here, and now they are still dating and don't want to separate again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Just tell him frankly, it's okay, be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There may be more than one reason for this, so let's give my analysis. Let's first analyze the reason why he went to the army.

    1.He loved being a soldier. If he really likes to be a soldier, then it all makes sense that he chooses to be a soldier now. If a person has the opportunity to do what he wants to do and what he likes, then it is normal for him to have the opportunity to become a soldier now.

    2.He became a soldier at the behest of his parents, not of his own volition. For most people, the normal way is basically to study, but some people may not study well, so they choose to be a soldier, using being a soldier as a springboard, this way exists in both rural and urban areas.

    Next, let's analyze the reasons why they don't tell you.

    It is not a happy thing for two people who are in love to be separated for whatever reason. Maybe he doesn't want you to worry about being unhappy, because after all of that, there will definitely be one of you who is unhappy or both of you are unhappy. Or maybe he does have some reason that is not straightforward and difficult to speak.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This may be a matter of touching on his privacy. That question is difficult for him to say, so it's good not to embarrass others, and he will naturally tell you when he wants to say it. Don't force it, everyone has privacy, we should all respect the privacy of others, others really don't want to say it, don't force others.

    Perhaps this privacy is a disservice to him, and he may recall the sad things of the past.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Not every question has an answer, and even if there is, not everyone can say it clearly. Maybe he didn't even know the real reason for joining the army himself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There could be a few reasons for this.

    1.He personally likes it, maybe when he was a child, he dreamed of defending his family and defending the country.

    2.Since it is a practical problem, there are still some benefits to being a soldier.

    3.As long as it doesn't affect the relationship between the two, the answer doesn't matter.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Please respect the choices of others. People don't want to say that there is a reason why they don't want to say it!

    Why do you want to get to the bottom of it! You can find something you like to talk about!

    Some people go to the army, perhaps because they want to find a good job when they come back. Maybe I didn't get a job when I came back, so I don't want to talk about this!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe it's someone's secret, if the other party insists on not telling you, then you don't have to ask, there is no need for two people to worry about these little things together, relax, believe that the other party cares about you, so don't tell you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    For me, it is generally forced by his parents, and it is very difficult to be a soldier, and who wants to suffer because his parents can't control him, or it is possible that he is too weak to train his mind.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's nothing, just like we sometimes do things and don't know why we do them, if we can't say clearly, we don't want to say it, and we don't bother to say it. So there's no need to take it personally.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Sooner or later, one day he will be asked.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's better not to know some things.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because of the blandness, our love sometimes wanders away from the original warm harbor; Out of curiosity, our itinerary will inadvertently turn at a certain crossroads, and at the moment when you are about to turn around, you will hear love crying quietly behind you. I suggest you read more articles, I think it is more in line with your current situation, and for your problems should have the effect of improving and improving, if you still don't understand, you can also consult, guide you to some methods and concepts, so that you will have a better clue, will not worry about how to solve these problems.

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