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It's not a matter of tolerable versus intolerable.
If he wants to pedal two boats, you will have absolutely no idea.
But he told you, and it's different.
What man doesn't have a confidante? What guy doesn't have a female friend? Being a woman is unavoidable.
We can control ourselves not to look for it, but we can't control others to come to us. Men and women, who doesn't have some good friends of the opposite sex? With friends of the opposite sex, problems will ensue.
It is possible that a friend has a crush on you, or that you have a crush on a friend. Or just appreciate a certain point of the other person. Over time, your relationship will get better, and it may become ambiguous in the eyes of outsiders.
It will be easy to pedal two boats.
When dealing with these issues, I think that as a woman, you should sometimes open one eye and close one eye. Why do you have to get along with yourself? Yours he found someone else, if he didn't say it, you have to figure it out, he shook his hand and left, and in the end it was not you who was sad?!
If you know it, keep a snack, observe what your person is like to you, whether it has changed or become bad, so that you can leave her before he leaves, make him regret it, and let him come to you!
A man can't get used to it, the more you treat him, the more he doesn't know how to cherish it. Because he feels that you are his, that you can't do without him, that you will follow him with all your heart. But as a woman, you have to keep a hand, you can be good to him, you can tolerate his mistakes, but you just can't rely on him too much.
Be independent! ~
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Of course not, unless you're just playing.
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If it was my first term, we would have been in two places, and everyone said we could split our legs.
Now that we're together, of course not.
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can endure to see how much he and she step on a few steps without love.
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No, because love is selfish!
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There are always problems with yourself, either you are not good enough for the other party, or you have problems with your vision.
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No, prove that the other person doesn't really like you.
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It's really obvious that she doesn't love you at all, maybe it's a cruel reality! But you have to face it! She's just cheating on your feelings This kind of woman can't accept it as any man!
It will be very painful and tangled, listen to the words of my brother to eliminate the erection of Zen! Leave her.
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If you are not selfish in love, and you can't live without her, then you just continue to ask such a simple question? Laugh Duan's performance has already shown that she doesn't love you anymore, so why bother stalking? Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.
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Before you are sure, insist on testing how much you love her.
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Interpretation: A metaphor for not being able to make up one's mind because of a lack of understanding of things, or maintaining a relationship with two different parties for the sake of opportunism.
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It is the meaning of splitting legs, and it usually describes a boy (girl) dating two or more girls (boys) at the same time.
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Generally, it refers to a person who is not dedicated to love, and is in love with two people at the same time.
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In the face of multiple choices, or hesitation, the first mouse is at both ends; Or wander between the two, the so-called two-sided bet is also.
The Chinese are still moral, so they disdain "stepping on two boats". Westerners respect reason, so they think that stepping on two boats is an optional strategy.
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A man is in love with two women at the same time.
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I probably understood after reading it, in fact, when I read half of your description, I found that your situation was a good choice, but as a prudence, I still finished reading it, and by the way, I read all the answers of others and your follow-up.
Let's not talk about the problem of pedaling two boats, let's talk about how you should choose.
A is clearly not for you.
Because she obviously can't bear the pressure that the family gives her, from the fact that he took the initiative to break up with you 2 times. As for whether she can stand it, it's not for you to consider. In fact, if she really can't stand it, she shouldn't come to you, but to her parents.
In fact, it is very simple, you express to her, "You also knew that you couldn't bear the pressure of your parents, otherwise it would be like this, if you can convince your parents, let's reconcile" or something like that. In this way, you (including b) will not be harmed.
In addition, don't listen to her "post-graduation loan" (to be able to say this kind of thing at least superficially 2 points: 1. She is not mature at all, and only thinks about the present and does not think about the future; 2. She doesn't think about you at all, how easy is the loan thing). I can tell you responsibly that the loan is not having a good time, and the conclusion from many of my friends is:
No matter how much two people love each other, decades after marriage are just as dull, so when looking for a wife, you have to find a worry-free one (such as B).
There is another point to say, because I met a woman before, her situation is similar to A, and she is also a stupid woman, but the difference is that she married the man, but after the marriage, she found that "poor couples mourn", and regretted it not long after she became pregnant. Later, I paid attention to it, this situation is quite common, and the average woman will always become realistic, but it is just a matter of time. And A's situation is obvious, you can't endure hardship, and taking out a loan means suffering losses, so in order to avoid you losing A and missing B in the end, I suggest that you give up A and choose B
Then talk about the problem of stepping on two boats, in fact, your current situation is also okay, after all, you and A can see each other less (the reason is that her parents do not agree, to avoid being discovered, etc.), as for the specific time arrangement, you still have to grasp it yourself. But I have to warn you that it's easy to get through two boats, and you can lose two people at the same time.
If it helps you, remember to adopt it
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Although I have zero IQ in love, I suggest you become good friends with the latter! Get along well with your ex-girlfriend. If you and your ex-girlfriend naturally broke up because of disagreement, let's have a relationship with the latter.
Thank you for that. Of course, this is a premise. Don't know who these two you like more and who do you love more?
The latter has no thoughts on you. Also, when you get along with the latter (friendship), look at the best of you and the two. What about the latter's character, if the latter's character is not good, don't chase it.
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It's too long to be too lazy to watch. Suffice it to say, if you like one person and the other at the same time, you definitely like the latter, why? Because, if you love the first, you won't go looking for the second.
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Elder brother. Let's talk. I'm annoyed too.
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In the usual chat, you can feel that it is very abnormal and has body language.
