How can we forget the past and how can we start anew?

Updated on society 2024-05-21
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars. When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Always trying to forget, in fact, is constantly reminding yourself, remembering this person, these things! As a result, the memory is deepened, and of course it cannot be forgotten. In fact, the best way is not to think about forgetting, at least not to forget deliberately.

    Go with the flow, divert your attention, and those people and things will slowly fade away. This is my experience. Let time dilute the unforgettable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Time can dilute everything, you have to believe in that, you can't forget it, don't force yourself, leave everything to time. If you deliberately forget, you will remember it more deeply, so don't deliberately forget. Since you want to forget, it means that the traces that have been left in your heart should be relatively deep, so that everything tends to be dull, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

    And forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, if you are emotional, it is best to find a thing or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

    What life is.

    It's definitely not what you want, it's just life that you ask, how can anyone in the world want to get sick? But we will get sick and we will also encounter traffic accidents, this is life!

    Whatever life gives you, you can take it! It may not be useful for a while, but it won't be bad in the end, which means that it may be tiring, but what do you get? Perhaps, you don't get anything from anything, only fatigue, fragility, and it's all pain when you go to **!

    With that perseverance, you will slowly become stronger.

    Let me tell you, a very simple truth: because you are the hope that you once desperately hoped for, and it cannot be fully realized, this is life, if you are afraid of betrayal, do not believe, if you are afraid of disappointment, do not hope that there will be no week if you hate Monday? Whether it's Monday or a relationship, it's time to come.

    It won't be Monday because it's raining? Don't you want the summer vacation to be over and it will always be summer vacation? There comes and goes.

    Summer vacation life. Love is like this, and it will come again.

    Letting him flow is bitter for me hopefully.

    In particular, hope should never be allowed to go out to see the world, it always comes to people who are poor and uneducated like me, occasionally, holding on to hope, although they can get ahead, but most of them are for the sake of making the coming despair, more brilliant and cruel setting of this world, there is no unfair reason for this world, if it is all the same, then what is the point? Life always goes through hardships, and it gradually becomes cold, and if you smile indifferently at every day, you will get better with a correct outlook on life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted. The best forgetting is to cherish everything that has been, only in this way can we learn to give up, to remember what should be remembered, to forget what should be forgotten, in order to transform the pain of the once split brother, so that it becomes an experience in life, a realization, a wealth, rather than pain, so that we can truly forget and face the past calmly.

    Let time go to the wounds of the past, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce about the pain and suffering, usually shouting and facing everything, you will have more energy to face the future!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Can't do it. The previous ones cannot be forgotten.

    Unless you're frustrated.

    It is enough for you to face your life and work with your normal mentality.

    And if you have had a relationship problem before.

    Or something else.

    I advise you to treasure it in your heart.

    Don't think about unhappy questions.

    Keep those troubled things in the back of your heart.

    When you are more happy than troubled, you will forget about the unhappiness.

    Did you know? If a person thinks about it, the time she has lived is only tens of thousands of days! Just tens of thousands of days! Then why not have a happy other side.

    The weight of the previous things that you slowly change over time in your heart.

    And just a shadow.

    When the sun sets, the shadows disappear naturally!

    Do you see what I mean?

    Friends can be happy to be right!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How to forget him.

    After falling out of love, we always like to ask:

    How can I forget him? I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't. ”

    If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

    Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

    Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.

    Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

    You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

    The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

    It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

    Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

    I've forgotten about him. ”

    However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

    One day, you'll forget about him.

    True forgetting doesn't take effort.

    One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all.

    That's forgetting.

    One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember.

    That's forgetting.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Try not to let yourself reminisce, many times people can't always live in memories, especially modern people, life is so stressful, don't have to be entangled with the past, you might as well let yourself start again. Look forward to everything.

    Have an understanding of your past, whether it is emotional or professional, be thorough, so that you don't get entangled in the past, you don't have to care about what the past looks like, everything is clean, so that you can start again.

    If you can't make a break with the past, you might as well write down the depression and feelings in your heart, write them in a diary, and then seal them up and start a new life, which can be regarded as an explanation to yourself.

    Find your own good friends or trusted relatives to communicate well, whether it is to let them guide themselves, or confide in them their suffering, anyway, it is necessary to talk about the unhappy things in your heart and the things that are too far in the past, so that you can feel better in your heart, and you will have a better start.

    Going on a trip, whether it is a comfort or a reward, will make people think better about life on the road, and it will also make us find a lot of things that we couldn't figure out before, which is helpful for us to start over.

    Go to a new place and start a new life. Many times, the best way to start over is to go to a completely new place, meet new people, and get a new job. This will help you start over.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are some things that you can't forget if you want to, but they can reduce your pain with the passage of time, and if you can't forget it, don't deliberately erase the memory, it's better to gently soothe him in the bottom of your heart, because tomorrow you will still have to ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Start a relationship again, because this is the way to take your attention away from the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't deliberately forget, because we can't do it, some things are destined to stay in your heart, lingering, why care so much about forgetting, those unforgettable memories that belong to you, beautiful and sad, if we forget them, we have nothing worth recalling. You will feel lonely and tasteless in this life.

    In fact. Time is the best medicine, and after a long time, it will fade away.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The past is gone, you have to go out, participate in more group activities, and then make new friends to make each day busy and fulfilling, so that you will start again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the person you love is someone you love the most, maybe you have never forgotten him in your life and want to forget someone, maybe it's not that simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them, if you deliberately want to forget, you may not really do it, right?

    If you want to forget someone, maybe they hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it once in a while, this is also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide love deep in your heart.

    Hope you are happy and happy!

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