Live in an environment where there are always quarrels! 10

If I were you, if I really loved him, I would see why he quarreled with his parents, if it was his fault, enlighten him, and reason with him, it was not easy for his parents to raise him so big, everything should be more for their parents, after all, they have no bad intentions, but they are all for your good, even if the parents are at fault, in our hearts as juniors, we should not care, sometimes I really hate those who are not only blessed in the blessings, like some people who do not have parents around, I definitely wish I had my parents by my side

Since you have chosen, don't regret it, don't disbelieve you

As long as you firmly believe that he will give you happiness, do you think he can rely on him, don't believe why talk to him, oh yes, how old are you now, life is the most terrible, you need to sort it out, you need to hone it, take out your courage, to meet new tests, it will be of great use to your life

Remember.

Actually, this is all normal.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

If you still love him.

You should love this home too.

There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.

Take it easy. It's a good idea to try to reconcile the family atmosphere once in a while.

Don't give up.

Let's separate, men who like to quarrel with their parents, who have violent tendencies, and who don't have domestic violence in the future.

The above is a personal opinion.

If you love him, change his house with your love.

If you don't love it, stay away.

Boys who quarrel with their families are unreliable in my opinion. Let's give up.

Let's break up. My mom said oh.

When you want to get married, the other party's family should also be investigated.

And. Genes are inherited.

Becoming pessimistic and melancholy is just one of the ways in which personality develops. It's also possible to develop into a person who is full of violence at heart. People who are too sensitive or something. Anyway, it's hard to be healthy inside.

Unless you receive more education in the later stage, or your own psychological quality is better, you will become a little more self-contained.

Talking about my own personal experience, my parents quarrel all the time, my father's family always bullies my mother, and my father doesn't care about me and my mother, so I don't talk to him more than 20 words a day. My mom and I sometimes have some conflicts, but she's the closest person to me. I'm more alone, rarely with others, there are almost no friends in elementary school, junior high school, and high school, and it's much better in college, after all, I have to live on campus for four years in college, and I live more independently, and I get along with roommates more.

So I hope that children like me can have a great future!

Growing up in the environment of long-term quarrels between parents, children gradually close their hearts and are easy to suppress themselves, parents are the people who bring themselves to this world, the dearest and most loving people, seeing that their relatives are always arguing, children are very prone to have a negative outlook on life, do not believe in happiness.

Living in a violent and dark environment all day long, can you not be pessimistic?

Because children who grow up in a family environment full of quarrels and domestic violence are different from ordinary people, all of this is changed by the family environment.

In fact, I am just like you, living in a family where my parents often quarrel, and when my parents quarrel, I will fight the glory of the king on the side, and besides, I am a child who is not capable of persuading.

It's a subtle influence, but it's up to you to overcome this emotional thing. Not every such family must be pessimistic and depressed and unable to succeed. Believe in yourself and you will succeed. Best wishes to you from the bottom of my heart.

Because of the influence of this living environment; Let your child have more contact with peers; The child's personality has a relationship with Mickey in the future.

Don't be an appendage to men. You go to work! If you stay at home every day, the man (your parents) will look down on you. At home, you have to clean up with a babysitter. If you make a lot of money, people won't dare to show you their faces.

If your children are taken care of, I suggest that you can find a job to go to work, housewives are generally around the children and husbands all day long, will pinch the husband's working hours, come back late, will be cranky will think about the husband so late did not come back because of what, all day long, if you are an office worker, every day at the same time to work and get off work, at night to tell each other about the company's interesting things, usually housewives will only talk about other people's family in the family, husbands usually do not like to listen to these, And housewives at home will be derailed from society, there is a bit of a generation gap, and they will not be able to keep up with the rhythm when talking to their husbands. So I suggest that you go to work, no matter what your salary is, at least make your life fuller, no longer have children and husbands all day, try to enrich your life.

Learn to empathize, in is to arrange a trip, communicate with each other, adjust your mentality, don't get angry, just say it to each other, there is no matter of principle, and the quarrels of life are the seasoning. Be optimistic.

Because they don't trust each other enough and don't know each other well enough. I found that there was a difference between getting married and when I was in a relationship. The family needs to worry about the economy, and they often quarrel because of disagreements.

It starts with likes. But the feeling of liking will be bland. The most important thing in a lifetime is that two people can have a common pursuit and be willing to be plain.

You must also be able to endure the shortcomings of the other party and accept the most authentic person.

Be financially independent, be independent in person, and after that you will understand how important this is in life.

Personality differences, emotional sparseness. In the face of the current situation of what kind of self-choice, we must learn a different way of getting along, that is, there is no established pattern of life. Don't be too deliberate, there will be friction between people as long as they are together, and you should find a distance that suits the two of you.

Of course, this distance is a measure of the way you get along, and there is no 100% suitable pair, depending on how you choose.

First of all, we should communicate more and be more tolerant. Find yourself a job again, even if the salary is very low, at least there is one thing that you can do so that you don't care too much about those small things, and your husband will care about you a little more.

Be my family's ****, as long as you have a mobile phone, find something to do for yourself, and you won't think about unpleasant things in life.

