He s seven years older than me and my boyfriend is seven years older than me, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-09
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There will be a future. 7 years older is not a lot, otherwise how could there be "Lolita".

    Since he confessed to you, it means that he wants to get along seriously, and there are really few girlfriends left.

    He is afraid that you will be disliked because he has no faith, and he is afraid that he will not be worthy of you.

    The best thing about getting along with someone older than you is that you can be as coquettish as possible, and he can also tolerate you (not willful).

    Give him more confidence and let him love you more devotedly.

    I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My dad was fifteen years older than my mom.

    There is a future, as long as you feel that he can give you happiness, I think: love needs trust, understanding, tolerance...

    If both parties can do these things well, they will be happy ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He now has a mentality of wanting to take care of others, so it's normal to look for smaller ones.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My ideal type is to be about five years older than me, because they're more mature and know what to do and what not to do, and that's what my parents say

    Age is not a problem, it feels like the most important thing is to be suitable and don't care so much

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Line.. Study hard. In the future, I will be admitted to the doctorate, and I will also find someone who is 7 years younger than me...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Couples with a large age difference may be at risk of:

    1. Different social circles.

    Due to the difference in age, the two may have different circles of friends and social circles. This can lead to feelings of isolation or discomfort in each other's circles. It is advisable for the two to participate in each other's social activities together and try to make new friends to build their own social circle.

    2. Differences in health status.

    Age differences can lead to differences in health status. One older partner may have some health issues, while the other younger partner may be healthy. It is advisable for both of them to focus on health issues together, have regular physical check-ups, and develop a health plan.

    3. Differences in family backgrounds and values.

    Due to the age difference, the two may differ in terms of family background and values. This may lead to disagreements between the two in terms of lifestyle, educational concepts, etc. It is advisable for two people to communicate openly, understand each other's values and backgrounds, and try to respect each other's ideas and decisions.

    Fourth, the future plan is different.

    The age difference may also lead to differences in future planning between the two. An older partner may have thought about retirement and retirement, while another younger partner may not have thought about them. It is advisable for both of them to plan for the future together, including financial, family, and lifestyle aspects, to ensure that they have common goals and plans.

    Then the ways to deal with it are:

    1. Embrace change.

    The age gap is large, and the values and outlook on life between each other will also be different, and there is a generation gap between them. In life, there will be contradictions due to disagreements, and the division will be like a disagreement, so one party needs to take the initiative to make concessions, tolerate the other party, and understand the other party.

    Second, physical problems.

    Love is inseparable from the life of husband and wife, and the large age gap has to face the problem of physical fitness. Whether the couple's life will be satisfying and whether it will be able to satisfy both parties. These are all things to consider, after all, this is also a matter that needs to be seriously considered.

    3. Be yourself.

    There is a big age gap in love, and we can't avoid the gossip of people around us, what we can do is to be ourselves, live our own lives, don't mind other people's eyes, don't care about other people's opinions. It's important to make your life happy.

    Fourth, face together.

    There will be many difficulties in the problems that need to be faced by the large age gap, since they are in love, then they must cherish each other and not be easily defeated by reality. Love needs to be managed, and two people must learn to face various problems in life together and manage their own lives.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Your boyfriend is seven years older than you, so what? Age is not a problem, as long as two people truly love each other.

    What happens if your boyfriend is 7 years older than you.

    Your boyfriend is seven years older than you, so what? Age is not a problem, as long as two people truly love each other.

    But the parents disagreed.

    But the parents disagreed.

    His parents or your parents?

    My parents. My parents.

    If your parents disagree, then it may be that your parents feel that the gap between you is too big, that your boyfriend is not suitable for you, and that your parents are also good for you, and a marriage that is not blessed by your parents will not be happy even if they are barely together.

    They thought I wouldn't be okay in the future.

    They thought I wouldn't be okay in the future.

    In fact, your parents are good for you, and your parents won't harm you, right, they have experienced too much, so many things are more long-term.

    I guess so.

    I guess so.

    Well, generally speaking, those who listen to their parents will be happy in the future.

    Yes. Yes.

    Therefore, you still have to think about whether to continue or give up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm only 7 years old this year, and in 8 years, he's 16 years older than me?

    He is 16 years older than you, so his age is: 7 + 16 + 8 = 31 years old.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's very young now, only seven years old, so whatever? It will take a few years to think about what you are doing now, she is much older than you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    And then, what you want to ask is how old is he this year? If so, this should not be able to come up, but you can go up and should be able to get on the bus.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If he is 16 years older than you in 8 years, it means that he is now 16 years older than you, because you are growing at the same time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're only seven years old this year, and he's 16 years older than you in eight years, so how old is he? You can figure it out.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're seven years old, and you'll be 15 years old in eight years, and he's 16 years older than you, so he'll be 31 years old.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You're seven years old, and in eight years he's 16 years older than you, it's possible that he's 16 years older than you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He'll always be 16 years older than you! You're just 20 years later, and he's 16 years older than you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're only seven years old, and eight years later he's 16 years older than you, so he's 23 years old this year.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Seven years old this year, eight years later it will be 7 + 8 equals 15, and then 16 years older, 15 + 16 equals 31.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm only seven years old this year, and he's 16 years older than me in eight years, isn't that right, how much older is he than you in eight years? How many years older than you in eight years?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is no problem with why this hero is, that is, the conditions.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    He's 16 years older than you now.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Well? Are you the same age now? Then he's 23, this year.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Won't you be eight years longer after eight years?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Fill in the blank question macro crack bend:

    Our age is more than 7 years old, and is 17 years old, I am older than you, I am (9) years old, and you are (8) years old.

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