How does it feel to finally be able to return to China once after many years?

I went back to China once in 14 years, but after that, I didn't have the right time to return to China for various reasons because of graduation and finding a job to get PR, and finally got PR at the end of this year, put aside my worries, and went back to China with the Christmas holiday and annual leave. The air, the food, the changes are nothing. The most important thing is to be able to see my father, mother, grandfather, grandmother, grandma, grandpa, watch TV, chat, eat, go out for a walk, and hug them well before leaving.

In the future, I will return to China every year on annual leave, life is short, the world is impermanent, and I just want my family to be healthy, happy and safe.

He went abroad for six years and returned to China for the second time. The most intuitive feeling: walking on the street, there is a confidence that you can communicate perfectly with these people, confident and cordial.

There are so many people and cars, and the road is so narrow. Sigh the inconvenience of having a car, and marvel at the convenience of not having a car. Metro Great!

Hot (I live in a southern city), hot and humid, super hot. Although there are times when it is hot abroad. But there is air conditioning at home, there is air conditioning when you go out and get in the car, and almost all destinations have air conditioning, and air conditioning and heating are seamlessly connected.

The food is really cheap, but the amount is also small. Wow, everyone eats so little. It's very convenient to eat, and it's extremely inconvenient to get fit, but why aren't everyone fat!

The clothes in the mall are so beautiful! It's so expensive! It's so convenient to order takeout and taxi!

But I'm not used to going out with a lot of cash. New Orleans chicken leg burgers, various fast food restaurants are delicious and tearful! Admire the coexistence of indifference and dedication of various service personnel.

The first time I returned to China was three years after I went abroad, and before I went home for the first time, I was actually quite adrift, and I didn't feel too much, and I didn't feel particularly homesick. However, when I really sat on the plane, buckled up my seat belt, sent a letter to my parents saying that I wanted to turn off the phone, and then looked out the window, I suddenly had mixed feelings, and I wanted to sit at home the next moment, talk to my mother, and drink tea with my father, as if I suddenly let go of the mood that I usually don't feel. Then when I was on the plane, I naturally thought of how to arrange the time for this cherished family reunion, as well as all kinds of friends who wanted to meet and talk about the recent situation, as well as those restaurants that I hadn't eaten for a long time, all made a list, and the whole flight was inexplicably excited.

In a place where there are many Chinese, there is no sense of language. However, I will forget to bring toilet paper in the public toilet and look confused, and there is an inexplicable anxiety when crossing the street. I found that domestic prices were soaring, and I often carried one or two thousand yuan in my pocket when I went out, which was not necessarily enough.

There are no domestic bank cards, all kinds of inconveniences, a lot of apps can't be used. When taking a taxi, I found that the driver would pull people on the road casually to carpool, resulting in a trip that had to go out long in advance so that I would not be late. The nostalgic food stalls and roadside stalls are not allowed to eat.

When I miss home, I don't think about home, I just think about the city when I was a child.

When I returned to China for the first time in three years and ate hot pot, I was happy. But when I went to check out, I exploded! It's so expensive, are you bullying people in broad daylight?

It's going to be 500 if it's cool, what the hell is this! It's five hundred for a casual barbecue! When I left home, the pot meat was only 12 yuan!

Maybe it's because I live in a small city and have a full yearning for a small city, so I can't wait to go back to the small city after returning to China, and I always feel that even if it's dirty and messy, it's a destination. There is an old man who greets on the road, the meat skewers he liked to eat when he was a child are still there, the stalls are still there, the primary school has changed its façade, I feel that the road is not recognized, and the junior high school has not gone back, but the night market near the junior high school is still there, and the Dragon Boat Festival is really good atmosphere. The barbershop owners still know me, and when I mentioned that I hadn't come back for almost 7 years, I was still full of sighs, how could 7 years be so fast, and the small city may be because of the slow pace, and there is basically no change.

It's full of feelings.

When I got off the plane, my parents came to pick me up at the airport, and my parents couldn't recognize how fat I was when they saw me. It turns out that although they have been able to **** for four years, they can't feel the changes in their figures. And for me, their appearance has not changed very much, my parents were still fifty-three or fourteen years old when I went abroad, and when I came back, they were both nearly sixty.

If you don't return to your home country for a long time, you will be decoupled from your domestic life, and you will be very uncomfortable with various changes at first. Later, I was able to go back to China almost once a year, and I didn't feel as strong as the first time. I also advise some students who are as young and vigorous as me at that time and want to prove themselves and go abroad.

