Is there something wrong with my mentality? Chase the score!

The ancients said well: self-cultivation - Qi family - governing the country - leveling the world. Set a goal for yourself, don't be like a headless fly, look at your feet, step by step, work hard in the direction of your goal, and you will definitely succeed.

When I read the first half, I thought you were normal, and your mentality didn't belong to the type of problem, but when I saw the last sentence, I felt that you had a psychological problem. Death for such a trivial matter? Who hasn't encountered setbacks and problems in this life?

Asking for death is the most irresponsible practice, not responsible for yourself, even less responsible for your family, you have to know that you are not living for yourself, you have some unshirkable responsibilities from the moment you are born. Was it easy for your parents to raise you? If your family asks you to do housework, you don't do it, and if you don't let you do it, you will take the initiative to do it, it's just that the family is more obedient to your habit of causing rebellious psychology, there is no problem, many of them.

As long as you don't want to look for a job, it's because you don't dare to accept new things, and you take the approach of avoiding things that you don't dare to accept. From these practices, it can be seen that you have lived under the care of your parents since you were a child, and your independence is very poor. And there is cowardice in your character, and you must avoid what you don't want or dare not accept.

If you want to change, you can only force yourself to take the first step of change. Push yourself to do something you don't want to do but have to do.

I've just come out of this state recently, don't stay at home, go outside, go to an unfamiliar environment, go to the park, and you'll only be cranky by yourself, in fact, I think about it now, I was so stupid at the time.

Oh, it seems that you are about to have autism, I suggest you find a girlfriend you like, maybe you can change your mind, in fact, you are so rebellious and strong, I used to be like this every day at home and want to die, in fact, my current mentality is not very good, watch a little more positive TV and contact a little positive people, you will have a kind of let yourself be like them, you will do what you like, life is very precious, I hope you cherish, It's not easy not to think about yourself and your parents, they gave birth to you and raised you, and I hope to get out of this haze quickly and find my own direction as soon as possible. Come on, friends!

Your self-esteem is strong! A little tweaking is all it takes. 43 days of unemployment is not a lot, just start looking for a job now.

Young people in Western countries are unemployed and can't find a job to go to the streets, but the Oriental perception is that they feel very capable of staying at home and depressed. The ideas you hold are different, and the results are different, so don't collapse again. In fact, everyone has many ups and downs.

Don't pick a job yet, it doesn't matter if you have a small income, do it first and then make plans. Just find the company you want while working.

Finding a good job also depends on timing, luck, and fate with the company you applied for.

It is recommended that you go out for a walk and stay optimistic, but it is really not possible to see a psychiatrist.

Negative personality. Get out and soak up the sun.

Watch some inspirational movies.

It feels like it's very rebellious.

I guess you're annoying.

I don't know if it's inferiority or what.

The solution is very simple, go out for a walk, find a few friends to have a good time with.

A woman's vanity is nothing more.

Every woman feels this way.

Don't take it too seriously.

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Hehe, why not change the way and let other guys be jealous of your boyfriend's happiness to prove your charm?

What you said upstairs makes sense, if one day, you are always like this, and your boyfriend really ignores you, you will be stupid. It's better not to do that.

If you have a boyfriend, don't pay attention to others anymore, so as not to hurt others. Do it well, otherwise it may cause you unexpected trouble later. If many people know about you, then not only is your boyfriend likely to leave you, but other people who want to chase you will also give up on you because of you.

Here are my thoughts.

In fact, what you want is the kind of ambiguity you say, which you don't want to or dare not admit.

Faint to death, big sister! You said that the man was very good to you, and he gave you time to recover slowly.

This man is very good.

You have a boyfriend and you want someone to chase you.

Say it's a psychological problem.

In fact, you yourself are too greedy.

Don't be like that if you have a good boyfriend.

Maybe he won't be able to stand giving up on you for a long time.

Don't let yourself regret it

It's rare that you will admit your shortcomings, which shows that you also know your own shortcomings.

I think you just need to put your heart right and have less illusions, because girls want to be princesses and be pampered by thousands of people, but you must know that there will only be one other half of your life in the boundaries of morality and law.

At the same time, you also have to learn to empathize and put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes. How would you feel if he didn't want to tell anyone that you were his GF?

The coming day is a long road, and you need to take this time to cherish your youth.

Eat and kill that you have a boyfriend and still do this, be careful that your boyfriend sees it and breaks it up with you. That way you can really get people to chase.

Don't care about other people, you can do whatever you want.

