In order to be with her boyfriend and stay away from her parents, is it a heavy sentence and a light

I wonder how much your boyfriend loves you? But the only people who love you in the world in this world are your parents, and anyone can abandon you, but your parents will not. I will never stay away from my parents, they will give me good food first, I would rather wear ordinary clothes for myself, but also buy me good ones, I can't stay away from them and make them sad.

Why are you staying away from your parents when you're with your boyfriend? It's okay not to live together, it's too much to stay away.

Communicate with your parents, ask them why they don't agree with you together, let your boyfriend behave, your parents don't agree, and he shrinks.

If you really can't do it, divide it, but the reason why your mother insists so much is because of Shenma?

This is unfilial, it's not easy for your parents to raise you so big, don't leave your parents because of a man, what can be discussed, others like you will say that you don't understand filial piety, maybe you are impulsive, and you will regret it after you calm down

Yes, after all, it was your parents who gave birth to you and raised you. No matter how much you want to be with your boyfriend, you can't stay away from your parents, they will be sad.

Yes, love is important, see where there is something unhappy or something, I feel worse than I die, but my parents, a handful of and urine, pull us to grow up, it's not easy, to put it bluntly, you can find it again if your boyfriend is gone, your parents are gone, you can't find it anymore, you can't get a marriage blessed by your family, and you can't be happy, and when you live your life tomorrow, you may not be comforted when you think about your parents when you come home when you are wronged.

It's the betrayal of the people -- you made a mistake. It's best to listen to your parents, or communicate well, why bother doing this, it's not easy for your parents to raise you so big after all. [Personal opinion].

I'm just, my wife's parents didn't approve of us being together, so she eloped with me, and finally gave birth to a baby before coming back, and now it's not agreeing.

You don't need to explain, it's good that you didn't make your parents angry, disobedient, it's you who suffers, and you also listen to some sweet words and lies, and then you will know that love is not as sweet as you imagined

Why parents would disagree is a question.

I've run out before, and I'm going to work.

This one isn't.

Copying what you like or don't like is not only the ideological realm, but also material and financial resources.

1. The man in the marriage room buys it in full, but he can only write his parents' names, which is very reasonable. You are not financially independent now, you can only be limited by this, not to mention personality independence, and the rest is not concerned, let you do it yourself, and the man's parents are appropriate.

2. The woman's parents ask the man to give another 100,000 dowry, is this money handed over to the woman to manage herself? Whether the woman uses the control of this money, although the parents are thinking about their children, they are afraid that the woman will not be able to leave anything behind.

But marriage is the biggest risk, if you husband and wife really have the same ideological realm and a high degree of united front, what are you afraid of?

Is it still necessary to continue? There is no need to continue, your family is indeed not suitable for the man's family to marry.

Landlord: I have a similar case around me!

First, you say give up, can you do it? It takes courage to give up!

Second answer: You will have a hard time together! You're ready for this!

You and your boyfriend have feelings together, **you can say let it go! If you are just starting out, I would advise you to give up!

You're going to have a hard time going forward, and I'll give you an analysis.

Because the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you is very direct! And not because of the little things! For example, you can't cook, and your conditions are not as good as the man!

It's equivalent to saying that you have the handle in the hands of other people's parents! The house must be in the hands of the man's parents! My friend is a lawyer, and I'm telling you, once you divorce your boyfriend, you must be out of the house!

Because the house is equal to the boyfriend's pre-marital property!

Your parents want a bride price of 100,000 yuan! The man's family is dissatisfied with you! Your parents are still looking for trouble!

It is equivalent to once there are disputes between you and your boyfriend after marriage! Your parents can't take care of it! Because young people don't have money in the first place, your parents will add fuel to the fire!

Give the man a handle again!

So in the end, my boyfriend's parents still let my boyfriend go! Say you're greedy! The situation is not in your favor, and because you have the handle in the hands of others, you must listen to your boyfriend in everything after marriage! The situation is not in your favor, and your conditions are not as good as others!

