Is there something wrong with me?

First of all, it's great that you can realize the problem and find the cause in yourself. If everyone treats you like this, it may be that you have not done a good job in some areas but you have not noticed it, it is recommended that you read books on interpersonal skills to compare whether some of your behaviors need to be improved. In addition, if you mention what you say that you think is funny, but others are indifferent, this situation may not be heard as a joke by others, when you are serious.

Moreover, everyone's laughter is different, and it is normal for others not to be interested in what they think is funny, so there is no need to linger. As for not having a topic with others, care more about what friends around you like them, and find a topic they like next time you chat, you don't need to say much about yourself, draw out the words of others, be a good listener, and slowly become a popular person.

If you say so, you should be a good friend. But if you really have a problem getting along with your friends, could it be that although you are a good person, what you say is not suitable for the occasion? Like you said, if your words are supposed to be funny, others won't be indifferent, isn't it just that you yourself find it funny and others sound boring?

Or do you speak so quietly that you don't get everyone's attention to you, so that you always feel insignificant?

You have to tell me more about the case, maybe as a side by, I can tell you what the reason is!

It is estimated that you have a problem with your personality or personality and you don't feel it. So your friends have turned away from you and snubbed you ... It is recommended that you be honest with a friend and ask him or her to tell you and point out your shortcomings...

Gradually improve later. In the direction that everyone likes. Sincerity is the most important thing.

I'll send you two sentences. First of all, be independent, have your own understanding of things, and don't follow others; Then there is the like-minded is a friend, to have a common ambition, a common hobby, a common orientation.

Try to fit into their topic, if you can't change the environment, you can change yourself, if you don't want to change yourself, then go your own way and find an environment that suits you.

No, the differences are as follows:

1. The number of words is different.

Being a person in the world is a word, a meaning; Doing things for people is two words, being people and doing things.

2. The meaning is different.

To be a person is to be a person, "place" is to deal with and contact, and "world" is the external environment and all kinds of things. The world focuses on dealing with people, and when dealing with things, it will involve other people and things, which are external objects; Dealing with things is simply dealing with things, which can be internal or external.

"To be a person" is a juxtaposed phrase composed of two verb-object structures, and the meaning of "being a person" and "dealing with the world" is similar, and both contain the meaning of "treating people and getting along with people".

Introduction to the way to behave in the world:

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very bad impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

Summary. Conduct things for people"with"Be a person"All refer to the skills that people have to deal with in social situations. Among them, the term "dealing with people" mainly includes two aspects: being a person and doing things, while "dealing with people" emphasizes more on the attitude and method of individuals in dealing with interpersonal relationships.

It can be said that "dealing with people" focuses more on internal qualities and personal abilities, such as handling affairs and doing things; On the other hand, "dealing with others" pays more attention to external performance and social skills, such as the attitude towards interacting with others, and the skills of dealing with interpersonal relationships.

Conduct things for people"with"Be a person"All refer to the skills that people have to deal with in social situations. Among them, the term "dealing with people" mainly includes two aspects of being a person and doing things, while "dealing with people" emphasizes more on the attitude and methods of individuals in dealing with interpersonal relationships. It can be said that "dealing with people" focuses more on the inner model quality and personal ability, such as handling affairs, doing things, etc.; On the other hand, "being amiable and tolerant" pays more attention to external performance and social skills, such as the attitude towards interpersonal interactions and interpersonal skills.

I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?

Yes,"Conduct things for people"with"Beside the world"All refer to the skills that people have to deal with in social situations. Among them, the term "dealing with people" mainly includes two aspects: being a person and doing things, while "dealing with people" emphasizes more on the attitude and methods of individuals in dealing with Buqing's interpersonal relationships. It can be said that "dealing with people" focuses more on internal qualities and personal abilities, such as handling affairs, doing things with a wheel, etc.; On the other hand, "dealing with others" pays more attention to external performance and social skills, such as the attitude towards interacting with others, and the skills of dealing with interpersonal relationships.