What does it feel like to have a nosy old man at home?

What to do if the old man is nosy.

For the elderly, we have to do two things, one is filial piety, and the other is shun.

1. Filial piety comes first, "filial piety to the elderly can best reflect a person's morality, because caring for the elderly is actually caring for their own tomorrow."

Second, Shun means to follow his will, don't contradict him, and endure if you can.

Conflict to make him feel like you're going against his will.

How to say and manage is their business, how to do it is your business, when they say, you should deal with it, you decide for yourself, don't just follow theirs, just deal with it in the way you think is right.

The best thing to do is to pull the old man down on the surface, but behind the scenes, what to do or what to do. Because the thinking of the elderly is different from that of modern people, what they think is right is not necessarily right. But they have worked hard all their lives, and they have made great contributions, and the starting point is for the good of everyone, but their ideas and practices are incorrect, so from the perspective of respecting the elderly and letting them live happily, it is okay to send them happy and harmonious on the surface.

It's really useless to call them. For outsiders, they all know that the old man is wrong, but you still treat the old man well, and the outsiders will not only not think that you have a problem, but will sincerely admire your filial piety and way of handling things. You think about it, right?

Wishing you happiness and happiness!

Bear with me, the old man has also suffered losses for your good.

The old man is very nosy. Maybe this is the generation gap. What you understand is a matter in the eyes of the old man.

It's a very important business. Moreover, most of the elderly do not agree with the way young people treat people and behave in the world, or are not at ease. So, always give some pointers.

This sentiment is understandable. Indeed, sometimes, the older generation is still accurate in seeing people and things. So, there is an old saying that ginger is still old and spicy.

Because, the old man has experienced many people and things in his life, experienced many ups and downs, winds and waves, and has rich life experience. Young people are relatively inexperienced, and they have the spirit of a newborn calf who is not afraid of tigers. For the elderly, you can talk to the elderly and let go appropriately.

Young people also need experience. At the same time, we must also understand the mood of the elderly, they are nothing more than afraid that young people will take detours, thinking that you can be less reckless and more wise and mature by taking more care and taking you with you. Two generations, young and old, understand each other more and tolerate each other.

Love to worry about understanding and stay away.

Therefore, we do not understand some of the things they do, and for this reason, there will be some conflicts and contradictions with the children, and it will make the family not harmonious.

Some older people often have nothing to do and are nosy, making a mess at home, and their children have nothing to do.

Since ancient times, we are very attached to filial piety in the country, children filial piety to their parents that should be the hole, we all know that parents raised us, it is not easy, parents raise us young, we raise parents old, everyone has an old day, we should be filial to our parents, considerate of them.

But parents should also understand the hard work of being a child, the old and the young, the burden is very heavy, the pressure is very great, I hope that the old people in the family are sensible, try to find less trouble for their children, the family and everything is prosperous, as the saying goes, there is an old family if there is a treasure, this saying is very easy to understand, which means that if there is a long-lived old man in the family, such as a Dinghaifeng to dismantle the needle, the family has a backbone, what are the big and small things in the family can be discussed with the elderly, as a long silver jujube generation, they are well-informed, We have a lot of life experience, and we can give us some advice, and our hearts as juniors will be steady.

There is also a saying: "If you don't listen to the old people, you will suffer in front of you", we also often hear it, after all, the old people are much older than us, their life experience, social experience is very rich, they are steady, and they are more thoughtful in considering things, these are some of the precious wealth invisible. Listening to the advice of the elderly will make us suffer a lot less and take a lot of detours.

Living in a fast-paced world, life is very stressful, busy with work every day, especially in rural areas, young people in order to earn more money, so that the family has a better life, many young couples go out to work, no time and energy to take care of children, at this time the children are handed over to the old people to bring, so that the children can go out to work and earn money with peace of mind. Therefore, if there is an elderly person in the family, it is like having a baby, and it also plays a key role in the happiness of the family.

When people reach old age, temper and personality are cultivating will have a great change, we often say that old children, that is, the older people are, the more they will be like children, language and thinking are not the same as normal people in all aspects, they have formed this inherent habit, we are not in the chain, can only slowly adapt to them.

Each of us will face such a problem, everyone has elderly people in the family, such as our parents and in-laws, they will grow old slowly. When they get older, their personalities tend to be different from when they were younger. For example, the elderly are already chattering, nagging all day long, taking care of everything, and she has to meddle in everything, and we can't blame them at this time, because they are really out of concern for their children.

So, when they have some opinions and suggestions, we can't discern with them, we can promise them, as for what to do? That's our own business.

We often see people in their forties and fifties complaining that the old man in the family has hidden everything and can't find the money, so they say that someone else stole it, but in fact they put it in the wrong place and can't remember it themselves. If you say that you don't get angry, it's false, because I've also experienced a lot of things like this, sometimes I want to run away from home, but then I think about what is the use of you running away, and I still come back.

So then I took this approach, and I listened to what he said. In this way, the old man will be very happy, you just have to follow her wishes, the so-called we can't change them, so we can only change ourselves. Because they are old, and some even reach old age, their brains will have some dementia, and we can't see it like the elderly.

Their lives are already not easy, and we should try our best to make their old life happier, which is what our younger generations should do.

Not necessarily, nosy old people should also be nosy when they are young. People who don't meddle in their affairs won't care when they're old.

If the old people are nosy, it is because they always want the juniors to do things according to their own experience, although sometimes it is annoying, the starting point is right, for fear that the juniors will suffer losses and make mistakes, it is a kind of concern, who does not care about their juniors?

Adults like to use their own known experience to warn children not to do wrong things, but I believe that only those who have experienced wrong things and made mistakes can remember them deeply, so be brave and realize any ideas, provided that you don't cross the line and don't break the law.

Adults are like that, and they always think he's right. Alas, it's good to get used to it!

Gossip, nosy is a woman's nature! However, those who are mature and have connotations may not care about ......

The teacher is a person who has come from the past, and I hope you will avoid detours. The reality is not as beautiful as imagined, in fact, pain is also an experience, so you can experience pain and fall in love.

There's nothing to do.

This is not nosy, but their simplicity and zealous.

Pay more attention to your own business.

Because your heart is all outside, have you done your own thing well?

So, I hope to do more for myself.

If you take care of other people's affairs, who will take care of you?

If it's not about you, hang it high.

I would do the same

It's good to have a clear conscience