It's normal for girls to want to attract the attention of boys, but if it's too much, it's not good, in fact, you will do this is likely to be due to your inferiority complex since the age of 17, the more boys like you, the more satisfaction you can get, in fact, the real reason is because of your subconscious inferiority, as long as you can face up to this mentality, and strive to overcome the inferiority complex, then I believe that the future will be very happy!

I think you developed a "complex" of low self-esteem at the age of 17, and as long as you can resolve this conflict, your psychological problems can be solved. You can go to a counselor, such a problem is not difficult to solve. I just want to say about your current situation:

The falling flowers and wind and rain hurt the spring even more, so it is better to take pity on the people in front of you. ”

You ask yourself if you like him or not

If you don't like it, then completely cut it off, don't get entangled anymore, Qingzhichun can't tolerate you

You know that she likes your boyfriend, so it is reasonable for her to pay attention to your boyfriend after breaking up, don't affect your pursuit of love because of a little interference, catch him if you love him, eliminate all unstable factors, and let go if you don't love. Be a good person, don't think too much, otherwise it will be annoying yourself, and you will be clear about what you want and what you don't want. Don't let others influence your pursuits.

Child, it is really you who come from multiple sources.

I thought about it... If you want to say that his ex-girlfriend is charming, forget it, since she is not what he really likes, and she looks like you can't compare, this vinegar can't be done.

The group photo doesn't say anything, and it's normal for boys to be careless. What's more, it's all in the past, and it didn't interfere with the time you had with him at all.

The fact that she went into his house only showed that she still liked him. She likes him, can it mean that he still loves her??

When it comes to falling in love, trust and space are very important. Don't be nervous all the time, so that the other person and yourself will be very distressed.

You're fine, your boyfriend has a problem!! Big, very serious problem, divided into eight.

...Why do men like big beauties, even if she is poor, it doesn't matter if she is bad???

In the same way, why does a beautiful woman like a rich man, even if he is bad or ugly, it doesn't matter.

He's a rich guy $ is a good thing.

It's okay to make a bowl of Meng Po soup by yourself and drink it, the raw materials are sold on the **, Naihe water or Lechuan water.

That's right, no problem, dump him.

You also said that it was he who chased you. Du he is the active party, zhi you are the passive party. dao

That how you feel about him.

The love version is not deep, right? Before Duquan started dating, there were already a lot of problems, so why should you be reluctant? And it's just a small problem, what if something more troublesome happens in the future?

Don't think that after the two get along for a long time, these will naturally fade and solve. This is wrong. The two have been together for a long time, and even married, and some small contradictions will only be magnified, not reduced.

While the two of them are not yet inseparable, let him go and settle it with the girl before coming to you.

This is a psychological problem, even if you are disgusted with other boys, you are also disgusted with the boys you like, which is a bit abnormal. Did he say too much to you? Or are you resistant to love? It is recommended to see a doctor!

Disgusting? Do you want to throw up?

I guess you're already turning into a lala ==

He likes you, and he doesn't have to be methodical.

How's the character? If you don't know what to do, you can still be an iron buddy, and if he doesn't change his mind, think about it.

Nightmares, there is no way, this world is too crazy, people are also crazy, and there are all kinds of means.

You don't care what method he uses, you like him, he likes him, and you end up, are you pursuing a process?

I think the love mentality is: it's yours and yours, it's not yours, and you can't force it, it's best to go with the flow.

What to do: If I encounter this situation, I will not rush to confess, because he now has a heart, and the confession may be very small, and if it is not accepted, you will feel a little embarrassed to get along with each other in the future. I think you can now associate with him like a friend, care about him, help him, and slowly let him discover your goodness, and wait until one day you feel that he also has a good impression of you, and then you confess, then it will be a matter of course.

Scorpios are very vindictive. After falling in love with someone, you will die I think you can only pay for him silently One day she will understand.

How old are you Confess if you are below the university level 80% on the spot.

If she just thinks you're humorous and you're funny, maybe she's just treating you as good friends and doesn't have any feelings for you, only love, and if you want to confess, you may be rejected, and then it will be embarrassing, of course. If you want to confess, you can, that means you are very courageous.

How do you know if you don't try it. You are a pure man, don't be shy, you can bend and stretch is a man. Say what you want.

You first ask her if she has a boyfriend! If you do, just say when you will break up!! If you don't, just say I'll be your boyfriend!

If you don't give up, did she say that if you have a boyfriend, you will give up.

If he still says he has a boyfriend, either call him out to duel him, or quit!