What do you think of such a father?

I sympathize with the landlord's plight and hope that I can help the landlord. The behavior of such a man in the family should be diametrically opposed to the status of society. If he does not get the corresponding status in the society or at work, he will have a huge psychological gap, do not have a deep understanding of himself, and begin to complain about the society, the family, and the countless people or things around him, except for himself.

This is one of the root causes of much domestic violence. It is clear that your father has a mental illness, a distorted worldview and values, and an extreme psychological inferiority complex that has caused him to look like he is in front of his family. It even caused him to be out of touch with this society, he always had very high expectations of himself, but the reality of the return is not like this, when this expectation continues to expand, it is not a simple conceit, but a vent to you, it can be any form of venting, just like you said abusive accusations.

The landlord did not enjoy the father's love because of his childhood, the lack of father's love on the child is very serious, fear of marriage is one of them, you are afraid that you will meet a man like your father, afraid that your future life will still fall into this painful cycle, which is also understandable. The key question is, what should the landlord do? I don't know how old you are this year and whether you have the ability to stand on your own, but in such a family, you should leave as soon as possible, the love is mutual, if you don't get the father's love, then why do you want to continue in this family?

You need to use time to slowly fade the shadows in your heart, you need friends, you need love, you have to believe that there will be a man to ** your inner pain, to bring you a sunny and warm life, maybe this person is difficult to find, maybe this life is still far away from you, but you have to start from now, let yourself first have the ability to be self-reliant, financial independence is to meet a better man, because you have to find a way to let yourself into a warm social circle, instead of feeling sorry for yourself here. Landlord, please be strong, your experience will only make you more deeper, more temperamental, more mature, and more loving to life.

I don't know what to say about your father, but I know that he has always been your father, who gave birth to you and gave you life. That's it, no matter how bad he is.

From the bottom of your heart, you have to respect him, maybe, he does have a bad personality and a short temper.

I am suspicious in my heart, but it is also a fact that he has been feeding and drinking Russ for more than ten years, right?

Actually, my mom is not much different from your mom. I remember my mom saying something.

I could be a tired life. I didn't make much money with my dad. Well, actually.

It's all for me. Your parents have been married for so many years, and it is impossible to suddenly say that divorce is impossible.

Actually, your dad still has a lot of influence on you. I should feel more like you, can't be like you.

Dad's same character, someone is chasing you, you should accept it. And that kind of character of your dad.

Can't be affected. You should learn to be outgoing. It's not easy for your mother for so many years.

Perhaps, your father can't give her happiness. But you can. Actually, I feel that your father's personality has left some shadow when he was a child. Well, it's not either.

I'm supposed to take care of it. Actually, you don't have to be so pessimistic. If you want to open a little, try to change your dad, don't come hard, take your time.

I don't think there's anything wrong with your dad.

It's you who is in problem ...