Husbands and wives should be considerate of each other! We should talk about it well, instead of blindly avoiding and forbearing! Think about the time we spent together! Maybe you can find the joy of continuing to live together.

It's time for you to go out and work Husband and wife can only be independent if they are financially independent.

Mutual understanding and communication can lead to harmony.

Generally, when you encounter this kind of thing, you go out and start a business.

It's because of what, who did you quarrel with?

Hello. Can you be specific?

I can only sympathize with you, I really want to be different, even if life is not satisfactory, why bother to solve the problem with quarrels, can it be solved?

A broken family is never the beginning of freedom.

I'm the same, they're still arguing.

You go out and live in a rented house, don't live with them.

My parents divorced, but my parents divorced really uncomfortable, my parents have their own new families, their own children, and I, just the crystallization of a failed love, when the time comes, I will really feel very hated for my parents, in order not to quarrel, divorced, and then let me suffer, my parents left when I was in the second grade, I spent a childhood without parents, if now, I will not let them divorce.

Well, I think it's necessary for you to talk to your parents so that they can give you back a piece of freedom.

Seeing you say that, I finally don't regret the divorce.

In this case, it is useless to blame the family, start now, learn to be more cheerful and change your inner world.

The same. I also grew up in a domestic violence environment. Words of comfort or something. I won't talk about it. Just one word, feel the love of your parents. One day you'll regret saying something you hated them.

Yes. That's what I live in. I used to be ignorant, very arrogant, and very happy, since I was in junior high school, I slowly realized such a tense family atmosphere, and slowly I became more and more sensitive, more and more reluctant to talk to others, that is, withdrawn, low self-esteem is also certain.

I think that the bell still needs to be tied to the bell, the problem is that the parents quarrel, so can the parents reconcile for the child, can they pay more attention to the child's psychology? Children in this kind of family are far from getting enough love, and what they want most is to have a warm home. What parents teach their children is the indifference of family affection and a negative mentality.

If you want to eliminate your child's problems, should parents change them first? Believe in the power of subtlety. Parents have the greatest influence on their children.

If parents are willing to correct and then influence their children, that is the most successful way!

I've met at least 4 classmates who are in the same situation as you say - classmate A's parents quarreled constantly when he was young, but they never divorced; B's classmate's family is prosperous and yang, and his mother scolds his father all day long, scolds him for being unproductive, and scolds him for being a wreck; C. The parents of classmate C complain about social injustice and their children as soon as they come home every day; D's parents have never had a common language, often have cold wars, and the family is always lifeless.

Classmate A is a girl, giving people the impression that she is snarky in four words, and almost no one in the class talks to her, because she not only speaks swearing, but also has a very high voice, and is proficient in gossip, spreading rumors everywhere, and she can't be alone if she wants to.

Student B is also a girl, and she seems to be born to pick thorns, and she began to quarrel with people after talking for less than three and a half sentences, because she fell out with classmate A in the dormitory, and the two of them also had a big fight, which caused a very bad influence on the counselor and classmates.

Student C is a boy, his studies are wasted, he is addicted to online games, and he often says that "everything will eventually turn to dust." ”

Classmate D is also a boy, 1.83 meters tall, very delicate, but he has no girlfriend so far, he always walks with his chest hunched over, his head is always low, he speaks almost silently, he has never had his own opinions, what others say is what he is, his academic performance is okay, but almost no unit wants him.

If parents don't stop arguing, then these negative effects can't be eliminated.

In fact, we have grown up and should have our own world. Who said that thoughts determine life. In other words, your emotions can be influenced by yourself.

Happiness, sadness, self-confidence, and low self-esteem can all be influenced by themselves. Learn knowledge and pursue wisdom. Then it is up to oneself to transcend, and God only helps those who help themselves.

Some will be depressed, will suffer in silence for a while, and soon the rebellious psychology will be more serious.

By the time the child really explodes in the small universe, it will already be the extreme he has endured, and it will cause serious damage to his psyche, and he will have all kinds of thoughts.

For example: I will not get married in the future.

I'm going to get a job right away, find a quiet place.

Leave your parents immediately and run away.

At school and classmates do not speak, boycott.

At school, it is easy to quarrel. Children are more sensitive.

If you want to solve the problem: parental harmony is the most important, go out to play with more family, the child is too psychologically shadowed, or find a psychologist to help!

There may be insecurity, lack of self-confidence and fear of marriage, which can allow him to re-recognize the past and adjust his mentality.

I've met some grumpy people, I've asked them, and most of them were in an arguing environment as a child.

There are some of them, change the environment, and know that the environment has a great impact on people. It's good to communicate more, like playing sports together, ball games.

In fact, quarrels between husband and wife are not a big deal, but quarrels can't be done, two people living together will inevitably have differences, you just need to be considerate of each other, let each other be good, think about the original can come together is fate, since you have chosen each other, then you have to learn to be considerate.

If there are some things that are too different, then you can sit down and talk about it, such as making a table or something like that, you come today, and you will change me tomorrow. It's OK to adjust well.

Life is like this, there is happiness and there is suffering. Remember that as long as two people are together, even quarrels are happiness.

I wish you all a happy life!