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It is actually inappropriate to say that nothing is worthless, and as long as any question is absolute, then it must be getting farther and farther away from the truth.
Each of us has a unique life experience, there is a complex cause and effect relationship, and the ideology is changing all the time, whether it is important or not, it is not completely decided by one's own mind, not to mention that back then, there were many things, maybe I thought it was important two months ago, and now I feel that it is not so important. What this is, which is the essence of all things in the world, is called impermanence
Okay, it's time to digress more, so let's make it official.
One is money。In the past, our family was not wealthy, and many times from childhood to adulthood, I didn't have the things that others had, and I couldn't get the things I liked when I was growing up, it was nothing more than the poor economic conditions of the family. I saw a question in Zhihu before, is it better for girls to be rich or poor, and there is one that impresses me deeply, there is no poverty, only poverty.
At that time, I imagined that I would have a lot of money in the future, realize my wishes, enjoy myself, and desperately want to live a slightly richer life. But not anymore, money is something outside of the body, and material comforts are not so important to me now, if I have a little more money in the future, then use it to do good deeds.
The second is perfect love。When I was a girl, I also watched some ** and TV series, and I imagined some Mary Sue plots in my mind, and after slowly experiencing some things, I really didn't care so much about this aspect, it was really a matter of age, love is young people, and when you reach a certain age, you will have a career and a family, which is another warmth. Another reason is that, to some extent, I think that love in the world is narrow, selfish, and as long as you crave the other person's response, it is not great love.
Everything about the other party you are obsessed with is just a chance to meet, as long as the heart is full of goodwill, everything is good with fate, treat it well when you meet, and if you pass shoulders, you will become a guest of each other, think carefully about him and any stranger around you, what is the difference.
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What was something you thought was valuable back then, but after 3 or 5 years it became worthless in your heart?
As you get older, there are things that you thought were valuable at the time, and after 3-5 years, they will indeed become worthless in your mind. When I was in junior high school, I was particularly fond of collecting candy wrappers, and I was obsessed with collecting candy wrappers at that time.
When I was in junior high school, I lived on campus, and every week my parents would give me living expenses, and I would take one-third of my living expenses to buy candy, and because of this, I was very popular, and the candy I bought would be shared with my classmates, and I would explain to them that "remember to leave the candy wrapper to me." "They gave me a nickname:
Candy", I am still grateful when I think of this nickname, but fortunately they didn't call me: "Candy Skin". Of course, this is not crazy, whether I was at school or outside of school, whenever I saw a beautiful candy paper on the road, I would pick it up and collect it.
Anyone I know will tell them: "If you see a beautiful candy wrapper, remember to give it to me." "Every week I would take the candy wrappers I had collected, put them in a specially prepared box, look at them, count them, and I collected tens of thousands of candy wrappers at that time.
When I was in the third year of junior high school, the pressure of studying became greater, and I gradually lost the heart to collect.
One day when I was in my second year of high school, I had nothing to do to tidy up my bookcase, I found this big box next to the bookcase, I opened it and looked at it, I lost the hot love of junior high school, I even wondered what candy paper had to collect, and it didn't matter if it was useless to eat, I must have been a ghost at the time. I put this big box together with the scrap I wanted to sell.
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