Married life about both parents 10

Your parents are angry because they can't see them. Maybe that's just a point. Demolition and relocation are not all demolition fees?

And the relocation building? The relocation building was used as a new house. Isn't it right to spend some money for a banquet?

Aren't your parents angry just because they don't have the grace to marry their daughter? Then it is estimated that the other party's parents also think that it must be troublesome for them to come over to see each other during the New Year. So avoid it.

I don't understand that anyway. Traditional Chinese. There is a saying among foreigners.

When you marry a Chinese woman, you marry their family. Marriage is two people or two families. It's up to you to judge.

Let's leave before we have children. Don't harm the next generation.

Take your time, sister, emotional matters don't happen overnight!

Time is the litmus test!

Seeing people's hearts for a long time, the road knows the horsepower!

In fact, the key is your husband**, see what he thinks, if he has such thoughts, what you do is a bit futile, and you didn't express your husband's attitude, and your mentality was not correct.

Marriage is really a matter of two families... It should be a step aside, both parents should give a step, maybe your husband's parents feel inferior? Besides, it's not a matter of time before you meet, you're all too impulsive now, don't talk about divorce, hurt feelings...

Be calm and considerate of each other, especially you and your husband have to be considerate of each other, if you don't visit the door, you won't visit the door, and we'll talk about it later.

Each of us wants to have a happy marriage, and we are all trying to follow through the ages. In the impression of many people, only when they find their desired partner can they have a happy marriage, but the marriage arranged by their parents is not necessarily happy. Such an understanding is inaccurate.

In fact, the marriage arranged by the parents can still be happy. The reason for this is that the most important factors that determine whether a marriage is happy or not are the feelings of the husband and wife, the marriage arranged by the parents is more suitable and easier to be happy in all aspects, and the marriage arranged by the parents can get their strong support and therefore is easier to be happy.

1. The key factor that determines whether a marriage can be happy is the relationship between husband and wife.

For a marriage, the most critical factor in determining whether it is happy or not is the relationship between the husband and wife. ......Specifically, if the relationship between the husband and wife is deep, the marriage can be happy even if other conditions are worse. And if the relationship between husband and wife is indifferent, even if other conditions are superior, it is impossible to achieve happiness.

Therefore, as long as the relationship between husband and wife is deep, even if it is arranged by their parents, they can still be happy.

2. The marriage arranged by the parents is more suitable in all aspects, so it is easier to achieve happiness.

One of the most important characteristics of the marriage arranged by the parents is that it is definitely more suitable in all aspects. The reason why this is so is because as experienced parents, they pay more attention to this factor. As a result of the parents' attention to these factors, the marriage they arranged for the husband and wife to be more suitable in all aspects, so that the married life of the husband and wife is more likely to be happy.

3. The marriage arranged by the parents can get their strong support, so it will be happier.

When it comes to marriage, parents' attitudes have a very important impact ......Parents will be more helpful in the marriages they support, and marriages will be happier. And a marriage that is not supported by parents will encounter various difficulties in real life, and it will be even more difficult to be happy. ......And the marriage arranged by the parents will definitely be able to get their strong support, so this marriage will obviously be happier than other marriages with the strong support of the parents.

Therefore, it is entirely possible to be happy in a marriage arranged by the parents.

Personally, I think most people may not feel very happy. There are also those who believe that it is happiness.

I can't be sure that I can't think for sure that the marriage arranged by my parents is unhappy, and it is not excluded that some marriages arranged by my parents are still very good in the small family run by two people, they will know how to tolerate each other, understand each other, be humble to each other, give to each other and so on.

Actually, I don't object to the blind date arranged by our parents, but we accept the blind date arranged by our parents, and we don't say that we accept the blind date, we must fully understand everything about this person, including, three views, social and habits, etc., we can't listen to the arrangement of our parents because of the so-called "foolishness".

Emotionally, if two people want to be together, it doesn't mean that they can get everyone's blessing if they like each other.

Marriage events, often the opinions of parents can not be ignored, parents must have their reasons for the object of opposition, after all, they are from the past, many times know more than us, can make up for our lack of experience, but it is not that the parents say that the poor oak is all right, their opinions must be listened to, but only for reference, the final decision is still in our hands.

Because the person who wants to live with Nana Qingji personally for the rest of your life is you, not your parents, and you are responsible for your own life. Whether the shoes fit or not will always be known only by the feet, and the feet need to know, don't just because others praise your shoes for looking good, you just endure the fact that you grind your feet and persist, because others will only see your glamorous, but will not care about your pain and difficulty.

The reason why I hold this view is mainly based on the following reasons: although it seems that the marriage arranged by the parents is for our good, the marriage arranged by the parents is more from their point of view, and more importantly, the family background of the marriage partner and the external factors such as work and education are not taken into account, and whether the object they arrange to marry is compatible with their own personality. Whether the three views can be roughly close, so in this case, the marriage partner arranged by the parents is likely to be very different from the marriage partner they are pursuing, and even if the two people are reluctant to marry and live together, it is very likely that they will not be able to produce real happiness and happiness in their future married life. On the other hand, the marriage arranged by the parents, because of the lack of real understanding of their marriage partner, often only through one or two contacts to have a better impression of their marriage partner, but when two people really get married and find that there is a big contrast with what they knew at the beginning, then there will be a certain contradiction between the parents and their marriage partner, and this contradiction will also affect the happiness of their marriage.

Therefore, I personally believe that for many parents, they should fully respect their own decisions and choices when it comes to their children's marriages, and should not interfere with and blindly ask their children to accept the marriage they arrange.