Whether you want to continue or not depends on your boyfriend's feelings for you! He loves you so much, and you suffer less! As soon as he quarrels with you, you're definitely in trouble! You have to obey your boyfriend in everything after marriage! These are lessons learned from my friends.

Choose one or two, it's up to you, I can only help you analyze!

Judging from your literal statement, these are the opinions and methods of both parents about your marriage.

The man's parents bought a house for you to make a wedding house, and the funder is the elderly, so how can the old man have the final say; Your parents want a bride price, and your parents have the final say.

The crux of the matter is whether the two of you are truly in love, supporting each other, understanding and tolerating, enduring hardships and standing hard work to face ups and downs, too materialistic, rational or thinking about the future is not a marriage that is compatible with each other.

I think you have to consider several key factors, which are also the key to your husband and wife's old age: first, whether both parties can tolerate each other and take care of each other; the second is all the ability and ability of both parties to make a living; The third is not to be disturbed by the prejudices of both parents or other external environments and keep going.

If your boyfriend is wavering, unfocused, assertive; Poor survivability, not from the beginning to the end, you can not support yourself, in the face of both parents or other trivial matters of life, the two are not one heart, whether now, or in the future, I recommend to consider the question of whether to tie the knot, not how to write the name of the real estate certificate, how much is the bride price.

If you don't like it, don't continue, girl.

I disliked you before marriage, I disliked you that, and I will get worse after marriage!

Moreover, after marriage, it is good that your husband's position remains unchanged, if you become with his parents, you will have enough to endure in the future!

When you have another child, you will feel more troubled!

Actually, some Bai families are.

In this way, the bad behavior of your boyfriend's parents can better set off your boyfriend's version of good, so that you can remember your boyfriend's good, and some parents are also well-intentioned. But I don't guarantee that your boyfriend's parents are the same

The issue of the bride price can be discussed with your boyfriend, but you don't intervene in front of your parents, take more and let your boyfriend go and tell your parents that when my friend got married, the woman's family wanted 120,000, he said that he couldn't take it out, and it dragged on for a long time. In the end, I took 60,000 and finished the job

There is a problem of moral mismatch.

Clause. 1. How did you meet, and did you really love each other? Answering your questions about what to answer will lead to a battle between your parents, not your own decision.

Clause. Second, since you are in love, you are going to prepare for marriage, then these are to be prepared, which is also a custom and a sense of ceremony, but you can discuss it, not that you want as much as you want.

Clause. Third, this is a class issue, that is, whether you can achieve the same frequency in your common communication, just say I love you and I support you. This is not enough, just like having dinner with a girl, the girl has no sense of paying the bill, and feels that she should be invited to dinner, which is also a form of irresponsibility for herself.

In the final analysis, if you have a bad academic background and a bad family, and you want to be with him, do you have the performance of learning and growth, just think that if the boy says I will raise you, you will lose your self-motivation. However, in the end, I still want to bless you, what conditions are not conditional, all conditions can be said.

In fact, I can't get used to the bride price money from my parents, the woman is the baby of the parents, so the man is not.

Back? If you want the bride price, you can answer, the man will pay it himself, and if you can't afford it, let the boy find a way, or you can figure it out yourself, don't toss the man's older generation, give you a life's hard to get the coffin from the pension? What about the equality of men and women?

Since you have raised the money, it is normal for the man's parents to ask for it. The so-called want to be together, the attention of others is for you to fight for yourself, you yourself have no ability, no money, no beauty, don't work hard to change, what's the use of praying for the kindness of others? If you love each other, change each other and fight for the future.

Hello, for your question of whether to continue to be together, others can't give you an answer, but one thing can tell you, even if you have a bride price of 100,000 genera, you can get married, your life in your in-law's family will not be easy, your boyfriend's family will still look down on you, if you love you and protect you after marriage, it's okay, if he is cowardly or more obedient to his mother, or changes his mind, you are finished, mainly depends on what your boyfriend does in the face of this problem.

