What consequences has meddling ever had on you?

Meddling does have many consequences. I used to be nosy and angry, but the consequences were both good and bad. Let's talk about a good and bad experience I had.

Once, a boy in the class got into a fight over a very small matter, and the more he fought, the more he got stronger, and he saw that it was impossible to go on like this. I went to persuade them to stop fighting, and there were many classmates next to me who pulled them away, so I persuaded them to sit down and solve any problems calmly, fighting will not solve the problem, I told them to fight again and tell the teacher. Although they were obviously unconvinced, they still sat down to reason, so the fight turned into a "debate match", they fought very vigorously, and they saw that they were about to fight again, so I was also helpless.

In order to prevent them from beating their heads and bleeding, I had to call the teacher, who immediately rushed over and criticized and educated them, asking them to reflect on their mistakes. And hit ** to notify their parents to come to school, and finally, after criticism and ideological education from parents and teachers, the boys who fought stood on the podium in the class and apologized to each other in front of the whole class and shook hands and made peace. To be honest, I was very relieved at the time, I helped my classmates solve the problem, knowing that fighting like them is prone to accidents.

And I may have helped them avoid the accident in time. However, I had a good relationship with them until then, but because I told the teacher and caused them to be notified to their parents, they were beaten and scolded, so since then, they have ignored me.

In this way, although meddling may have saved an accident, I also lost two friends, and I was heartbroken when I thought about it. In the future, it's better to stay away from things like persuasion and fighting, if they fight and hurt the innocent.

Before I went to work, someone once told me that if you mix in society, you can just take care of yourself! The previous slogans were all lies, and meddling in things would lead to very big problems and confusion!

In the past few years of targeted poverty alleviation, each of us has worked hard to do our part, especially the Communist Party members have stood on the front line, poverty alleviation into the village and households, and truly help those who need to get rid of poverty, industrial poverty alleviation, technology poverty alleviation, etc. In order to help the people of this family get on the road to prosperity as soon as possible, a cadre of our education system has formulated relevant measures for industrial poverty alleviation for their family. Because they are a mountain village, raising some chickens here can produce a lot of pollution-free eggs, and if you pull these eggs to the city and sell them, you will definitely make a lot of money!

So with everyone's help, nearly a hundred chicks were sent to this owner! But after two months, the problem appeared, the family said that their family lacked feed, and hoped that the poor people could help them buy some!

In order to ensure that the farmer brothers get rid of poverty and become rich as soon as possible and embark on the broad road, the staff bought two bags of feed in the town not far from this family and sent them over, and they were very grateful at that time! In this way, for the sake of their family's poverty alleviation and prosperity, everyone has helped less! After a while, there is either a shortage of corn or a lack of fodder.

By the time the chickens started laying eggs, everyone thought that our efforts were about to bear fruit! But here comes a new problem, even though this is less than two miles from their entry! But they are still reluctant to take the initiative to promote their agricultural products, but continue to ask this poverty alleviation worker to help solve the market!

At first, the people in the neighborhood were very enthusiastic, and they drove to buy all their eggs and give them to their relatives and friends! But after a long time, this family is like this, waiting for others to help them solve the problem of getting rid of poverty and becoming rich!

This poverty alleviation worker is particularly depressed, he has helped the family to help this part, why doesn't the family make a little effort themselves? It seems that poverty alleviation and prosperity is not just a monetary concept, poverty alleviation must first get rid of the ignorant understanding in their minds, and the lazy man Topping must act first!

I feel that the consequence that I have brought to me in the past month or so is that I have some estrangement from my roommate, and I have brought some slight embarrassment to my roommate.

One of the things I have experienced in the past two days has made me deeply understand that it is really bad to ask nosy, because being nosy a lot of times may make you not a person on both sides, because some things I have encountered recently have made me such a person. There was a boy in our class who liked one of my roommates, and I was having a good time with my roommate at the time, so the boy asked me to tell him anything, or the boy wanted to tell me these things, and asked me to give them, and then I thought it was a small thing, and I didn't think it was a nosy, so I promised her to help her, but then my roommate found out, I was very angry, and then it made me and him a little unhappyAt that time, I was very angry with that boy, I thought why that boy wanted to find me, do this kind of thing, at that time I felt that I really shouldn't be nosy, nosy to make myself not a person on both sides, because after this incident, I definitely can't help that boy anymore, and then the roommate and the audit test between me and my roommate had some embarrassment, so I knew at the time that nosy really shouldn't be nosy.

This is a nosy thing that I recently met with this confidant, so the consequence for me is probably that I and my roommate have become a little pimple, I think that after this incident, my roommate may no longer be like before, everything to tell me, what secrets to share with me, I think my relationship with my roommate can probably only be like an ordinary friend!

