What to do after losing love How to deal with the lost feelings

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put yours.

    Memories in the bottom of your heart, bring your blessings to him with the same memories, let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

    If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

    Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't be too sad, there will be no ups and downs in life, no matter who it is, it will not be smooth sailing, although you lose him makes you very painful, but you also get a lot of things that you never knew from it, so you must do better in the days to come, you don't have to have him to love him, you will be very happy to see him happy, so don't be too sad, you will only make those around you who care about you worry about you. Do you understand?

    Although you can't forget him all at once, maybe you will never forget, just treat him as your best memory and put it in the deepest part of your heart!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've had times like this, oh, when I was deliberately willful when I was arguing, I wanted him to coax me! But every time it's a mess and it breaks up! It's a woman's nature.

    Now that he is gone from you, you should take a fresh look at yourself and not live in his shadow. There are many other good men in this world besides him! Remember, he is just a flash in the pan in your life and your future is the happiest!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The true meaning of love!

    If you really can't be together, then the long pain is better than the short pain! Don't push yourself! Bless him!

    If you love each other very much, try your best to redeem it! Don't let yourself regret it! Love: do not run away;

    If you really love each other. But not together. That can't help but treasure this relationship!

    If love. Just love it from the bottom of your heart!

    Be happy.

    Bless you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Falling out of love is not a loss of morality, it is a warrior of life and a strong man of love. The landlord wants to open some, you still have love in your heart, but you have lost a person who does not love you, and there are many beautiful things in life waiting for you to invest and pay attention to in addition to love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I were you, I would be brave enough to find her and say it, because there are some things in this life as long as you try your best to do it, even if you fail, you don't feel sorry, there is a good saying, I'd rather laugh and cry than cry and say regret!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A lost love is a love that is not for you. The love that is truly suitable for you will accompany you for a lifetime. So don't be sad, it's painful during this time, just carry it over.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Say no more. If you say it, she will think you have a bad character. And if you say it, she'll doubt the sincerity of it. All give each other a good memory. In fact, you don't necessarily still love her. Maybe what you really still miss is the feeling of drinking her together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe everyone will fall in love with one or several people in their life, but no matter how many times you have been in love, when you hear love, the first person you think of must be the original true love in your life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then leave it as garbage, and don't think about it. Life is always good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Lost love, you still have a lot of ah, career, relatives, friends...

    Love is not the only one!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then go and tell her that I really like you and hope she will give you another chance to love her well!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Cherish it when you have it, and don't regret it when you lose it!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now that it has been lost.

    So let it be.

    Love isn't the only one anyway.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since it's true in my heart. Love. He.

    That. Only. Go. Love.

    No. Think too.

    Many. Know.

    I have the most in my heart. Love. Target.

    Be. Who just.

    Be brave.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's understandable how hard it can be after a breakup

    Don't take it too seriously

    Time is the proof of this

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Can't be sure. It depends on whether the other person still has love for you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Experience. Just pay attention to it later.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Starting from the beginning, of course.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can consult me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your ** is very well written, but it doesn't fit on this.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go on with life. Is it suicide?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    For the lost love, bury it in the bottom of your heart, as a relationship experience in your life, you can let go of it and try not to touch it, and it will be an endless aftertaste in retrospect.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When I read this topic in a magazine, I was stunned, yes, what do I do when love is gone? A friend said that he could listen to Li Shengjie's "Let Go of Your Hand", and some people also said that they would continue to look for the next one, so what about me? I think I'll cry, cry in the dark, lie down, and after a while, start a new life.

    Everyone's world will experience that exciting love, when love comes, such as the flood that bursts the embankment is out of control, such as the burning flame is radiant, make you young, let you dance, let you feel agitated, let you be like in the clouds, the whole person is difficult to move quietly. The feeling of heartbeat, the tremor of excitement, the tears of sadness, the excitement of meeting, the anxiety of anticipation......The one who indulges in love is a superman, an iron man, and never tires; It is also a philosopher who is a saint, and there is always tolerance, clarity, and love in his heart.

    The charm of love is unpredictable, it can make a person who is slumped back up to face life, he can also make a person who is proud of the spring breeze fall and lose his direction, it is like an immortal with omnipotent magic to save the world, but also like a demon to destroy the whole world.

    What if such a divine and wonderful thing and full of magic love were gone?

    How will I live without the people who love me when the negative people see the end of the world? It's one of a kind.

    Optimistic people see hope, since they don't love anymore, just smile and let go, the possible chances of the next love existence are endless. This is also one of a kind. "Lishu" in the TV series "Shanshan is Coming" has always been deeply in love with "Feng Teng", and when she saw that "Feng Teng" and "Shanshan" were in love, after a painful struggle, she finally found her love.

    All kinds of things about the appearance of love after disappearing are flashing in front of my eyes one by one, and I believe that a love with a profound chaotic process will make people unforgettable, and it is a lifetime memory. Even if this relationship is short-lived, it will never be forgotten in the hearts of lovers who love and are loved. Even if in the end, there is a problem in each other's hearts, and the glorious flame that once burned each other will leave a bright light in the long river of life.

    What do I do when love is gone? I continued to ask myself. I can't help but think of the words of the French writer Georges Sand about love: Love is a temple!

    Love is a temple, and it is the lover who builds an object worthy of his own worship. And the beautiful thing in the temple is not the gods, but the altar. Why don't you dare give it a try?

    Whether the idols of worship will be erected for a long time or will fall to pieces immediately, you have built a beautiful temple. Your soul will dwell in the temple, and the smoke of God will linger for ever, and your soul will create a great work. God may change, but when you exist, this temple will exist.

    George Sand's explanation of love can be understood as whether a person's love lasts for a long time, only if you have the beauty of love in your heart, that is, the eternal temple, then we can stay forever young in the temple!

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