My girlfriend is 3 years older than me and has been breaking up with me recently

If she cares a lot about other people's gossip, if I were you, I would choose to give up.

She always says that she wants to break up with you, so let's divide it, the melon that is twisted is not sweet. Remember!

It's normal, because she's older than you, she's going to worry, really. You should give her confidence.

Coquettish, if you say meaty, she will be reluctant to leave you.

Then you should be more mature, don't treat her as a sister, but as a little sister.

The two love each other, no one is unworthy of whom, only suitable and inappropriate.

Because you're not good enough, you don't give her enough security

Only by trying to be a mature and good man as soon as possible can do it.

Give her a sense of security, your best choice when you get married, and find the reason for the drug.

It's up to you two emotions. It doesn't hurt to talk about being two years older.

What time is this, and such a concept will still exist.

How many people are two years apart? Ten years old, twenty years old, yes. In fact, the age and nationality of two people together are not important, the important thing is the relationship and tacit understanding between two people, which is the first place.

Age between three or two years is not a problem at all, and it may just be an excuse like you said. You don't have to ask questions about this, you can feel it.

Maybe it's because girls often think that men younger than their age are insecure! You can make yourself a little more sensible, a little more mature, and ambitious not at an advanced age. Show a little more courage and ideas that a man should have, if she continues to make excuses, it means that the relationship between you is questioned.

Just talk normally, sometimes you don't have to look at the age, the older ones don't look old, the age will care about people, mainly to see if the appearance is pleasing to the eye, in addition, whether you can talk about it, whether you have a common language and hobbies, etc.

Your girlfriend is older than you, and because girls mature early, they will see you as a little brother and will be more considerate and take care of your boyfriend.

Big disadvantage of girlfriend.

Because girls mature early, they may also age early, but not absolutely, and it also depends on personal maintenance and personal physical condition.

Coordination between the parties.

Girls mature early, coupled with the immaturity of some boys, in some interpersonal communication, dealing with people, appear immature, so girls will see their boyfriend as a child, of course, this is not absolute, it varies from person to person.

Good or bad.

In fact, everything is relative, and there is no absolute. Whether it is a girl or a boy, it is also different from person to person. Because in terms of personality, development, and maturity, there are many people who do not match their actual age.

As long as both parties feel harmonious, harmonious, happy, and happy together, it's good!

What to do.

As long as both parties love each other, don't consider age, even if it is because of the age difference, which brings some problems, you must care for and tolerate each other. Because even if the two parties are matched in age, there will be a lot of disharmony, there will be contradictions, and there will be joys and sorrows, so age should not be a matter of love. Hope mine can help you, hopefully.

Young age, immature and steady, lack of responsibility and responsibility, insecurity, it doesn't matter, take your time and be more mature.

I think so... Maybe you're not happy either... But I'll just say my point ...

The first is your age.,Originally, boys' psychology is smaller than girls.。。 What's more, your real age is still so much different. The mental age difference is even greater.

You're only 21 and I guess your career is still very precarious... Your girlfriend may not have said that she was afraid of hurting you. She's 26 ...

She's much more mature than you. She will think about her future. She doesn't find security in you ...

The second one was when you were just together. Girls are always a little confused when they are loved by someone.。。。 People always yearn to be loved.

So she's in love with you ... In 11 years, she was also 28 years old. If you don't marry, you can't marry anything good...

She said she didn't love you in the first place... Although I can't say that this is true. Indeed, she has loved you ...

But for the sake of her future. In order to find a man who has a sense of security. She can only say this ruthlessly.

But maybe she really doesn't love you now ... Maybe I'm starting to feel that your immaturity is really not suitable for her. It can't give her a future ...

Everything before can be considered impulsive ... Your 21 career is a start-up period of young people's struggle... And she's a normal woman when she starts to find a place to belong...

So I don't think you need to struggle anymore ... Your parents will never accept you... In the end, although women don't mind your age, they actually still have some minds in their hearts...

If you continue to struggle in this relationship, you will only make yourself more tired... If you just think she still loves you. For example, you see her reluctance. That's what she's been to you. It doesn't have to be you.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Done, I hope it helps you with your question, if you are satisfied with o(o...Ha ha.

I'm as old as your girlfriend, my boyfriend is three years younger than me, I think your girlfriend probably has a lot to worry about, such as the opinions of family and friends, and the most important thing is your job, and there are many more realistic problems, 26 years old is not young, you have to think a lot, so if you really love your girlfriend, you have to talk to her about your plans for the future, and show your sincerity, and no matter what job must be stable, 11 years is not 2 years, come on.

Although it is said that it is better to demolish a temple than to break a marriage, but such a relationship, even if you are together in the end, you can't get along in the end, because there is already this time, even if you are reconciled, there is still a gap in the end, and the age gap is not feelings, but in the understanding of this society, you will be different, there will be a certain distance, their family must also think the same, all say that women want to find 5 years older than themselves, because women are precocious than men, so find someone older than themselves to get along,

If you love him, you will find her, and I believe that you will be happy. I also found a girlfriend who was 5 years older than me.

Breaking up is a contradiction, it's best to ask your son what's going on, young people nowadays are very individual, and they will break up if they don't agree, if it's not because of the bride price, house, car, or the relationship, the relationship has changed, and the parents who need money can help, and the parents who have problems with the relationship are not good to interfere.

The cracks of feelings are not easy to stitch.

Now it is normal for young people to talk about friends and break up, but your son has been talking for two years and there must be some major disagreement, you have to first understand whether your son wants to break up or your girlfriend wants to break up, if your son wants to break up, it is your son who feels that his girlfriend makes him uncomfortable and unhappy, for example, when it comes to talking about marriage, the woman makes unreasonable requests, etc., if it is proposed by the woman, what reasons do you have to learn from your son to deal with it, in a word, it is really not suitable to divide, It's better than getting married and then getting divorced.

It's definitely your son.

Can't handle or don't like her anymore.

In fact. If you want to know the exact information.

You can ask your son to be more sure.

As an outsider.

It may be misleading to you.

This can have a significant impact on your decision-making mechanism.

You say yes.

Maybe your son is at odds with her. As for what it is. You can do it for your son. If it's because of emotional discord. It's okay to break up.

First of all, congratulations on finding your true love, in fact, true love between people has no boundaries. It's like buying clothes, colorful clothes, everyone's vision is different, so the clothes you buy are different. But it's not like there's no time to look away, so for each of us, we must keep our eyes open when looking for a partner, treat each other with sincerity, and ask family and friends when we can't make up our minds, and it's not good for anyone to be hurt.

You think she is down-to-earth and steady, and she is very good to you, you can also accept this relationship, cherish it, and wish you good luck!!

Two people have a conflict, you can ask your son why, others can't know, only the person concerned.