There is no need to not return home for a long time for a long time for a sake of fighting for a breath or other ridiculous reasons, such as saving money on living expenses or something. Listening to it is clear that face-to-face communication with your parents and friends at home is much more efficient than if you were alone abroad.

As people's living standards get higher and higher, people will want to pursue a better life. Many people choose to live or work and live abroad after their living conditions improve. But their hometown is always their hometown, and many people still want to go back to their hometown after going abroad for many years.

So what will happen when someone who has been abroad for a long time suddenly returns to their home country? I think there will be the following experiences.

1. The feeling of not adapting

People who have lived abroad for a long time, they have adapted to the living environment in a foreign country. Therefore, the first feeling that comes to them when they suddenly return to China is that they are not adapted to the environment here. Secondly, they will also have problems caused by different jet lag, which is the reason for the inverted jet lag.

In addition, because people have lived abroad for a long time and have adapted to the leisure and comfortable environment abroad, they will definitely feel at a loss when they return to China by the fast pace of life in China.

Second, the feeling of familiarity

Although they have lived abroad for a long time, their home country is their homeland after all. Everyone has a special attachment to their hometown, no matter how long you have been here or how long you have lived outside, your heart will still regard your hometown as a spiritual belonging. Therefore, when people who have been living abroad for a long time suddenly return to their hometowns, they will definitely burst out with a sense of familiarity.

3. The feeling of novelty

People who have been living abroad for a long time suddenly return to China, in addition to the familiar feeling mentioned above, they will also have a sense of novelty. Because during the days when they lived abroad, their country was constantly developing and growing, and many things were no longer the way they used to be. In particular, the new high-rise buildings, wide roads and well-equipped facilities will make them look at their former hometown.

It will also make them want to know more about what the country has been through during their absence. So they must have a sense of novelty at this time.

After being abroad for a long time, it is a particularly refreshing experience to suddenly return to China. I can finally eat a lot of authentic hometown food, and I don't have to eat those bun burgers, sausages and other fast food products all day.

There will be a brief period of discomfort, because the atmosphere at home and abroad is different, and there are great changes in the country.

There is a feeling of coming home, you will feel very close, and the mood will be better.

It was a very exciting experience, and I was very happy and happy to return to the embrace of my motherland.

It must have been a particularly exciting experience. I will be very happy in my heart, because everyone has some patriotic feelings.

There will be a very happy feeling that I have finally returned to the embrace of the motherland, everything is so warm and kind, and it is still a familiar place.

The day before I returned home, I cried on the table at home in Paris for a full hour, crying breathlessly, trembling with a pen in the diary I don't know how many times I trembled and wrote "I can't hold it right away" "I can't hold it right away", tears made the words wet, crying to pack my luggage, set the alarm clock, cry until I fell asleep, waiting for the next day's flight.

The decision to return to China was sudden, and it took less than a week to decide to quit my job in Paris, find an internship in China, get a short-term French ID card, book a plane ticket, pack my luggage, and return to China. So much so that I really didn't have time to relax, and when I arrived in Beijing, I still had a Paris subway ticket and a lunch ticket in my left trouser pocket.

14 hours of flight, I finally got off the plane at the capital airport T3, tired I got out of the customs immediately at the airport to find a restaurant to eat, hungry, just sat down the waiter took the menu and said please order, please ring the bell when you choose, I saw the small button on the table first sighed the quality of service, and then after the selection of the waiter came over, and said fluently with me "Hello, 25 minutes to serve, more than 25 minutes for free, WeChat Alipay applepay which one do you use?" "When I opened WeChat, I couldn't tell the difference between payment and collection, and my face was clouded.

It's really convenient to live in China, after my friend picked me up, sent me home, I began to fall asleep, everyone in the family went to work, I woke up and opened the luggage and began to express the things brought back to China for my friends, and placed a certain express software, even placed four orders, spread things on the ground, ten minutes The courier brother came, Didi Didi four sounds, gave me four small tickets, took things and left, a total of less than 20 minutes. I got off a takeaway software again, I don't know how to choose Chinese food at a glance, because the first time I registered, I was also given a 20 yuan meal coupon, within half an hour, I heard a knock on the door, the food delivery brother put down the things and said thank you to each other and left, I opened it and saw that from the lunch box to the chopsticks are delicate intentions, continue to sigh that I am really good now in Greater China.

The feeling of coming home is like an arrow, and I want to see it.