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Before, I would give. But now, no.
In the past, I still knew too little about the dark side of this society, so every time I would feel that those beggars who slept in the open and did not have enough to eat were so pitiful, with no food and no place to sleep, although I was also poor, but compared to them, I felt that I was still very happy. So every time I meet a beggar begging for me, I will give some money, anyway, it is more or less a heart, at that time, I feel very kind.
But now, I think those beggars are cheating people's sympathy. With a lot of news reports, we gradually learned a term, professional beggar. They come out of their big houses every morning, squeeze into the subway or crowded squares, and then start the day begging in tattered clothes, but in the evening, they start to splurge again in bright clothes.
In fact, they are richer than most of us, and some have several houses in their names, and sometimes their income in a day may be higher than our salary in a month. So, please put away your sympathy for such beggars, because this will only encourage them to think that begging is a very profitable profession, and sometimes it will indirectly harm others. For example, those people with disabilities that we see, as we all know, a large part of the disabled beggars have powerful organizations behind the scenes to control them, so they have no choice but to come out and beg after being tortured.
I really feel heartbroken, why is there still such a dark existence in today's society? Those behind-the-scenes ** have no relatives and no conscience? But even if we sympathize with them and keep giving them money, how can it help them?
They still can't get money, they don't get freedom, but they will be tortured even more intensively, and then they will come out to cheat money. But if everyone doesn't give them money, will the organization behind them feel that this is not profitable at all, and will there be less such things happening in the future?
Of course, it is not excluded that there are real beggars, but they have hands and feet, can walk and jump, why do they have to trample on their dignity every day, kneel on the ground and ask others to give money? Can't you just find a serious job to support yourself? Who doesn't work hard every day just to survive?
They would rather come out and beg than earn money by laboring, well, since this is their own choice, then why should we pay?
But there are also some lonely and widowed old people, they have no ability to work, no children to support, and no one to help them, so they have to come out to beg, if this is the case, I think we really have to stretch out our own hands to help them, I think they need not only money, but also care, the care of the whole society.
In the face of beggars in society, I hope everyone can distinguish rationally, don't let our kindness become the first of the criminal gang, let alone promote the arrogance of the criminal gang!
I sincerely hope that each of us can help those who are truly in need, so that the world is full of love and care.
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Beggars are not uncommon, and there are them at the school gates every once in a while. If I had met a beggar, I would have given him money. Although he may not give a lot, he will definitely take out the change in his trouser pocket and give it to him.
Although it may only be one or two dollars, a few dollars is not much, but it also represents my wish for him to get through the difficult time.
Although I may not know him at all, and of course I don't know him, he may also be a **, a professional beggar, lame, physically disabled, or kneeling there, with a sign next to him, with all kinds of touching deeds pretended. But I don't think I can be stingy, and a person who puts down his dignity and kneels there just for these few dollars, whatever the reason, I should give him these few dollars.
On the other hand, if we are always thinking about whether others are true or false, we will seem to be stingy ourselves. Besides, these few dollars of change are not impossible for most people to come up with, and we don't have to feel sorry for the loss of a few dollars. Whether others are real beggars or not, that's not something I should be thinking about.
What if it's true? Can you help him through this?
If it were me, if I met a beggar, I wouldn't think about whether it was real or not, I wouldn't think about it. All I wanted to do was put a few dollars in my pocket there. I can't take out more, and I don't think I'll get anything in return.
It's quite wrong for us to be in the mood for a few dollars and wonder if someone else is really fake, even if it's really not a beggar, so what? It's just a few bucks.
Like many homeless people in Europe and the United States, they are not uneducated, or their quality is very low, they just don't have a job.
Although I don't know much about beggars, there may be tens of thousands of people who earn tens of thousands of dollars a month. But it doesn't matter, since he is kneeling there, he deserves our sympathy.
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I will give it when I haven't been exposed to too many criticisms of the dark side of beggars before. When I say the dark side, I am referring to some professional beggars, who are not really beggars, but who make money in this way.
Beggars are in our traditional impression of being pitiful and poor. So when they beg, we will help out of the establishment of a certain degree of moral conviction, which is the so-called "giving roses to others, and there is fragrance in the hands". I think a lot of people think that.
But now there is a lot of news that some fake beggars who pretend to be pitiful and pretend to be sick are begging. After they were debunked, they went to other places to continue begging. There are also others who forcibly hold you while begging and try to get you to hand over the money in your hands.
Do you think we still need our help? Isn't this very hateful?
You don't know what's behind them. Is it real poverty? Was he coerced into begging by criminals?
still has enough life, but he uses begging as a side hustle to earn extra money. Therefore, when I see a beggar, my mind is no longer the old "give it" thought, but "is he really a beggar?" This kind of thinking.
So now I will judge the situation on a case-by-case basis, and I will give money to him if he looks like a real beggar who needs my help, but if he looks like a deception, I will not give it.
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For example, on the question of whether or not to give money to beggars, I think we should start from two aspects, some professional beggars are specialized in their professions for the purpose of earning money, and the annual income of these professional beggars is several times to dozens of times higher than the annual income of normal workers, such as those who are really beggars, who have difficulties in life, especially those who are sick, who have been hospitalized for many years and live in poverty, and those who are old, weak, sick, and disabled should be given.