I think it is necessary to analyze it from several aspects:

1. Your boyfriend.

Two simple points.

1. It is difficult for a marriage with a large gap between family background and identity to be happy for a long time. "Getting the right match" is a phrase of thousands of years of experience.

Inner 2, of course, there is happiness if the door is not right, but the premise is that you have the courage to get rid of the family (parental control) and truly live a world of 2 people.

In the past 100 years, the British royal family has produced 2 men who gave up the throne in order to marry commoners.

Everyone's choice is different, some people's parents don't like to give birth to a son, but it's been decades before, some people are divorced and quarreled, parents don't like to be together, there will be pressure, can your own character bear it?

Your situation is similar to mine.

baiah du, but you think you're zhi

Does boyfriend love you enough? Miss Dao, his parents' version.

If you believe that you are true love and can go hand in hand together, then what if you rent a house and get married now, you will desperately earn money and save money and buy a house by yourself, so that you will be justified in the future. Hope to adopt, believe.

It was originally a house bought by his parents. It doesn't matter whose name you write. You just have a good time with your boyfriend.

On your own parents' side, you can only communicate well.

If you really love each other, you will always use a way.

In the future, it is to copy life with your boyfriend, and not.

attacked his parents. Let's work hard, after all, this is not how the relationship between addicts and habits gets along. The parents of a girl treat their son-in-law as if they were their own sons, and the parents of boys treat their future daughters-in-law like this.

In fact, you still have to think carefully about whether your boyfriend is really good to you.

I hope there will be fewer such parents, or I hope you can let the parents of the two families discuss it well, and you can also discuss it with your boyfriend to see what he thinks, if it doesn't work, then choose to let it go, after all, you will still have to get along with each other's parents more or less in the future.

Yes, love and marriage are a matter of the two of you, I think if you cherish it, you and your boyfriend will work hard to get through it, and it's okay not to have a bride price, it's okay.

Don't dream of that mutual hatred, there are many contradictions, you love each other, and your thoughts are not highly unified, so you break up, because you are your most important bond.

"Five Elements Mountain" and "Eighteen Arhats Fight Wukong".

First of all, we have to consider why parents don't approve of being with their boyfriends. In today's society, men and women in love encounter this kind of problem in the following situations:1

The man's family conditions are not good2The man's home is too far away from his own home3In the future, the two will develop in different locations, and the 4 men have poor character.

But for most ordinary families, this kind of problem is caused by situations 1 and 2.

In response to situations 1 and 2, I think that the parents raised us with hard work, and they naturally don't want their daughter to follow a family with a bad family and suffer in the future. It is understandable that parents feel sorry for their daughter. As children, if we marry into a family with poor family conditions, or marry into a place far away from home, the opportunity to honor our parents in the future will naturally become very few, and when our parents are old, we cannot be by their side.

At this time, disobeying the admonition of his parents, regardless of being with the man, it must be unfilial. But blindly obeying your parents is also irresponsible for your boyfriend and this relationship. At this time, we have to see if this boy is worth going on with him.

If this boy is a hard-working and self-motivated person, then we can discuss with our parents, get their consent and work together with the boy, I believe that as long as we work hard, we will one day get what we want. But if the boy himself is not enterprising, we naturally have to listen to the advice of our parents and end the relationship decisively.

For situation 3, I think it depends on how the men and women coordinate themselves, after all, parents can only give you advice, and it is you who make the final decision, but in any case, the road is chosen by yourself, even if you are kneeling, you have to go on.

For case 4, I think we must have listened to our parents, after all, they have more life experience than us, and we may be carried away by love for a while and cannot distinguish between good and bad in a person. But when we know that the man's character is not good, we must listen to our parents. Break up with it decisively.

Finally, I wish all lovers in the world can overcome many difficulties and reap happiness, and do not be defeated by the so-called reality. Material money will always be there as long as two people are willing to work together.