He s twelve years older than me, and he s been divorced, so will our relationship come to fruition?

You can rest assured, your man can't care more about his children than you, as long as you are a pure woman worthy of his care. Why bother for a child who is upset enough to affect his or her own emotions, and your personality will extend your emotions to your relationship?

I remember a teacher telling us that in the eyes of foreigners, they will always regard their partner as the most important person in their lives, because their parents will leave them, and so will their children, because children must learn to be independent when they reach adulthood.

I think a man who seems so mature and steady to you will be able to handle you, the child, and his past relationship better than you. Not spoiling children too much is one of the visionary ideas of mature men. You can rest assured of that.

But I do have a feeling that your ideas are a bit self-conscious. Because you're too perfectionist. Will miss a lot.

Addendum: Actually, I feel that this is purely a matter of your personal ideology and ideology. There may be a lot of things that you can't accept, and your boyfriend's child problem has been exposed and you are at a loss, so what will you do if other problems between you add fuel to the fire in the future?

You are very young and cannot be as open-minded as a mature man, and by the time you are open-minded, you will be old.

Your thoughts, your pursuits, will lead you to get nothing, and you will fall into a crazy situation. What you need is relaxation and empathy. It's not just for yourself, that's selfishness.

It's normal for him to care about his children, but if you really love each other, will you care? The person I love is also more than a decade older than me, he is also divorced, he has children, and I am also very confused, but I firmly believe that true love can be above all else! I,

Love is a poison It can make you crazy, make you crazy Make you laugh Make you upside down Make you cry and make your heart sad It can also make you liver and intestines broken Love is a glass of fine wine It can make you feel more sunny Nature flowers are more delicate The air is fresher every day Dreams at night are sweeter The calm sea is sometimes choppy, and there are always meteors falling in the quiet night sky The journey of life cannot be full of flowers along the way Life is short for a few autumns, there is no need to stay in the journey of life for too long for a little worry There are always white clouds in the blue sky, There are always waves dancing in the sea, and there are always our friends in this world! Sunshine is always after the wind and rain, please believe that there is a rainbow Life is short, life is wonderful, let your troubles turn into a meteor Let it slide gently in your heart

To end it, he and you are not in the same world.

Is it necessary to make such an investment risky?

I'm having a similar problem and I feel like he's not the right fit for you because you only love him temporarily.

If you really like him, then you have to learn to accept his past, not to mention that what you said is already his past, although there is a child now, but the child has been awarded to the woman, and it is normal to look at the child, don't worry about anything, he has been hit by his marriage, and now he has chosen you again, then I believe that he will definitely learn from the shortcomings of the last marriage and make your marriage better mine.

How can you be in the same situation as me, but I am very confident that the key is to work together to understand him You can't blame him for his past, only if you accept it calmly will the future be better

There should be a reward for such a difficult question, and then come back to ask for advice.

Why look for him if you want to live a happy life? Except that you are a leftover girl, you can't get married. Think about you guys later:

1. The generation gap may be a lifetime. My relatives are 5 years apart, and now there is a generation gap.

2. I don't have much money, I'm ten years older than you, my career has just started, I'm drinking now, I'm not with you, what about after I get married?

3. Children are the most headache, when you have your own child, this child, I dare not say how good you can be to her, but you will quarrel for this child.

4.The man has already lost a marriage, he still doesn't cherish you, and he often quarrels with you, ten years older than you, and he doesn't let go, and he doesn't know what to do, let's not talk about it. As a person who wants to be good to you, I will also let it go.

5. You yourself are biased towards breaking up (as you can see between the lines. ）

6. Guess: When talking, the man didn't explain the situation clearly, which made you fall into the sea of love.

Analysis, there should be a lot, that is, why do you not choose good men in the world, you will let yourself fall into pain.

Looking at the one you added, I just want to say two words to you: "Leave!" “

There may be some happy things together, but the gap is too big, and there is a great possibility of not being happy in the future.

Q: I met him on the Internet, he was 12 years older than me, divorced and had a five-year-old child, and after two months of acquaintance, he felt good and got married, but after ten days of marriage, he said that he needed to divorce and remarry, and I didn't think much about divorcing him, and now I feel that he has changed, a few days ago he said that I don't want me to pester him, what should I do?

If the parties divorce by agreement, the divorce registration shall be handled in accordance with the procedures of preliminary examination, acceptance, examination, registration (issuance). The specific materials and procedures required for divorce by mutual agreement are as follows: (1) the parties submit documents and supporting materials; (2) The marriage registrar shall inspect the corresponding documents and supporting materials; (3) The marriage registrar shall explain to the parties the conditions for registration of divorce under the Marriage Law; (4) The marriage registrar inquires about the parties' willingness to divorce and their willingness to the content of the divorce agreement; (5) Where both parties voluntarily divorce and reach a consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt handling, both parties shall fill out the "Declaration of Application for Divorce Registration" and sign it in front of the oath adjudicator; (6) Both husband and wife sign the divorce agreement in person; The Registrar of Marriages is the Commissioner of Oaths.

One copy of the agreement for each spouse and one copy for filing at the Marriage Registry; (7) The marriage registrar shall review the documents submitted by the parties, the declaration of application for divorce registration, and the divorce agreement, and if the conditions for divorce are met, fill in the "Divorce Registration Review and Handling Form" and the divorce certificate; (8) Issuance of divorce certificates.