I feel that my life is very confused, and I ask for advice, where should my life go?

Updated on society 2024-03-20
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't jump ship easily.

    You can consider going to graduate school.

    It's okay to stay and continue to work on your qualifications, after all, not every graduate can get into such a unit, and many people are still thinking about how to get in outside the walls where you are.

    Of course, the key depends on your mentality, which unit has a similar phenomenon, maybe there will be a different side in foreign enterprises or large private enterprises. You can find out more about it. Don't make a decision on the spur of the moment.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can analyze it yourself. But I want to talk about the reason for the confusion, when a person does not live to make others better (or other things, such as environmentalists, for a better environment, and some people dedicate their lives to protecting animals), you feel lost. Think about when you're confused, does it all happen when you're alone?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I very much agree with the point of view on the first floor.,It's very valuable for reference.。。。 Sometimes people are often unconsciously affected by their own desires and are dissatisfied with the current life, which leads to the "confusion" of being at a loss, and their own desires are generated by the environment they have been exposed to since childhood, that is to say, our desires often make us make wrong judgments and are very irrational. In fact, the problem of life and employment is not immutable, and a careful experience will perceive that the individual is shallow, and it is recommended that the landlord take a serious and rational look at his current situation. . .

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's be honest. That's not the case with a big company.

    Therefore, some people will think that you are in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings.

    If you want"In a few years, the salary is high, the pollution is less, the nepotism of state-owned enterprises is not serious, more opportunities are given to young people, the phenomenon of seniority is not serious, the development space should be smooth, and the promotion to management or technical positions should not be more than ten years. That's "Li (You) Want to Bang".

    If another new colleague joins the company, it is under you. If he could:

    In a few years, the salary is higher than yours, the work situation is less polluted, the nepotism of state-owned enterprises is not serious, he has more opportunities than you, the phenomenon of seniority is not monthly, and the development and promotion space is not more than ten years.

    Would you like to give it to him?

    So if you want to go to another environmental company, it's another option for you. But you can't help but see what other people and companies do to you. And I'm afraid you're going to be in the near future"Get in place"After (or when you are the boss) as with everyone else. Consider, on the other hand, the pervasiveness of social injustice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

    When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

    To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

    The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

    The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If your brain is very good, to run the business, the salesman has no special requirements, the main expression ability is good, rely on the commission to get money, it may be very difficult at the beginning, after knowing more people, more relationships, it is also easy to earn hundreds of thousands of dollars in 1 year, but it is difficult to run a good business, mainly depends on how you interact with people, how to deal with things; In the future, if you have more money, you can do something by yourself, and if you have more relationships, you can make more money.

    Or you can rely on technology to eat, go to a company to do an apprenticeship, a good company will give you some living expenses, and a bad company will give you nothing, and when you learn to become an employee, you will work hard to do the best in technology, and then it will be time for the boss to beg you.

    You see which line is more long-term and makes more money, so make enough money to do it yourself.

    Money is earned little by little, don't want to climb to the sky, if you are not willing to be poor, learn to endure hardships first, it is not recommended that you be a salesman, after all, you have only graduated from junior high school, knowledge and social experience are very insufficient, to learn some technology, to do the first can get a high salary, the company is rushing to you, open your own store in the future. It's hard to learn technology, be smart, and you'll be very happy during that time after you learn it, and then you can find a small object, hehe; When you open your own store, that time is the most painful, both mentally and physically. If you can get through it, you will definitely succeed in the future.

    Make up your mind first, have faith in yourself, and do so to succeed in the future, I hope to help you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In this society, you must have a high degree of education, otherwise you can come out as soon as possible to learn a skill and accumulate social experience, you are still young, don't be too anxious. Of course, it's good to be in a hurry, but find a good way to go, and you'll be fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find a job that you are interested in, work steadfastly, don't be anxious, don't be anxious to change jobs, this mountain looks at that mountain high, an industry has been working for a long time, plus your hard work, there will be achievements.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't run away, go out on your own, you first think about what you like, after communicating with your family, don't hesitate to do what you want to do, just do it, and do it well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, I want to say that people who are confused are people who have pursuits, people who are confused will not feel confused if they live one day at a time, and confusion is a pursuit but it is not clear how to do it, what kind of mentality do you want to establish: confusion is normal, and it is dynamic and persistent. No one has completely changed their thinking all at once, this thing has changed a little bit with what you have experienced and done, how can young people not be confused, who is not confused, and the right mentality is the first place.

    Secondly, you want to draw up a goal, first of all, I want to affirm your responsible attitude towards your own life, the goal is not set randomly, if you want to set a goal for yourself, that is, to plan your future life, you want to plan for the future, my suggestion is that you first know your own current life, know the current you, from the personality traits, career interests and other aspects of self-analysis, you can go to the library to borrow a career planning assessment, see for yourself what career you want to engage in, what kind of ability you have, That's how you can set your goals.

    Again, I still recommend that you read less posts on the Internet, if you go online, you can find something meaningful to see, purposeful Internet, confused must be strict with yourself, confused if you don't strictly demand yourself and wait for yourself to find the direction in the future, you have lost the ability to grasp the opportunity, the direction is not determined in a day or two, but you have to work hard.

    As for what goals to set, I want to work hard every day, and finally wish you happiness and find your own direction and value in life as soon as possible!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Everyone will always have a time of confusion on the long road of life, maybe you are like me, you are in the prime of your youth, you have too much confusion about your future, anxiously want to know a shortcut to success, afraid that you have chosen the wrong one, you will regret it for life. I have also been confused, and I often ask myself how I want to live my life, so I handle everything carefully to reduce the occurrence of mistakes, so that I will not regret my life. However, I gradually realized that I was wrong, and it was too hard to live this way.

    In fact, life is a process of opening up detours, if you always walk in a straight line, you often see less than those who take detours, and beautiful things are always hidden in the curved paths, so try to take more detours, maybe we will see more beauty and experience richer experiences. I believe that the accumulation of these experiences will one day help you fly into the blue sky.

    With the right goal, I can only say look at your own strengths or interests, because I'm currently looking for it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, we must make our economy able to stand on society, and then we can talk about our ideals and goals.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Aim low, demand high, and life is easy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Actually, life.

    It's about living well.

    Money, profit.

    It's not very important.

    So it's good to have a normal heart.

    Think about what you should.

    Do what you have to do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on your own specific situation, and then you can set it in detail, and you can get to the goal of each month!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Set yourself a short-term goal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    To live is to be born and to live!

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