Are we in love for a long time, what should we do next?

Then you have to persevere, you have to work hard!

Confess, it's a big deal, a big man is still entangled in such a trivial matter.

Look for her!! You're in love.

First determine if you really love her. If not. Be rational about her passion for you. Don't mislead others for yourself. If love. Love boldly.

I think there is a long-term relationship in the relationship.

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Looking back at the love of the older generation, in the era of their parents, or even in the era when their grandparents lived, they rarely had the opportunity to fall in love freely, and most of the time they were arranged marriages by their parents, and their marriage partners may also be people they have never met, just because their parents said that they got married in a hurry. But is there necessarily no love among them? It's not very absolute, there are many people who have a long-term love or a phenomenon of getting married first and then falling in love.

In that era, there were few so-called love at first sight, and some were just in love for a long time, and in the process of getting along, they slowly understood the person's life, understood the person's conduct, and slowly fell in love with each other. I have to say that sometimes we will be moved by the love of the older generation, and we will be moved to the fullest, these are all facts.

Now there is a popular saying that the person you like is not necessarily suitable for marriage, and you have to find a suitable life for yourself when you get married, and therefore many people's marriages start from a blind date, because they are suitable for the future of two people and live together, so in this relationship, where does love start? , is nothing more than in daily communication, in the marriage after getting along slowly generated, long-term love is actually a manifestation of love.

Nowadays, there are also many film and television works that talk about getting married first and then falling in love, which has to be said to be very attractive, just like the lyrics of friendship, "The first time I saw you, I didn't like you, who knew that the relationship was so close later", which is a manifestation of long-term love.

I think that for today's young people, the long-term love is more precious, in today's fast-paced life, fast-food love is endless, and the relationship between them meets day by day is very rapid, but two people slowly calm down, slowly get along, and slowly cultivate feelings, this matter will become less and less, more and more precious. As the old saying goes, people see people's hearts over time, so I think that only time can judge a person's sincerity.

If you have a good impression of each other and really want to be with each other, you will be in love for a long time; If it's just perfunctory emotion, it's natural that the love fades over time Many people meet someone who feels good, so they fall in love in a hurry, and soon get married in a hurry.

But after a long time, you realize that the real him is not what you think in your heart. The two of you may not really be suitable, but just an illusion that each other has made for each other. Because of the fear of being abandoned or in a hurry to get married, he has no intention of making a beautiful illusion.

In fact, there are many intractable contradictions and problems between the real you, and you can't hide it, or you don't really have a common language, and you just deliberately did it to your liking. When you discover what is already there, the unpleasant differences will gradually fade away.

If you do this, you're looking for the wrong person. If you find the right person, after you get married, even if you don't speak, you will know what the other party is thinking and what you want to do, and most of the time you are speechless only need a eye contact and a knowing smile. Doesn't this tacit understanding make people more comfortable and enjoyable?

If this is not the case, then there is already a problem between you.

There is some truth to the saying "love over time". When people spend enough time and energy on a person or thing, our brain will gradually produce some chemical reactions, resulting in emotional experiences such as intimacy, dependence, and affection. This psychological phenomenon can appear in many aspects, such as relationships, work, interests, and so on.

However, "love over time" is not always true because everyone's situation is different. Some people will slowly develop feelings because they have been together for a long time, while others may be together for a long time and still have no feelings. Therefore, this statement cannot simply be taken as an absolute truth.

In the emotional world, many factors can affect our emotional experience, and "long-term love" is just one of them.

After a long time, feelings arise.

I don't believe in love at first sight, I only believe that love lasts for a long time, and I feel that time is the key to testing whether two people are in harmony or not.

I don't believe in love at first sight, I only believe that love lasts for a long time, and I feel that time is the key to testing whether two people are in harmony or not.

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Of course, there will be affection over time, because human emotions will heat up with the time spent together and the frequency of interaction. In other words, even men and women who do not match each other in appearance, identity, and background may breed feelings in getting along day and night. In real life, this is why those happy enemies end up falling in love with each other.

It's not so much whether you will be in love for a long time, but whether you want to be in love for a long time. If you want to have a relationship with this person, then you just need to spend more time with him; On the contrary, if you are afraid of falling in love with this person, you should try to avoid getting along with him.

Because, over time, you will really be in love, even if your identity, background, and appearance seem 99% impossible, you still have the opportunity to fall because of that 1%.

I think the relationship between men and women can be described in one term, that is, the increase of emotion. The main pattern of emotional increase is as follows: understanding-favorability-motivation-like-dependence-touching-deep love.

The process is generally as follows:

Understanding: After the first acquaintance, both men and women strive to express themselves, and test each other, and through interaction, step by step to understand whether the three views of both parties are compatible, and whether their interests and hobbies are the same.

Tempting: Always eager to see each other every day, and trying to express yourself, the other party interacts with you, you will be happy, otherwise, you will be lost.

Like: Always pay attention to the other person's dynamics all the time every day, and the other person's every move can affect or influence your emotions.

Dependence: After liking lasts for a while, if the other party also likes you, and you continue to "shh

Touched: After being in love for a period of time, because of a special event, you have the feeling of "sharing hardships and hardships", and the relationship between the two people has successfully entered a sweet period.

Deep love: When you feel that the other person has deeply touched you, that is, you are deeply in love with him.

According to this pattern of emotional escalation, we can see that the vast majority of emotions occur step by step.

In other words, there is definitely a certain "scientific truth" in the long-term relationship.

As the saying goes, the building near the water gets the moon first, and of course it will be in love for a long time. Two people have been in two places for a long time, as long as they don't hate each other, they are easy to have friendship.

Yes, but it has to do with personality.

The attraction of first acquaintance is largely due to the "desire to see color", and only by getting along for a long time can you really get to know a person. If the temperament of the two is very suitable, as long as there is a chance to get along, it will be a matter of time before they are together.

Because although you both regard each other as friends, the longer you spend together, the more you get to know each other, there will be a sense of intimacy, and this feeling will make you want to care about him, want to stay with him a little longer, because you are used to this feeling, and you will be relatively comfortable in this feeling, I mean relatively.

After a long time, the relationship between people will become closer and closer, and it is easy to have feelings.

No, if two people don't have that feeling, that taste of love, they won't be together even if they don't have that kind of feeling for a long time, and love can't be compromised.

Yes, after being together for a long time, you may not be attracted to each other by a certain understanding, which is very common.

Yes, feelings are all getting along, and after a long time, some kind of feelings will inevitably occur, but this kind of feelings are unstable and not long-lasting.

Yes, no matter how strange it is at first, it is easy to develop feelings after staying together for a long time, so if you like him, accompany him well.

OK. As long as you are really good to a person, constantly improve yourself and enhance your personal charm while being good to him, your feelings will be cultivated after a long time.

The so-called long-term love is after such a ** reaction, as the days get longer and longer, the familiarity is also rising, so the feelings heat up.

Of course, one person can get along with another person for a long time, and everyone can accept each other's existence, and feelings will arise.

I think it's possible to fall in love over time, but the probability is not high, because most people still believe in love at first sight in their bones.

In getting along, can you really have love?

After a long time, of course you can have affection