As the saying goes, a dog takes a mouse and is nosy. It is inevitable that you will encounter all kinds of things in life, things that happen to others, we can help, but sometimes you help, it may not be a good thing for you, that is nosy. <>

I've had this experience, helping people and saying you're nosy, and in the end you didn't have a good reputation. I remember when I was in junior high school, the two gods in the class quarreled for some reason, and the quarrel was so fierce! Red-faced and red-eared.

Scared everyone into a stunned, and I was also out of kindness, I wanted to come forward to persuade the fight, who knew that the two people still didn't appreciate it, continued to quarrel, quarreled and moved, I didn't see it, I went to call the teacher, otherwise no one knows what will happen next. Then I ran out of the classroom, and then all the way to the office, where the signal teacher was, otherwise I wouldn't know where to look for him.

Then the teacher and I ran back to the classroom, and as we ran, we ran to the classroom, and the teacher shouted to stop, but fortunately the teacher came in time, otherwise a bench would have been smashed on another person's body. After a series of treatments, the two of them were punished, and the punishment was not big.

Afterwards, the contradiction between the two of them still exists, but it is not obvious, and both of them inexplicably don't talk to me, I talk to others and ignore them, and I turn around and give you a roll of the eyes, I am really depressed. Did I call the teacher because they were arguing? Why can't they just think about what would have happened if I hadn't called the teacher at the time?

If they treat me like this, I'm just nosy to them.

It reminds me of me in high school, probably with a passion that I thought I could save the world, but then I lost a friend.

At that time, the 38th line was popular, and there was a 38th line on the table that was not pleasing to each other's eyes, and one day I suddenly saw a 38th line on the next table, and then I asked my classmates, what is going on?

The classmate said that she didn't know how to provoke the same table, and she wanted to draw a line with me, and she was very aggrieved when she said it, and I said righteously and awe-inspiring that it would be wrapped up in me and would help you solve it.

So I went to her that night and talked to her at the table and said, "How can you do this? Everyone is a classmate, there shouldn't be a 38th line, it will seem that you are stingy, listen to my crackling talk.

Later, a classmate also said that she should be tolerant of her classmates, but she never spoke. In fact, I was also good friends with her, and since that time, she has ignored me, and I wonder if I have done anything wrong.

Afterwards, my classmates reminded me that I was too nosy. It's a matter between the two of them, why do you have to step into it with one foot, and now the relationship between you and her classmates has collapsed.

Yes, I didn't have anything to say to her anymore, despite how much I wanted to save this friendship at the time, probably because I talked about her in front of so many people that night, which caused her self-esteem to be damaged, and I always regret what I did at that time.

Since then, I've never been nosy again. After all, you don't know the reason for other people's affairs, so you mix it up in a daze, and you lose a precious friendship.

When you encounter something that makes you want to get involved, you must have your own judgment first, in case you intervene, you will be the one who gets hurt in the end, and you still don't meddle in your affairs!

Let's start with a story. Example: Xiao Ming is a nosy person, just ask you what you are doing downstairs if you have nothing to do?

What are you doing in that tribe? What are you doing when you don't go to the toilet? One day, Xiao Ming was in the toilet, and someone he knew came, and when he saw that Xiao Ming was nervous, Xiao Dousui Jingming said:

What are you doing when you don't go to the toilet? Hurry up" The acquaintance said: "You go out and go down", in fact, the acquaintance knew that it was not satisfied with the good intentions, so Kong Shen called him out, Xiao Ming said:

You're on, it's okay, what's so embarrassing about that? Xiao Ming said: "No, you go out, can't you?"

kept being tough like this, and in the end, the acquaintance didn't go to the toilet, and Xiao Ming was beaten.

Example 2: Let's call him L, L is a very introverted person, and he has more thoughts and privacy. One day, Xiao Ming saw L, L happened to go to the flower bed, and Xiao Ming said:

What are you doing there? l said, "It's none of your business," Xiao Ming said

What's up? Don't go, tell me", L said: "Don't care, it's really none of your business", Xiao Ming kept looking for a reason to keep him, and in the end, L's purpose didn't succeed, he was furious and beat Xiao Ming.

Example: Bad deeds will be rewarded. (Summary).

Example 2: Privacy cannot be told to people, but Xiao Ming just asks to understand, so that if there is a conflict, this form will be solved in another form. (Summary).

Whether you are a normal person or an introvert, as long as you are nosy, including doing bad things, you must be miserable. (Note: There is no absolutely gentle person in the world, as long as you touch the bottom line, you must be miserable.) (Note: As long as it is a human being, a sane person is frightened.) ）