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Although, there is nothing sinful about loving someone, but if you really love wrong, give up! If you really can't let go, you should also learn to bless, if you really love him, you should make him happy, believe me! As long as you see him happy, your heart will also remember a smile, even if it is painful, but it is worth it, if you really love him, give up on him!
If you give up on him, it doesn't mean that you don't love him anymore, but you give up on him because you love him too much, let him be happy! Perhaps, you do it, it is worth it.
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One person chases two sons at the same time. As a result, none of them could catch up. It is advisable to give up a son.
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Choose the latter one, because I used to be the last one of a woman, and that woman ended up in the arms of the previous one, but I love her the most, and now I don't contact her anymore, I heard that she broke up, and now she's married again, and it's a man we don't know, heh, that's feelings.
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Your heart is good. It will make you more painful, and I personally believe that one time is enough. He's figured it out now, what about later?
Did he think about your feelings before? Now your boyfriend hasn't done anything to be sorry for you, and you're pretty good with him, can't you be with him wholeheartedly? Of course, in fact, you are very attractive, it doesn't matter who you like People have to live freely, don't they?
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Or choose the second one, although you don't forget, but you now have a hard-earned love, hard-won, cherish it, let it pass in the past, it's not bad to miss it, at least you once had it!
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Friend, you can choose the second one, and if you love the first one, you won't have the second one, and the second one should love more strongly than the first.
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No matter who you choose, you won't suffer, but if you don't choose, you won't have the last one.
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This kind of person is not worthy of love, and it is best to cherish the present.
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Be true to your heart and look at the discovery of love is a bit like yours.
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All are the same disloyal people. The difference is: a man steps on two boats, one light and one dark, and there is always one foot on the shore; The woman stepped on two boats, the light and darkness, and her feet were offshore. Advice: In the end, the boat capsizes, but the time is sooner or later.
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Men have three legs, so they can step on 2 boats, women only have 2 legs, and it is unstable to step on 2 boats......
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Men are on women's boats, and women are on men's boats
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If you are polite, weak emotions make people mediocre!
Let's talk about ......As the saying goes: there are no absolutes in the world. From a personal point of view, this is a character problem in the character, and it is difficult to change.
Because the first reason may not be a mistake in his cognition, but an involuntary "man goes crazy". I feel that wandering between two women can show his emotional intelligence and have a sense of existence! I don't think that this kind of behavior violates the bottom line of morality even though it does not violate the law!
The second reason may be that he has a shadow in his heart, he has been influenced by the living environment since he was a child, and his thoughts are distorted and he has never taken others seriously. Not all dogs can be self-disciplined enough not to eat! You are not in doubt, but gambling, gambling with your youth on tomorrow, and going to the scumbag to Pudu sentient beings......!
Why do you have to give up an entire forest because of a single tree?
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There are also reliable and unreliable men who step on two boats. Because a man who speaks of heart is more reliable, and a man who does not speak of heart is not reliable. There are many things in the world, and some people have more than one wife.
If there are countries in the world that allow polygamy, this is not just two boats with two feet, but two boats with two feet. And men will be just as reliable. But if there are men who are not attentive and partial, they are not reliable.
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There are many good men in the world, and you can choose something else. Pedal two boats once, it's hard to guarantee that it won't happen a second time. It's already unreliable, so don't choose.
Why stepping on two boats shows that he is not a trustworthy person in nature, and it is better to give him a chance than to give a chance to someone who has not made a mistake.
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When you ask that, you must have a slight affection for him.
I think he will be good when he is older, that he will mature, or that he will always be a prodigal son.
Or you don't believe that you mean it to him, and he will do that to you.
I'll show you a way!
It's because you like him, that's why you make excuses for him.
Let's say your dad, your husband, the boyfriend of your best friend who grew up together.
Pedaling two boats more than once.
What would you think of this person.
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This is really not necessarily, some will change, some will not, it is possible that he once stepped on two boats because he is not true love, just playing, if he meets a real favorite will be single-minded, it is also possible that he just likes to pedal two boats left and right.
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If this man is now truly repentant and dead set on you, and you like him, then he is reliable. Bi Jing is in the past tense when he stepped on two boats, what you have is him now, he will be in the future, a person who has made mistakes, as long as you give him the opportunity to change, then he will become a good place.
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Men who step on two boats are generally more attentive, tend to be self-centered, choose the side that is most beneficial to themselves, ignore the feelings of others or disrespect the feelings of others, and want to find a reliable man, it is best not to choose this.
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Having the same experience twice, it shows that men are veterans in this area and are prone to old diseases**. You can't generalize whether it's reliable or not, in case the later woman ties him up!
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It depends on how the experience affected him, if he had been hurt or injured, it might have changed, but people who can pedal two boats are generally not injured, that is, unreliable. At least there is a possibility in the future, or you don't know about it. Those who have experienced this are much more likely to repeat this situation than those who have not.
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Such a man is unreliable, because he likes the feeling of eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, and likes to wander between two women, such a man is swaying, it is a hobby, it is difficult to change, and choosing a man still needs the kind of person who is loyal to a person
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There used to be a flower heart, but his past, give her a chance, give it a try. When two people fall in love, they must learn to tolerate, understand and trust each other. In daily interactions, constantly discover the advantages of the other party, slowly change their shortcomings, since you are a little willful, in order to love each other, you must learn to restrain your own small willfulness, so as to get the love of the other party.
Since you are pregnant, he ignores you, it may be because of your petty willfulness, or there may be other reasons, so you have to figure out what the reason is to talk to him in person, and then decide whether to stay with the child. But be sure to decide carefully and don't do things that both parties regret. At the beginning of every relationship, we all have those feelings and passions, and what we think about together is hope for a lifetime.
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