Is it normal to want to not get married and have children, but not to get married and have children?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-21
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sorry, I don't support your approach.

    Because you don't think about the child at all, and you don't respect the child's father.

    Personally, I don't think your thoughts, emotions, personality, etc. are mature enough.

    It's good to think about it, but if you want to put it into action, a few more years.

    Single mother, is it as simple as you think? How can parenthood be so easy?

    There is a saying that it is better to be kind than to be kind! From this sentence, you should know what a difficult task it is to raise a child! Eating and drinking Lazar is a need that all living creatures have, but children are people, not a small pet!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The consequences of having children before marriage are quite serious, think twice, especially if you don't have a father can certainly find it:

    You have to have confidence in yourself, have confidence in society, you have to know that the good and the bad are mixed, so you can only say to yourself, pay attention when looking for it, I believe you can find the other half that really belongs to you, you have to know that marriage is sometimes not so scary, it may be that you haven't experienced too much now, people always understand after experiencing a lot, of course, I hope not to experience harm before understanding, but to find one carefully, seriously, take some time to find first, Find and ask when you are really tired, and then think about the question you are asking now!

    Have more confidence in life, have more confidence in yourself, and a better life will always come to you!

    Good luck ahead!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You want to meet an unusual man, such a man is generally a family man. Then you have a child for him, and you are willing to live with the child for the rest of your life. Is that so?

    Have you ever considered that since this child was born, he was not upright, and he was named an illegitimate child, because of you, he has to bear this burden in this life, is it fair to him?

    What a child needs is a complete and normal home, and if you can't give it to him, don't give birth to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Application Materials:

    1) Baby's Medical Certificate of Birth;

    2) "Birth Certificate" or "Family Planning Service Manual";

    3) Household register of both parents of the baby.

    Newborn babies are declared and registered.

    Procedures: 1. Within one month after the birth of the baby, the head of the household, relatives, caregivers or neighbors shall report the birth registration to the public security police station where the baby's mother or father permanently resides.

    2. After the police station audits, the birth registration will be handled.

    The proof of preparation has:

    1.The "birth permit" of the family planning department.

    2.A birth certificate of the child born in the hospital.

    3.Hukou booklet, marriage certificate, ID card.

    You can go to the police station where your household registration is located with the above documents. It usually doesn't take long to complete.

    Note: It is best to apply for a household registration for your child quickly, because once you lose a certain document, it will be quite troublesome to handle.

    The cost is about less than 100 yuan, and you need to pay a certain fee after a month.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Who hurt you like this, don't think about it like that, there must be good men.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The idea of just having children and not getting married is still quite weird, and it is also very irresponsible for children. After all, having a child is, of course, to give the child a complete family, and also to let the child grow up under the care of his parents. When children grow up, they need to get a hukou, they have to go to school, and they have to face a lot of things.

    Not wanting to get married will also have a great impact on the physical and mental health of the child, although the child will not express it when he is young, but his heart will also be lacking.

    Children can only feel true happiness and joy when they are raised by their parents together, and if they don't want to get married, they just want to have children, and they will let the children be lacking from birth. For such a thing is imperfect, and it can only be said to be whimsical. However, many young people are more open-minded and feel that the phenomenon of not getting married and having children is more common.

    Although it is said that it will not cause chaos in society, it will only cause psychological pressure on children.

    Nowadays, there are many young people who want to have a child to fulfill their wishes when they reach a certain age for their own careers. However, I don't want to get married, I am afraid of the constraints of marriage, and most of the divorce rates are relatively high now, and I will not regret and worry about the feelings of my children. In fact, if you want to have children, you still have to bear the right to co-parenting, and don't have some alternative ideas.

    Nowadays, there are many people who don't want to have children after getting married, which may be caused by the pressure of real life, but these thoughts are also incomprehensible to most people.

    In our country, if you don't get married and then have children, you will not be protected by the law, there is no guarantee. In the absence of protection, it is still necessary to seriously consider it. Only with a marriage certificate.

    Having children will be recognized, I just hope that everyone will not be careless in marriage, and be responsible for themselves and their children. After all, there are many problems to face when giving birth to a child, and only by sharing the burden will the child grow up truly and healthily.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Absolutely. Because life is very open now, Wei Meng only wants you to have your own children, and you can have children without getting married. But you need to discuss it with your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, you can choose IVF, or you can go to an orphanage to adopt one, marriage is not a prerequisite for having children.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, now you can get a normal household registration without getting married and having children, and these policies of the state are very good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think it's okay to have children without getting married, because it will cause you a lot of harm and will affect your life and work in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't want to get married and have children, it's not normal to have socks, no one doesn't get married and have children, let's talk about how to sell and have children if you don't get married, or do bad things, so people have bad gossip, so it's good to say that marriage and children are the right way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not wanting to get married and have children is definitely not normal.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divide people, divide people.

    There are still the vast majority of people around me who want to get married and have children, and there are few who don't have a second child.

    If you want to give birth, even if you are over 30, you will have a second child.

    As for those who don't want to have children and don't want to get married, of course, it's because people don't get any benefit from getting married and having children.

    Why is it thankless?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, you can, but you need to face pressure from all sides, which is not something that ordinary people can bear.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Human civilization has developed for thousands of years, and everyone wants to form their own small family and have their own offspring, so there is a kind of paranoia about the matter of inheritance. Especially in the eyes of our Chinese, marriage and childbirth to continue the bloodline of the family is the most important thing in every family, and there is even a saying that there are three unfilial pieties and no queen. However, this concept of inheritance is ignored and even disgusted by most people today.

    Nowadays, more and more people don't want to get married, but they don't want to have children. Let's start with the matter of not getting married. In the past, when we watched the older generation of people holding the hand of their sons and growing old with their sons, we felt that marriage was an incomparably beautiful thing, and we were full of beautiful visions for marriage, but now that more and more people are divorced, this longing is broken, and everyone begins to be afraid of marriage.

    Now everyone is busy making money every day in order to live, and there is no time and energy to fall in love, and a series of practical problems such as marriage needs a house and a car make it difficult for many people to bear. Some people may not be able to find the stool because their own conditions are relatively poor, and they even have no chance to choose. There are also some people who have a high vision of love and marriage and are reluctant to compromise, so they have been waiting, and finally they don't want to get married.

    Secondly, there is a reality about having children, and that is that there are children who are born to suffer. Because there is too much competition in society now, many families have poor conditions, can't afford to buy a house, and may even have problems in daily life, so having a child and coming to this world can only make him suffer. And it doesn't make sense for offspring to be born with huge vicious competition.

    If we can't even grasp our own lives, how can we think about having children? So it's not that I don't want to have children, it's that I can't afford to have children at all. Even if you can afford to give birth, you can't afford to raise it.

    Those who can barely afford it are difficult to help their children change their fate. This is actually the helplessness of modern young people who don't want to have children. So now there are more and more people who are not married and have children, which is indeed helpless.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now social work income is not **, but the cost of living is getting higher and higher, and young people are under too much pressure.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't want to get married, I don't want to have children, and I want to go to the chain for two reasons. On the one hand, the stove disturbance is too stressful and bears the burden of a family. It's a huge shed.

    So sometimes there are concerns. The other is that he is a relatively quiet person. I am used to being alone, and I don't want to be bound by my family.

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