Confused start of life 10, confused start of life

The value and meaning of life is given by yourself, and what anyone else imposes on you is not your life, but someone else's life, so if you want to know what life is, only ask your own heart, where your heart goes, is the direction of your life, don't use other people's standards to demand yourself, otherwise you will always be a dancer on the stage, and spend a lifetime to interpret others, which is the biggest sorrow in life!

What suits you is the best, and what can make you feel happy is what guides you in the direction of happiness.

There are three realms in life, looking at the mountains is the mountains, and looking at the water is the water;

Look at the mountains are not mountains, and look at the water is not water;

Look at the mountain or the mountain. Look at the water or the water.

That is to say, a person is pure and flawless at the beginning of his life, when he first knows the world, everything is fresh, what his eyes see is what he sees, and when people tell him that it is a mountain, he knows the mountain; Tell him it's water, and he knows water.

As I grew older and experienced more and more things in the world, I discovered the problems of this world. There are more and more problems in this world, more and more complex, often black and white are reversed, right and wrong are confused, unreasonable travel all over the world, it is difficult to move an inch with reason, good people have no good reward, and evil people live for thousands of years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, vigilant, and complex.

People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, people look at the mountains and sigh, and sigh when they see the water. Mountains are no longer simply mountains, and water is no longer simply water.

Everything is the carrier of people's subjective will, the so-called "good wind with strength, send me to the clouds". If a person stays at this stage of his life, he will suffer this life. People will look at the mountain and look at the mountain, keep climbing, be competitive, compare with others, how to be a person, how to behave in the world, rack their brains, exhaust their organs, and never end and be satisfied.

Because this world is originally a circle, there are people outside the people, there are still heavens outside the sky, the cycle goes on and on, and the green water flows forever. And human life is short and finite, can you go to the eternal and infinite?

Many people reach the end of their lives when they reach the second state of life. Pursue a lifetime of hard work, a life of arrogance, and finally find that you have not achieved your ideals, so you hold a grudge for life. However, some people, through their own practice, have finally raised themselves to the third realm of life.

The mouth suddenly opened, and it returned to nature. At this time, people will concentrate on what they should do and will not have any problems with others. Let your red dust roll, I will be clear from the breeze and the moon.

In the face of complicated and worldly things, laugh at it, and understand what's wrong, at this time, people look at mountains and mountains, and water and water. Exactly: people are human beings, and they don't have to be deliberate to be human beings; The world is the world, and there is no need to deal with the world carefully; That is the real life and life.

There's really no hope, there's no enthusiasm, so let's change. This is responsible for the company and itself.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Every day at six o'clock, get up and go to the library to read a book, (preferably with a group of study friends), walk in the crowd, I mean among the motivated people, there are plans and arrangements every day.

Simply put, you don't have a specific goal, take it step by step.

When you are confused, don't let yourself live in other people's worlds, stick to your own ideas, and try to do your best for what you believe in. Don't care about other people's eyes, live for yourself, and become the most chic version of yourself. When you're confused, be brave and try!

Everyone doesn't know what the future holds, what they will face. There are too many unknowns in life, and you don't know how to arrange your next path, so be brave and try what you want to do in your heart! You can fail, but you can't decide you're a failure without trying!

When you are confused, tell yourself that as long as you work hard and work hard, you are not afraid of nothing that you can't do. Life is not all smooth sailing, difficulties and setbacks can help us become better, so work hard, work hard, and be that caring person! When you're confused, tell yourself not to let yourself give up on your quest because you're lazy.

When you are confused, it is the best time to work hard to improve yourself. At this time, if you give up on self-improvement because of your laziness, then you will be even more confused in the future. When you're confused, tell yourself not to give up on your goals because of your age.

For us, age is not an excuse for us to give up working hard. Don't always make excuses for your failures, it's because you're not willing to put in the effort and struggle.