I m afraid of girls, especially pretty, what should I do?

Hehe, how do you have such an idea? I think that no matter how ugly or beautiful a person is, the most important thing is to have a good heart. A lot of people who are beautiful on the outside do not necessarily do things that people do.

On the contrary, many people with simple appearances do things that are so worthy of praise from the world!

In fact, it doesn't matter, I once read a report that 80% of beautiful women are empty in their hearts, because their beautiful appearance has caused a lot of bad results, and they will always feel dangerous when they interact with others, because of their outstanding faces, they will think that many people are not sincere when they interact with her. In this way, it is not difficult for us to come to the conclusion that as long as we have a normal attitude in the relationship, we should be recognized by many people if we interact with good intentions!

It's not a good thing to not be afraid to talk to girls, because you miss out on a lot of things you deserve, so you have to change your personality!

Participate in sports, or get together with friends, it will be better!

Finally, I wish you the courage to change yourself!

It's because you have low self-esteem, it's good to build up self-confidence and think you're good! That's fine! The main thing is to have self-confidence!

It's not wrong to like someone.

It's OK to understand this.

Hehe, give yourself a little confidence, be thick-skinned, don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself, don't take pretty girls seriously, you still need to go through a certain amount of time to hone this, it depends on whether you have this ability.

The more relieved the heart, the braver the person becomes.

You deserve to make friends!

This is not a big deal, everyone has their own dislike or fear of things, this phenomenon is actually many times because people have too high expectations of themselves, too much pursuit of their own perfection, always want to become a person who is praised, or because they are too critical of themselves, do not allow a little defect, and some people are because of the way of thinking, always compare the advantages of others with their own shortcomings, and some are because of aesthetic problems, unable to make themselves meet their own aesthetic requirements. As a result, these people developed the so-called "photophobia"!

Not everyone has it, and if this happens, know how to overcome it!

1. Correctly understand yourself.

In any case, you need to realize that you have "oneness, that there is no second self in the world, and since you already exist, there must be a reason for existence." The world is the sum total of these beings. Everyone should cherish their own unique existence.

2. Be self-sufficient.

No matter what you are, you must accept yourself, recognize yourself, understand yourself, love yourself, appreciate yourself, reflect your own value, and find your own confidence.

3. Be objective with yourself.

Because everyone has certain strengths and weaknesses on the outside and inside, and this is normal. When a person lives too proudly, he should fully see his own shortcomings, and a person should fully see his own strengths. Therefore, it is more important for you to truly understand your strengths and weaknesses in an all-round way, and strive to find out your strengths.

As long as you do the above, you will slowly change your initial thoughts, you will slowly overcome yourself, you can try to distract yourself to guide yourself to take pictures, it is best to have intimate friends slowly guide you to accept step by step, can not be in a hurry, such as do not shoot your face at the beginning, try to shoot yourself more satisfied with the part, let friends stimulate your interest, guide the person to say more praise and the like, let him relax some The effect will be better.

A lot of them still have an inferiority complex, a denial of themselves. We all think that beautiful girls are better than our external conditions, and the living conditions of natural needs will be higher, and we may not be able to afford them. But in fact, many beautiful girls are not what we think, so when you meet a girl you like, you must be brave enough to express your love, don't feel inferior, don't leave regrets.

Because there is a movie that says "the more beautiful a woman says, the more she can't believe it", in fact, beautiful girls are indeed easy to leave others and deceive others, because they have the capital to start over.

Some people are afraid of beautiful girls, which may be because they think they are too pretty. This person has some low self-esteem, so he will feel that he has said the wrong thing.

Why are some people afraid of beautiful girls? What about some people? When I see beautiful girls, I am afraid that this kind of person generally has low self-esteem.

He thinks so, girls like. How can she not be worthy of the same fairy as herself? Others, who have been hurt and abandoned by beautiful girls.

Others, who think they can't climb high and can't afford to raise them. will be looked down upon.

Maybe he's got that so-called misogyny, or maybe he's been hurt by pretty girls, so he's very resistant to pretty girls, he's scared.

You might. I'm not so confident, so I'm stressed when facing beautiful girls. I feel very reserved and. Ugly schoolgirl. This pressure is gone.

Because beautiful girls will have many suitors, they are afraid that beautiful girls have no self-confidence in themselves and have low self-esteem.

You may feel that beautiful girls need to stay away in order to stay beautiful, or know that it is not their own thing.

This is a manifestation of lack of self-confidence, feeling inferior and unconfident in front of beautiful girls.

Because some people will be embarrassed and overwhelmed when they see beautiful girls.

It shouldn't be called scared, but I just feel that I am not good enough to be worthy of being too beautiful girl.

I remember there was a movie about pretty girls who cheat.

The more beautiful it is, the more deceiving it is.

Anyway, beautiful girls are easy to be pampered and arrogant.

Generally beautiful girls are arrogant, and ordinary people dare not approach them.

Pretty girls are more arrogant. Not easy to approach.

Some people may think that good-looking girls are not good.

Because the beautiful girl once killed him.

The ugly wife is close to the home treasure.

I feel that there are many people who pursue it.

A manifestation of unconfidence, in fact, it's not wrong to think about it, beautiful and beautiful women are depreciation investments, usually they will not appreciate again, they will only grow old and depreciate more and more, intellectual beauty is appreciation investment, suitable for long-term possession, beautiful **.

1. Subjective aspect: You may not be so confident. Therefore, there will be pressure in the face of beautiful girls, and I feel very restrained; And the pressure of ugly girls does not exist.

2. Objective aspect: Relatively speaking, beautiful girls are usually relatively tall, because there is no shortage of people around them who want to get close; And ugly girls are more enthusiastic, because only in this way can they have more friends, so, under this kind of aura, normal people will also feel that beautiful girls have a lot of arrogance, while ordinary girls are more down-to-earth.

This is a sign of your lack of self-confidence, which may be related to your own conditions: family, work, height, education, etc. Appearance.

But if you think about it this way: no matter how beautiful it is, what does it have to do with me? I don't want anything from her, and if I don't want anything, then you won't be afraid to walk away. No matter how beautiful someone is, you can't rub the oil, and you have no idea about her, why go away?

Or, ask yourself: Who are you? You may be cured without medicine!

You start by saying, are you a man or a woman?