I can't figure out if this beggar in front of me is really poor or fake poor? Is it a real disability or a fake disability? In addition, in many cases, such so-called disabled people are specially collected from everywhere, or directly mutilate the abducted children and turn them into money-making tools for these lawbreakers.
Even if these disabled people are pitiful, the money you give away does not go directly to them, but all of them go into the pockets of illegal and criminal organizations. So in this case, the more you give them money, the more profitable it will be for these criminals, and they will use it as a kind of business, a kind of market, and it will exist permanently.
Faced with such a situation, beggars once became the object of "hatred" of people in society, not only unwilling to give love, but on the contrary, some hated their deception, defilement, and insult to love. Of course, if there are beggars who really need help, everyone is still willing to help and rescue. From different angles, some people say that since those beggars have put down their dignity and face, and kneeling on the ground on the street to pray, they should give some money, because their dignity should be worth so much money, but some people also say that these people have hands and feet, and when they go to beg, they are completely affecting the city, and if they are given money, they are conniving at them.
What is the reason?
But then again,"People with hair who will pretend to be bald"。The beggar's meal is really not delicious, his clothes are in tatters, he is covered in dirt, and his dignity is lost. As a citizen and a member of society, when we encounter beggars, when we cannot distinguish them, we would rather believe them as true than false ones, and give alms of one yuan or two yuan.
The first is to embody our basic morality of being a human being; the second is to let the beggars reflect the warmth of society; The third is to try to be at ease with yourself.
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Of course I will, because I see that the other party is very pitiful, although my life is not particularly rich, but I think that if I can help the other party, I should help the other party.
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Not everyone is an independent individual, they should be self-sufficient and want to earn money, they should go to work by themselves, not ask others for it.
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I won't give him change. Because I know there is a possibility that he is a fake beggar.
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If I meet a beggar on the street, I usually don't give him a helping hand and give him some change. When I met a beggar who really felt pitiful, the most I could do was buy him bags of food. This is done for several reasons:
One is that I think many of the beggars on the street are professional beggars, and the purpose is to make money; The second is that I think that even if life is really difficult, giving him change will not solve any problems; The third is that I don't usually have the habit of bringing change now, so I bought food for them. Let's talk about this topic in detail.
There are a lot of beggars on the streets and alleys these days, and I don't think they're really beggars. Now there are many professional beggars whose purpose is to make money. There are many such cases reported in the news, and they even have special people who drive them to their destinations and specialize in scams.
They make more money every day than even the average office worker. The social climate has changed, so I easily can't trust beggars anymore, and I won't help them anymore. After all, I myself am a very hard worker, and I believe that many people are like me, working hard, living under pressure, carrying mortgages and car loans, worrying about how much money to eat for lunch every day, and not having spare money to donate to beggars on the roadside.
In fact, even if the beggar on the street is really in difficulty, then I can't solve any problem if I give him change, and the most important thing he should do is to seek help from the civil affairs department. I couldn't give to him every day, and I felt that giving him money would make him enjoy this life of begging more. If he is not given money, he may seek other ways to make a living.
What's more, now I don't usually have the habit of carrying change, everyone pays with mobile phones. So when I encounter beggars on the side of the road, I can't bear to go to a nearby convenience store or supermarket to buy some bags of food for them. After all, bagged food can be stored for a long time and is relatively hygienic and safe.
In short, I don't usually help beggars now, because I have various considerations for myself.
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I will look at the situation, if the other person is young and has hands and feet, I will not give him a penny, if it is a very old person or a person with a physical disability, I will give a little bit.
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I'll give it to him, after all, I think I can afford a little change, and I don't want to see these beggars behave so pitifully.
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Yes, I will give him a little change with a helping hand, I think he is very difficult, and very pitiful.
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I will give money. Because I think the people who beg on the roadside are pitiful, and they wouldn't be like this if they weren't forced by life.
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I rarely give money to roadside beggars because I don't use cash at all, and I'm a lot of money now.
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I think we should give, whether the "beggars" are real or fake, I think we should give money out of an act of the heart.
If we can't tell whether the begging people are real or not, we should still give money, unless you are specifically sure that they are fake, then we can't give money, after all, our money is not blown by the wind, we all work hard to earn it.
When I meet a beggar on the road, I usually give money, not for anything else, just to make myself feel at ease. If you give him money, but he's not a beggar, then that's okay, it's not like being angry about it, you know, since the moment he kneels on the street dressed as a beggar, he's really a beggar.
But if you meet a real beggar, then it's all a good deed, because your purpose is to help them, isn't it?
When I used to play in the willow lane in Taiyuan, I met a lot of such people, and basically every time I went there, I would meet them. But every time I give them money, although the money is not much, but it also shows a little bit of my heart, which can be regarded as seeking my own peace of mind!
You think, they are already very unlucky as beggars, they have lost their labor, and can only beg on the streets like this, if it is more difficult for them to get money for handouts because of those pretending beggars, their lives will only be more difficult!
So I still think that beggars should be given money. Don't be sleepy with more money and less money, first, accumulate some virtue for yourself and seek a peaceful life in your heart, and second, make some contributions to those who live at the bottom of society, so that they know that the world is still full of love.
If you are walking down the street one day and a beggar stretches out his hand to beg for you, please give them a little money to save people from danger, and it is better to build a seventh-level floating slaughter!
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