I feel like I m hopeless, what if I always want to play when I don t do things?

Play is everyone's nature, no one doesn't want to relax themselves through their favorite entertainment, but some people distinguish reality and games very clearly, know when to let themselves play unscrupulously, when they must work hard, they can control their desires, in the eyes of others they may not know how to relax, but many people don't know, they just have strong self-control. If you just want to play and can't concentrate on things, then you need to start with your own self-control, so that you can effectively control your desire to play.

Just like students don't like to study, employees don't like to work, and bosses don't like management, they know what their responsibilities are, but they can't concentrate on their work. If you want to solve the problem of inattention, for example, you can find someone to supervise you, your parents are the best supervisors at home, under their supervision, you can not only quickly complete the work you should do, but also let your parents see a different version of yourself. How not at home, but also through the advice of friends, roommates to supervise, as long as you really want to change, through some external means sometimes a way, put your attention on doing things, you need to have a certain interest in it, so that things will get better and better.

Not doing things and always thinking about playing may also be related to the age group, the frequency of this situation in different age groups is also different, too much happens to young people, middle-aged people are reluctant to do this because there is a lot of pressure on the body, there is no way to get out, can only work first, use spare time to relax. However, young people are different, they don't think about what will happen in the future, and they don't realize that the pressure is actually not far from them, so they are still the unruly heart, and try to relax themselves as much as possible, which is also the difference in the minds of different ages. As their minds mature, they will also focus on their work.

Only by making them aware of the impact of doing so can they tie their minds to doing things.

I've had similar problems, I always don't want to study and just want to play. Although I know that it is not good for me to do this, I just can't control myself. I'm also very helpless!

However, at the end of each semester, I was able to calm down and study well to get a good grade. It's ironic that I only try when I'm oppressed. When I saw this question, I realized that many people are bothered by it just like me.

For the question of "I don't want to do things and just want to play", I believe that many people will choose some famous sayings to remind themselves that this trick is also effective. For example, poems such as "If the young don't work hard, the boss will be sad" and "An inch of time is an inch of gold, and an inch of gold is difficult to buy an inch of time", warning that time is urgent, and life needs to fight all the time.

However, I chose a different way. First, I wrote down what I wanted to live in the future, named it "Heartfelt (Final)", and then pasted it on the wall or in a place where it was easy to see, reminding me that I must work hard to reach the set end, otherwise what I want will eventually become an ethereal dream.

But I knew that I was going to do everything I wanted to do. In fact, I might be able to count every day as the end of my day, and I'll definitely work harder to finish my studies. That's one of my thoughts after reading that article.

As a college student, at the same time, as a farmer's child, I don't have a good background, so it also means that there is no strong capital for me to use, but time is also capital, this is the capital that everyone has, making full use of time to work hard can also make me strong, even if the other party has other advantages, I will not fall behind him. In my opinion, time is the most powerful asset.

In fact, everyone, including you and me, will inevitably have boring times, to really get rid of the troubles of boredom and regain the excitement of life, you can take the following suggestions: 1. Do what you like to do, do what you are good at, find the joy of success, regain lost confidence, and find the motivation and direction to move forward; 2. When the heart is tired, people will rest when they are troubled, let the soul travel, you can climb the mountain, see the sea, feel the magnificent scenery, embrace nature, and integrate into nature; 3. You can do some favorite sports to vent, and running, walking and basketball are recommended. Running can exercise the body, exercise and improve people's will and endurance; Walking can make people relax and relax; Basketball can make people learn to cooperate, enhance team awareness and collective concept; 4. You can find a close friend to get together, have a few drinks, confide in friends, and let the warm friendship dispel your inner boredom, depression and loneliness; 5. Chat with your family more, or play **, strengthen communication, enhance feelings, and tell your family that I love them; 6. Find a soulmate, let love sublimate your emotions, embellish your life, and illuminate your soul; 7. If there are any troubles that are inconvenient to talk to friends and family members, you can chat with strangers on the Internet, confide in them, and find new friends; 8. Keep a diary online and write down the bits and pieces of life; 9. You can go shopping with three or five confidants, maybe there are unexpected bargains or unexpected delicacies waiting for you, from which you can harvest unexpected surprises; 10. Study hard, find the joy of learning, make continuous progress, improve your academic performance, read more relevant books in combination with your own interests, plan your own professional and employment path, and plan your own life shed rent road; 11. You can properly ** your favorite TV series with your family, and at the same time, you can chat with your family and enhance your feelings; 12. You can read books that you feel and balance your interests, broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, enrich your knowledge, and lay a good foundation for study and work; 13. You can practice calligraphy, painting, piano or other musical instruments, cultivate sentiment and increase temperament; 14. Advocate green surfing, watch the news, play games appropriately, but not indulge, so that you can pass the time; 15. Do housework at home appropriately, so that you can not only maintain hygiene, but also get the praise of your family and the joy of life; 16, the sun is setting, come to the field to look for dandelions, facing the sunset, blowing gently in the evening breeze, that is my flying dandelions, hehe!!

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